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Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

300 episodes · Explicit

Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

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  1. Savage Lovecast Episode 1042

    · 53 min · Episode 1042 · Explicit

    A bisexual woman has started dating a lady for the first time. She doesn't feel much sexual spark. Is it because of the baggy, unflattering clothes her girlfriend wears? Is it ever appropriate to ask your doctor out?…

  2. After Action Report #52

    · 20 min · Episode 52 · Explicit

    Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY. At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye gazing along with impact play workshops,…

  3. Savage Love Episode 1041

    · 55 min · Episode 1041 · Explicit

    A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she break through these barriers and get some…

  4. After Action Report #51

    · 18 min · Episode 51 · Explicit

    What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife? Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out. Tell us about…

  5. Savage Love Episode 1040

    · 56 min · Episode 1040

    A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under…

  6. After Action Report #50

    · 16 min · Episode 50 · Explicit

    Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before… Hear all about her dusty experience. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm? Write up your experience (good or bad) and…

  7. Savage Love Episode 1039

    · 59 min · Episode 1039 · Explicit

    A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet. A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan…

  8. After Action Report #49

    · 21 min · Episode 49 · Explicit

    What's in the duffel bag? On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? After a bad experience at home, Julia had a…

  9. Savage Love Episode 1038

    · 59 min · Episode 1038 · Explicit

    We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing? A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his…

  10. After Action Report #48

    · 16 min · Episode 48 · Explicit

    Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Tell us your story, right away! Send it to…

  11. Savage Love Episode 1037

    · 50 min · Episode 1037 · Explicit

    Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently! A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt. On the…

  12. After Action Report #47

    · 18 min · Episode 47 · Explicit

    No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot. Hear her story, get turned on. If YOU…

  13. Savage Love Episode 1036

    · 46 min · Episode 1036 · Explicit

    Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load?…

  14. After Action Report #46

    · 19 min · Episode 46

    Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits Consent Form Waste bag How did it go? You'll find out. Send us your stories, your wonderful stories!…

  15. Savage Love Episode 1035

    · 57 min · Episode 1035 · Explicit

    A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to…

  16. After Action Report #45

    · 16 min · Episode 45 · Explicit

    Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product… Do you have a story of something you…

  17. Savage Lovecast Episode 1034

    · 54 min · Episode 1034 · Explicit

    Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be? Now that chastity play…

  18. After Action Report #44

    · 19 min · Episode 44 · Explicit

    Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event." What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse…

  19. Savage Love Episode 1033

    · 52 min · Episode 1033 · Explicit

    A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex…

  20. After Action Report #43

    · 18 min · Episode 43 · Explicit

    After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time. Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story. And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across…

  21. Savage Lovecast Episode 1032

    · 59 min · Explicit

    As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and…

  22. After Action Report #42

    · 21 min · Episode 42 · Explicit

    Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really? It’s a journey… Tell us all about your novel erotic…

  23. Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46

    · 46 min · Episode 43 · Bonus · Explicit

    Sex & Politics #46 Can we really change? Welcome to Sex & Politics! For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New…

  24. Savage Love Episode 1031

    · 52 min · Episode 1031 · Explicit

    A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner? A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial…

  25. After Action Report #41

    · 16 min · Episode 41 · Explicit

    What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out… Tell us about your brave excursion. Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to…

  26. Savage Lovecast Episode 1030

    · 53 min · Episode 1030 · Explicit

    Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up? A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a…

  27. After Action Report #40

    · 16 min · Episode 40 · Explicit

    “He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…” Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge. You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press play. If you had a sexual experience…

  28. Savage Love Episode 1029

    · 53 min · Episode 1029 · Explicit

    An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his non-consensual surgeries. Should he ignore them…

  29. After Action Report #39

    · 19 min · Episode 39 · Explicit

    Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet. Did Monica have a good time? What did she wear? And exactly…

  30. Savage Love Episode 1028

    · 54 min · Episode 1028 · Explicit

    Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably? A woman is trying to convince both her conspiracy-minded friend and her wife…

  31. After Action Report #38

    · 17 min · Episode 38 · Explicit

    In one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN. Don’t worry. She has a “robust vagina.” Do YOU have anything robust…

  32. Savage Love Episode 1027

    · 54 min · Episode 1027 · Explicit

    A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance,…

  33. After Action Report #37

    · 15 min · Episode 37 · Explicit

    Have you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard? NO YOU HAVE NOT. She did. And he liked it. Listen in. If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the details to Q@Savage.Love. This…

  34. Savage Love Episode 1026

    · 58 min · Episode 1026 · Explicit

    A man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he eventually convinces someone else to go down on…

  35. After Action Report #36

    · 18 min · Episode 36 · Explicit

    Did you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do! Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure. Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept fogging up, he persevered. Hear all…

  36. Savage Love Episode 1025

    · 56 min · Episode 1025 · Explicit

    A woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door. Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to…

  37. After Action Report #35

    · 23 min · Episode 35 · Explicit

    Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: "Everyone's…

  38. Savage Lovecast Episode 1024

    · 57 min · Episode 1024 · Explicit

    A woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad. Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish is feeling resentful that his kink so…

  39. After Action Report #34

    · 14 min · Episode 34 · Explicit

    Becca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go? Listen and then you’ll know. If you’ve recently tried a new product or ingested a substance to improve your sex life,…

  40. Savage Lovecast Episode 1023

    · 51 min · Episode 1023 · Explicit

    A woman who enjoys multiple orgasms doesn't understand why, physiologically, all woman can't come over and over and over. Like she can. A gay man wants a new word for the practice of rubbing dicks together, other than…

  41. After Action Report #33

    · 17 min · Episode 33 · Explicit

    Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.” Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google. After this…

  42. Savage Love Episode 1022

    · 49 min · Episode 1022 · Explicit

    A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats.…

  43. After Action Report #32

    · 16 min · Episode 32 · Explicit

    Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right? But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending. Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it…

  44. Savage Love Episode 1021

    · 53 min · Episode 1021 · Explicit

    A woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material. Should take this once in a lifetime…

  45. After Action Report #31

    · 16 min · Episode 31 · Explicit

    A man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ. But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does. Hear all about it. Want to share your first time doing something? Write us at…

  46. Savage Love Episode 1020

    · 51 min · Episode 1020 · Explicit

    This show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are…

  47. After Action Report #30

    · 22 min · Episode 30 · Explicit

    What a feel-good story for the ages. Victor managed to amass three sexual "firsts" in one potent session with a transwoman domme:Experience subspace- check.Have sex with a transwoman- check.Dick in the butt? Check!…

  48. Savage Lovecast 1019

    · 47 min · Episode 1019 · Explicit

    This just in! Man thinks he's special because he has a Madonna/whore complex! When a woman first started dating her boyfriend, he had a drinking problem, and made some bad moves. The caller told her friends and family…

  49. After Action Report #29

    · 16 min · Episode 29

    Anne thought that finding a professional to tie her up in exquisite Shibari bondage in her little, small town would be impossible. She was wrong! Hear all about her encounter in the rope top’s studio. Do you have…

  50. Savage Lovecast Episode 1018

    · 56 min · Episode 1018 · Explicit

    When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives? A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They…

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