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Jillian on Love

Jillian Turecki | Daylight Media

220 episodes · Explicit

Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships. ~~ Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us!

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  1. Unmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Standards: How to Know the Difference

    · 48 min · S3 E14

    Jillian dives into one of the most confusing parts of love—telling the difference between an unmet need and an unrealistic expectation. She breaks down how projection, attachment, and self-awareness shape what we ask…

  2. How to Get Over the Worst Heartbreak & Get Your Power Back

    · 34 min · S3 E13

    Jillian dives into heartbreak—the kind that feels endless—and explains why “just move on” misses the mark. She reframes breakups as a form of living grief and walks listeners through a practical healing plan: stop…

  3. Anxious or Avoidant? The Truth About Your Attachment Style

    · 43 min · S3 E12

    Jillian breaks down one of the most talked-about topics in modern psychology: attachment styles. But instead of sticking to labels, she challenges the oversimplified ways we use them—and offers a more grounded,…

  4. DO NOT BREAK UP: When Staying Is the Better Choice

    · 33 min · S3 E11

    What happens when you love your partner but the passion is gone? In this episode, Jillian dives deep into one of the most common struggles in long-term relationships — losing physical and emotional spark. She breaks…

  5. RUN: How to Know When It’s Time to Leave a Toxic Relationship

    · 34 min · S3 E10

    Sometimes, the hardest truth to face is that the person you love is the one you need to walk away from. Today, Jillian answers three listener letters from people stuck in relationships where love, addiction, betrayal,…

  6. How to Actually Manifest Your Soulmate

    · 24 min · S3 E9

    Jillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple…

  7. Steps to Heal From a Narcissistic Parent

    · 40 min · S3 E8

    This is my most vulnerable episode yet. For the first time, I open up about my relationship with my father and the deep impact it had on how I saw myself, my relationships, and my life. I share what it was like growing…

  8. How to Attract a Healthy Partner

    · 39 min · S3 E7

    Do you ever wonder why you keep attracting the wrong person? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the unconscious blocks that prevent us from finding healthy love. She shares why distrust and resentment poison connection,…

  9. How to Self-Soothe Your Anxiety with Sheleana Aiyana

    · 1 h 00 min · S3 E6

    Jillian welcomes Sheleana Aiyana—author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman—for a deep dive into conscious relationships, healing attachment wounds, and nervous system regulation. Sheleana shares personal…

  10. What I Do When I Feel Sad, Stuck, and Lost.

    · 28 min · S3 E5

    Feeling stuck, lost, or like life just isn’t turning out how you hoped? In this personal episode, Jillian shares practical tools to help you navigate life’s harder seasons—whether you’re in a crisis or simply in a rut.…

  11. Why I Broke Up With a Good Person

    · 31 min · S3 E4

    Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with…

  12. How to Date with Self-Worth and Confidence

    · 40 min · S3 E3

    Dating can stir up all kinds of insecurities, but it doesn’t have to cost you your self-worth. In this episode, Jillian walks you through seven practical steps to help you date with confidence, protect your heart, and…

  13. 5 Habits That Will Ruin Your Relationship

    · 31 min · S3 E2

    In this episode, Jillian shares five powerful relationship boundaries you should never cross if you want your connection to last. From why saying “I need space” can cause unintended harm, to how silent treatment erodes…

  14. How to Live in Your Feminine Energy with Sage Robbins

    · 1 h 03 min · S3 E1

    Jillian sits down with Sage Robbins—speaker, mother, and longtime wife to Tony Robbins—for a heartfelt exploration of emotional freedom, self-awareness, and lasting love. Sage shares how her own path has been shaped by…

  15. 3 Signs Your Relationship is Secure

    · 33 min · S2 E99

    If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells in a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Jillian unpacks what it really means to feel emotionally safe in a romantic relationship—and why it's absolutely…

  16. How To Heal From Betrayal

    · 27 min · S2 E98

    If someone hurt you, disappointed you, or failed to show up the way you needed—this episode will change how you see it. Jillian shares the truth that transformed her life: people can only meet you where they are, not…

  17. Why Good Men Still Cheat: Stefanos Sifandos

    · 54 min · S2 E97

    Today, Stefanos Sifandos joins Jillian to unpack the personal journey that led him to confront and heal his patterns of sex addiction and emotional avoidance. He shares openly about the trauma beneath compulsive…

  18. 3 Steps to More Confidence

    · 36 min · S2 E96

    You don’t have to fully love yourself to be in a relationship—but if you don’t value yourself at all, it will show up in how you love and who you choose. In this episode, Jillian explores how self-worth shapes our…

  19. The Habit That Destroys Relationships

    · 30 min · S2 E95

    What if the reason your relationship feels off has nothing to do with your partner—and everything to do with a pattern you don’t even realize you’re stuck in? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the one habit that…

  20. What Women Want: How to Ask Her Out (Without Giving Her the Ick)

    · 30 min · S2 E94

    If you’re single and over the dating scene, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks what’s really going wrong—why so many people are catching the ick, why emotionally available partners feel so rare, and how we can…

  21. Do Not Settle.

    · 32 min · S2 E93

    Today, Jillian breaks down the myth that you have to pick between chemistry and safety in a relationship. She explains how to keep attraction alive over time, why stress can distort how we see our partners, and the…

  22. The Psychology Behind Why You Keep Going Back to The Wrong Person

    · 34 min · S2 E92

    Have you ever found yourself giving someone yet another chance—even though deep down, you know they’re not right for you? In this episode, Jillian dives into the emotional patterns and deeper psychological reasons…

  23. When One Partner Changes & How to Grow Together

    · 1 h 19 min · S2 E91

    In honor of Men’s Health Month, Jillian sits down with Jeff Krasno and Schuyler Grant—co-founders of Wanderlust and longtime partners—for a powerful conversation about how a major health crisis became a wake-up call…

  24. 5 Things to Know Before Marrying the Wrong Person

    · 35 min · S2 E90

    Jillian opens up about five things she wishes she’d known before getting married—things that could’ve saved her a lot of pain. She talks about the pressure to rush into commitment, the importance of knowing your…

  25. How to Let Go, Move On, and Never Look Back

    · 35 min · S2 E89

    We’ve all heard it: you have to forgive to move on. But what if that’s not true? In this episode, Jillian challenges one of the most commonly held beliefs in the self-help and spiritual world: that forgiveness is…

  26. Never Chase Anyone: You Can't Convince Someone to Love You

    · 34 min · S2 E88

    Trying to convince someone to love you is one of the most painful patterns to get stuck in—and it can quietly destroy your mental health. In this episode, Jillian goes deep on the emotional toll of chasing love that…

  27. Mel Robbins: How the Let Them Theory Can Heal Your Relationships

    · 1 h 22 min · S2 E87

    Jillian sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack the Let Them Theory — a mindset shift that helps you stop trying to control others and start focusing on your own emotional wellbeing. They explore how the urge to control…

  28. What to Do When Your Partner Shuts Down

    · 35 min · S2 E86

    As part of Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode explores one of the most destabilizing relationship dynamics: when a partner shuts down during conflict. Jillian coaches a listener through the emotional toll of…

  29. How to Heal Your Relationship With Money and Scarcity with Lewis Howes

    · 1 h 05 min · S2 E85

    Your relationship with money is one of the most emotionally intimate relationships you have—and it’s time to start treating it that way. In this episode, Jillian welcomes bestselling author and host of The School of…

  30. The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns

    · 49 min · S2 E84

    We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and…

  31. Micro-Cheating: Why It Destroys Relationships

    · 50 min · S2 E83

    Today, Jillian dives into a topic that’s quietly damaging relationships everywhere: micro cheating. What counts as cheating in the digital age? Is following an ex on Instagram a red flag—or just harmless history? If…

  32. Attracting Your Soul Mate and Manifesting Abundance with David Ghiyam

    · 1 h 24 min · S2 E82

    Today, Jillian sits down with David Ghiyam—co-founder of MaryRuth Organics and the leading expert of the wisdom of Kabbalah—for a powerful and candid conversation about manifestation, healthy love, and creating a life…

  33. Jillian LIVE at 92NY: How She Rewrote Her Story & Reclaimed Her Power

    · 1 h 10 min · S2 E81

    In this special LIVE episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with Case Kenny at the iconic 92nd Street Y in New York City during the launch of her new book, It Begins With You. Together, they unpack the nine hard…

  34. Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People

    · 54 min · S2 E80

    If you feel like you're stuck in a loop of dating people who can’t—or won’t—go deep with you, this one’s for you. Jillian is diving into one of the most common relationship patterns: attracting emotionally unavailable…

  35. How to Become a Master Communicator with Jefferson Fisher

    · 1 h 18 min · S2 E79

    In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with renowned trial attorney and communication expert, Jefferson Fisher, to discuss the art of navigating difficult conversations with confidence, clarity, and…

  36. The Red Flag You Must Never Ignore

    · 45 min · S2 E78

    In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian answers three listener questions. She unpacks the red flags when a partner still longs for their ex, challenges a listener’s fixation on finding their "ideal" partner, and…

  37. Masculine and Feminine Energies Explained with Dené Logan

    · 1 h 06 min · S2 E77

    Today, Jillian welcomes couples therapist and author Dené Logan to explore how true healing in relationships begins within. Drawing from her new book, Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the…

  38. How To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung Pueblo

    · 1 h 12 min · S2 E76

    Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and…

  39. The Dark Night of the Soul: How to Move Forward After Life’s Hardest Moments

    · 54 min · S2 E75

    Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She…

  40. How to Love Yourself: 9 Lessons In Radical Self-Worth

    · 52 min · S2 E74

    In this special Valentine's Day episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares nine essential, yet often overlooked, lessons in self-love and self-acceptance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in…

  41. The Signs You're Dealing with a Narcissist: Dr. Ramani

    · 1 h 07 min · S2 E73

    Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these…

  42. Stop Chasing Love: How To Love Yourself by Letting Them Go

    · 52 min · S2 E72

    Today, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener…

  43. How to Make a Marriage Thrive with Valeria Lipovetsky

    · 51 min · S2 E71

    What’s it like to marry someone 18 years older and build a thriving relationship through life’s many changes? In this episode, Jillian sits down with Valeria Lipovetsky—model turned entrepreneur, mother of three, and…

  44. Find Healthy Love: How To Break Patterns and Heal Your Relationships

    · 52 min · S2 E70

    In this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with…

  45. From Anxious To Secure: How To Stand Up For Your Needs

    · 51 min · S2 E69

    In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from…

  46. Relationship Goals For 2025: Embracing Growth, Self-Worth, and Connection

    · 45 min · S2 E68

    As we close out the year, Jillian offers a heartfelt guide to self-reflection and personal growth, exploring key questions that illuminate how we navigate loneliness, shame, and emotional discomfort. She shares…

  47. The Black Cat and Golden Retriever Theory: Truth vs. BS

    · 57 min · S2 E67

    Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up…

  48. How Childhood Conditioning Shapes Your Love Life

    · 56 min · S2 E66

    Today, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and…

  49. Should You Stay or Go? When You Should NOT Break-Up

    · 55 min · S2 E65

    While it's often brave to leave a relationship that's not working, Jillian delves into when the most courageous act is to stay and work it out. She discusses the importance of understanding your partner’s needs,…

  50. The Unhealthy Relationship: How to Let Go of The Wrong Person and Choose Yourself

    · 54 min · S2 E64

    Jillian dives deep into the emotionally charged topic of letting go, especially when it comes to relationships that are very unhealthy, misaligned, or emotionally unsafe. Sharing personal anecdotes, hard truths, and…

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