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Jillian on Love

Jillian Turecki | Daylight Media

220 episodes · Explicit

Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships. ~~ Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us!

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  1. 9 Self-Love Lessons That Will Change Your Relationships

    · 38 min · S3 E64

    Today, Jillian shares 9 essential lessons in self-love, self-worth, and self-respect that can completely transform the way you approach relationships. From letting go of people who won't change and breaking the cycle…

  2. Everything You Need to Know Before Your Next Relationship

    · 50 min · S3 E63

    Finding healthy love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about knowing what truly matters, recognizing the patterns that keep you stuck, and learning to choose a relationship where love is mutual. In this…

  3. Constant Texting Is Not a Sign They Like You ft. Sabrina Zohar

    · 1 h 10 min · S3 E62

    What happens when your fear of losing someone becomes stronger than your fear of losing yourself? Jillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, host of The Sabrina Zohar Show and author of Why Am I Like This?, to talk about…

  4. Dr. Shefali: Heal the Childhood Patterns Affecting Your Relationships

    · 1 h 15 min · S3 E61

    Dr. Shefali is one of the world’s leading voices on conscious parenting—and this conversation goes far beyond parenting. Jillian sits down with the clinical psychologist and bestselling author to explore how childhood…

  5. 8 Things You Must Know Before Getting Married

    · 24 min · S3 E60

    Before you marry someone or build a life together, there are some conversations you simply cannot afford to avoid. Love and chemistry are important, but they aren't enough to sustain a healthy, lasting relationship. In…

  6. Choose the Love That Feels Safe, Mutual, and Real

    · 48 min · S3 E59

    Love should never require you to abandon yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores the courage it takes to walk away from the wrong relationship, trust yourself again after heartbreak, and open your heart to the kind…

  7. If Your Partner Does This, RUN

    · 30 min · S3 E58

    What if the person you love is actually making you feel unsafe? Jillian answers listener questions about jealousy, controlling behavior, conflict, and betrayal—and shares how to recognize when insecurity becomes…

  8. Functional Medicine Doctor: These Are the Warning Signs Your Body Is Overwhelmed

    · 56 min · S3 E57

    What if the stress in your relationships is affecting your body more than you realize? Jillian sits down with functional medicine expert Dr. Will Cole to explore the powerful connection between emotional health,…

  9. Why They Pull Away After You Sleep Together

    · 31 min · S3 E56

    In this listener call-in episode, I’m answering two questions that come up all the time in dating and relationships: Why does someone pull away after you sleep together, and what do you do when your partner has…

  10. The Top 7 Traits of All Healthy Couples

    · 34 min · S3 E55

    What does it actually take to build a healthy, lasting relationship? In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths about love that most of us were never taught—from how childhood coping strategies show up…

  11. Jillian’s Top 7 Dating Rules

    · 22 min · S3 E54

    Dating can make it easy to confuse chemistry with compatibility, mixed signals with potential, and the desire for a relationship with an actual connection. In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths…

  12. The Moment You Need To Stop Pursuing Someone

    · 41 min · S3 E53

    Have you ever found yourself making excuses for someone's mixed signals? In this episode, Jillian answers three listener questions that all point to the same truth: healthy relationships don't leave you wondering where…

  13. Your Attachment Style Is Not Your Identity

    · 34 min · S3 E52

    Have you ever wondered if you'll always struggle with relationship anxiety? If you've convinced yourself that anxious attachment is simply who you are, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks why your attachment style…

  14. How To Feel Secure Without Constant Reassurance

    · 28 min · S3 E51

    If you constantly find yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people or bringing overwhelming anxiety into your relationships, this episode is for you. Jillian breaks down why we stay stuck in painful patterns, how…

  15. The #1 Mistake You Can Make On A First Date

    · 38 min · S3 E50

    Why do some first dates never turn into second dates? And why do so many people shut down when relationships get hard? Jillian answers two listener questions that reveal what actually creates attraction, why chemistry…

  16. People Can Only Meet You Where They Are

    · 48 min · S3 E49

    Why do we spend so much time trying to explain someone else's behavior? In this episode, Jillian shares the mindset shift that can instantly change the way you experience dating and relationships: people can only meet…

  17. Can A Relationship Survive Bad Sex?

    · 29 min · S3 E48

    What do you do when you meet someone who seems perfect… but the sex is terrible? It's one of the hardest dating questions to admit out loud: Can a relationship survive without physical chemistry, or is attraction…

  18. 5 Habits That Quietly Destroy Every Relationship

    · 45 min · S3 E47

    Most relationships don't end because of one big mistake—they slowly fall apart through small habits we rarely notice. In this episode, Jillian reveals the behaviors that quietly destroy trust, the qualities that matter…

  19. Dating an Avoidant

    · 40 min · S3 E46

    You sent in the questions, and Jillian hand-picked three conversations that uncover what so many people struggle with in love. Is your jealousy really insecurity—or are your needs simply not being met? How do you stop…

  20. Are We Doomed to Lose Attraction to Our Partner?

    · 32 min · S3 E45

    Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership for exclusive content, coaching, and community to help you get the love you want. Link in shownotes.…

  21. The Sign It's Time To Let Them Go

    · 40 min · S3 E44

    We're trying something new. We asked you to send in your relationship questions—and you delivered. In these listener call-in episodes, Jillian personally listens to your submissions and hand-picks a few to answer on…

  22. Stop Abandoning Yourself for Unavailable People

    · 39 min · S3 E43

    Why do so many people ignore what they already know deep down in their relationships? In this episode, Jillian explores the difference between anxiety and intuition, the red flags people rationalize away, and the green…

  23. The 5 Red and Green Flags You Can’t Ignore

    · 43 min · S3 E42

    Everyone talks about red flags. But what about the green flags that actually matter? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the difference between anxiety, chemistry, emotional safety, and real compatibility—and why so…

  24. Why You Stay Attached To Someone Unavailable

    · 30 min · S3 E41

    Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian This episode is for anyone stuck in the painful in-between of a…

  25. Why Dating Feels Emotionally Exhausting

    · 36 min · S3 E40

    If you've ever felt completely fine when you're single—confident, healed, grounded—and then watched all of that fall apart the moment you actually liked someone, this episode is for you. Relationship anxiety isn't just…

  26. 5 Reasons You Feel “Chemistry” With the Wrong Person

    · 34 min · S3 E39

    Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from unresolved childhood patterns to moving too…

  27. Should You Stay or Leave? The Truth About When NOT to Break Up

    · 42 min · S3 E38

    Thinking about leaving your relationship? Before you do, Jillian challenges the idea that walking away is always the strongest move. She breaks down when staying—and doing the deeper work—is actually the more…

  28. You Can’t Make Someone Love You

    · 40 min · S3 E37

    You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t choose you, and why holding on hurts more…

  29. From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi

    · 1 h 08 min · S3 E36

    What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often…

  30. How To Heal Your Inner Child with Dr. Nicole LePera

    · 56 min · S3 E35

    Jillian sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera to talk about her new book Reparenting the Inner Child and the powerful ways our past shapes how we think, feel, and relate to others. They explore how childhood experiences…

  31. No One Gets Away With Betrayal

    · 23 min · S3 E34

    When someone betrays you, it’s easy to believe they get to move on with their life while you’re left carrying the pain. In this episode, Jillian challenges that belief and explains why no one truly “gets away” with the…

  32. The Difference Between Pursuing and Chasing

    · 58 min · S3 E33

    In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener untangle what he thought was anxious attachment and reveals what may actually be happening instead: he’s getting emotionally invested before a real relationship has…

  33. The 7 Habits of Happy Couples

    · 34 min · S3 E32

    What actually makes a relationship healthy—and why do so many couples miss the basics? In this episode, Jillian shares the seven principles that keep love alive, from the way you talk about your partner to the small…

  34. Why We Stay Too Long in the Wrong Relationships with Sarah Shahi

    · 1 h 01 min · S3 E31

    Actress and author Sarah Shahi joins Jillian for an unfiltered conversation about heartbreak, childhood wounds, and the patterns that shape the way we love. Sarah shares the painful story of her upbringing, how it led…

  35. Why Your Relationship Feels Harder Than It Should

    · 31 min · S3 E30

    The biggest threat to your relationship might not be your communication — it might be the story you’re telling yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores how negative narratives, overthinking, and fear-based…

  36. How To Heal Low Self-Worth and Anxious Attachment

    · 1 h 33 min · S3 E29

    What if the story you’ve been telling yourself — that you’re “too much,” too sensitive, or too difficult — was never actually true? In this listener call, Jillian helps a woman unpack a lifelong belief that she’s “too…

  37. Why You Don’t Have to Forgive Them with Dr. Ellen Langer

    · 1 h 19 min · S3 E28

    Jillian is joined by Harvard psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer, the pioneer of mindfulness research, for a conversation that challenges everything you think you know about stress, healing, and being present. Dr. Langer…

  38. The #1 Reason Why You’re Unlucky in Love

    · 30 min · S3 E27

    With Valentine’s Day around the corner, Jillian dives into one of the biggest obstacles to real love today — the growing resentment and distrust between men and women. In this episode of Jillian on Love, she explores…

  39. How To Choose Your Life Partner

    · 1 h 03 min · S3 E26

    Jillian works with a listener who’s spent most of her adult life in long-term relationships and is now learning how to trust herself in choosing love differently. After leaving a seven-year relationship and starting…

  40. Jay Shetty: When a Relationship is Beyond Repair

    · 1 h 24 min · S3 E25

    Jillian sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about what “the work” in love actually looks like — in real time. Jay shares why he created Messy Love (his Audible Original), where listeners get to “sit in the room” with…

  41. Red Flag: The Controlling Partner

    · 1 h 01 min · S3 E24

    What happens when a relationship starts with intensity, reassurance, and “I’ve done the work” — and then slowly turns into jealousy, control, and emotional chaos? In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener…

  42. Dating in 2026: The Rules Have Changed

    · 29 min · S3 E23

    Dating in 2026 feels harder than ever—but what if the problem isn’t you, it’s how you’re approaching it? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the biggest mindset shifts she’s seen actually work with her clients—from…

  43. Anxiety: How to Not Sabotage a Healthy Relationship

    · 1 h 06 min · S3 E22

    Have you ever been in a healthy relationship and still felt anxious waiting for it to fall apart? In this coaching episode, Jillian works one-on-one with a woman who can’t stop overthinking as her relationship moves…

  44. Lust is Not the Same Thing as Love

    · 32 min · S3 E21

    In this episode, Jillian reads from It Begins With You to break down one of the most painful patterns in modern dating: confusing lust, intensity, and obsession with real love. She explains why chemistry can feel…

  45. Stop Falling in Love With Their Potential

    · 32 min · S3 E20

    What if the reason your relationship feels so painful is because you’re loving someone’s potential instead of who they actually are? In this episode, Jillian unpacks why trying to fix or change a partner creates…

  46. Stop Chasing: How to Date with Confidence

    · 47 min · S3 E19

    In this special coaching episode, Jillian sits down with a 38-year-old listener who’s four dates into a new connection and stuck in her head about one big question: Is he actually interested, or just passive? Together,…

  47. The 5 Reasons You’re Attracted to Toxic People

    · 36 min · S3 E18

    Many people feel pulled toward someone who isn’t good for them, even when they know the relationship is toxic. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five core reasons we become addicted to people who mistreat us —…

  48. Is It Embarrassing to Have a Boyfriend?

    · 33 min · S3 E17

    Is it really “embarrassing” to have a boyfriend? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the viral Vogue UK article and the cultural shift that’s convincing women to hide their relationships. She explores the deeper shadow…

  49. 10 Hard Lessons That Will Change Your Love Life

    · 34 min · S3 E16

    In this episode, Jillian breaks down ten of the most important — and sometimes painful — lessons she’s learned about love. From why chemistry without safety creates chaos, to how habits shape happiness, to the truth…

  50. How to Know When It's Time to Walk Away

    · 54 min · S3 E15

    In this special live coaching session, Jillian speaks with a woman who is struggling to end her 17-year marriage to a good man—and wrestling with overwhelming guilt about breaking up her family. As they unpack the…

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