Trying Not to Care

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1. 81: Getting to Know Myself Better - 26 Questions to Discover Who You Are

   18 Sep 2023 · 46 min · Episode 81

   GET TO KNOW ME! I love to share my thoughts and advice with you on this podcast but very rarely do I share much information about myself. In today's episode, I'm answering 26 questions about me, so you and I can get to…

2. 80: Your Only Competition Is Yourself

   11 Sep 2023 · 28 min · Episode 80

   In today's episode, I talk about my experience with comparing my time in the podcast space to others. As I've compared my journey to others, I've noticed that the only time I find myself doubting my abilities is when…

3. 79: Trying Isn’t Embarrassing. Why You Should Go After What You Want, Regardless of What Others Think.

   4 Sep 2023 · 22 min · Episode 79

   If you’re worried about what others think, listen to this episode. After seeing a video of two women (who run a podcast) making fun of aspiring creators for posting online, I decided it was time for me to talk about…

4. 78: My Morning and Night Routine, Non-Negotiables and How to Build Your Own Perfect Routine

   28 Aug 2023 · 29 min · Episode 78

   Here's a glimpse into my morning and night routine! Social media is filled with so many aesthetically pleasing morning and night routines which are fun to watch, but they're not always realistic. Not everyone has time…

5. 77: Why I Like Being Like “Other Girls”

   21 Aug 2023 · 17 min · Episode 77

   We've all heard of "pick me" girls or girls who refer to themselves as not like "the other girls." After watching a video of a girl talk about her disinterest in Taylor Swift, I started thinking about why some women…

6. 76: Things I’ve Been Doing to Make Life More Enjoyable

   14 Aug 2023 · 32 min · Episode 76

   Recently I’ve noticed that I’ve been falling back into not so great habits of mine and honestly I’ve been struggling a little. When this happens, I know that the only way to get through it is to work through it. In…

7. 75: Listen When You Want to Feel Motivated or Inspired - Advice Session #5

   7 Aug 2023 · 38 min · Episode 75

   I’ve been a little behind on advice sessions and wanted to get one out there for my besties who are lacking motivation or inspiration. In today's episode, I answer your questions about • Lowering your screen time •…

8. 74: Get Better Not Bitter. Breaking the Cycle of Hurt People Hurt People

   31 Jul 2023 · 20 min · Episode 74

   Lately I've been reflecting on past experiences of mine where someone has hurt me. There's been plenty of times where I've fought fire with fire and tried to get even, but it never got me far. We've all heard the…

9. 73: Things to Stop Saying to Yourself. Why Your Affirmations Aren’t Working

   24 Jul 2023 · 25 min · Episode 73

   Positive self talk is so important but it can only do so much when you don't believe the words you're saying. In today's episode I talk about why your affirmations aren't working and things you need to stop saying to…

10. 72: Discovering Your Purpose

    17 Jul 2023 · 24 min · Episode 72

    In my early twenties, I felt extremely lost and confused. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I felt like everyone had it figured out while I wasted away. Now at 26, I can confidently and…

11. 71: Forgiving Yourself. Turning ”I Should Have Known Better” to ”Now I Know Better”

    10 Jul 2023 · 16 min · Episode 71

    It's very easy to beat yourself up/judge yourself for things that have happened in your past. As someone who has difficulty letting go of past mistakes, this episode is a gentle reminder to me and you to not hold the…

12. 70: The Pressure to Drink and Managing Hangxiety

    3 Jul 2023 · 29 min · Episode 70

    With the Fourth of July and summer events, drinking may be a hot topic of discussion within you and your friend group. I wanted to put out an episode where I talk about the pressure of drinking alcohol and why you…

13. 69: 5 Things That Are Making You Unattractive

    26 Jun 2023 · 30 min · Episode 69

    In today's episode I talk about 5 things that I think make someone unattractive. We all can see when someone is physically attractive but I truly believe someone's behavior and how they treat others also influence…

14. 68: Healed Girl Summer

    19 Jun 2023 · 23 min · Episode 68

    Forget about hot girl summer, it's healed girl summer. This summer we're putting ourselves first, embracing who we are, leaving bad company and FOMO behind, and doing what we want. In this episode I talk about -…

15. 66: Finding Joy in the Little Things

    5 Jun 2023 · 26 min · Episode 66

    The feel good episode of your dreams. Today I talk about the little things in life that I love so much. I think gratitude is so important and I want this episode to remind you to find joy in the little things. Ava’s…

16. 65: Navigating Your 20s: Strict Timelines, Living on Your Own, Saving Money, Loving Your Body and Balancing Alone Time and Friendships - ADVICE SESSION #4

    29 May 2023 · 39 min · Episode 65

    ADVICE ON BEING IN YOURS 20S In today's episode, I answer your questions on how to navigate your 20s. This episode covers: - Feeling like you're behind in your 20s. Not being "on track" because you aren't doing…

17. 64: You’re Not Crazy for Expecting Respect: Setting Boundaries, Knowing When Enough Is Enough and Knowing What You Want

    22 May 2023 · 19 min · Episode 64

    In today's episode I talk about setting boundaries and sticking to them (despite others being unhappy about it.) We often get push back when we set boundaries, especially in friendships and relationships, which is why…

18. 63: Change Your Lifestyle to Change Your Life: From Envisioning Your Dream Life to Actually Living It

    15 May 2023 · 30 min · Episode 63

    How to take control of your life when you're feeling stuck and unsatisfied. I give you a list of things that I believe get in the way of living your best life: 1. Adjusting your screentime + what you're consuming…

19. 62: Getting Yourself Out of a Funk, Finding Balance and Allowing Yourself to Rest

    8 May 2023 · 22 min · Episode 62

    Listen to this if you're in a slump. In today's episode I talk about navigating life through the highs and lows, realistic ways to get out of a funk and finding balance between work and rest. This episode is sponsored…

20. 61: 6 Ways to Better Your Mental Health

    1 May 2023 · 20 min · Episode 61

    Listen to this if you’re struggling with your mental health. To kick off Mental Health Awareness Month, we are talking about 6 things that can improve your mental health. This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On…

21. 60: The Truth About Fear of Missing Out: Turning FOMO Into Joy of Missing Out

    24 Apr 2023 · 38 min · Episode 60

    I have been struggling hard with Coachella FOMO which got me thinking about the fear of missing out and why it happens. In today's episode I talk about FOMO, what it feels/looks like, the reasoning behind why it…

22. 59: For the Girlies Who Can’t Stop Oversharing

    17 Apr 2023 · 23 min · Episode 59

    Listen to this episode if you are someone who overshares a lot. I talk about the reasons behind why we overshare, why we feel regretful and embarrassed for sharing too much and why oversharing isn't a bad thing. This…

23. 58: Hot Girls Cry on Their Birthday - Friendship Struggles, Disappointment and Getting Older

    3 Apr 2023 · 20 min · Episode 58

    Welcome to my birthday therapy session! In today's episode I talk about why I struggle so much with my birthday. I cover why birthdays are hard, having high expectations, feeling lonely, anxiety about aging and my new…

24. 57: Moving on From an Ex, Hookups, Relationships and First Loves - ADVICE SESSION #3

    27 Mar 2023 · 24 min · Episode 57

    ADVICE ON ALL THINGS RELATIONSHIP AND SITUATIONSHIP RELATED This episode covers: - How to move on from an ex - Regretting past decisions and hookups - Do guys settle when they're ready or in love? - Do you like him or…

25. 56: Overthinking Is Ruining My Life - Why We Overthink, the Damage Overthinking Does and How to Stop Doing It

    20 Mar 2023 · 21 min · Episode 56

    In today's episode I talk about overthinking, why we do, why we shouldn't and how we can stop. This episode is sponsored by Headspace: Try Headspace FREE for 30 days This episode is sponsored by Dipsea: 30 day free…

26. 55: Maybe I'm Too Emotional

    13 Mar 2023 · 21 min · Episode 55

    Listen to this if you've ever been told you're too sensitive or too emotional. This one is for my besties who feel too much/feel as if they are too much. In today's episode I talk about the heaviness that comes with…

27. 54: Your Hometown and High School Aren’t Forever

    6 Mar 2023 · 24 min · Episode 54

    If you're struggling with letting go of the past, having difficulty seeing the light at the end of the tunnel or are outgrowing the people and space around you - listen to this episode. I talk about how the people and…

28. 53: HOT GIRL ADVICE/Q&A: Mental Health, How to Be Confident, Body Image, Routines and Self Care - ADVICE SESSION #2

    27 Feb 2023 · 47 min · Episode 53

    ADVICE ON ALL THINGS HOT GIRL RELATED This episode covers: - How to emotionally support yourself - Ways to manage anxiety - Forgiving yourself - Self confidence - Struggles with body image - Embracing your skin/dark…

29. 52: Why You Can't Change Your Life - Creating New Habits, Visualizing Your Higher Self and Leaving Your Comfort Zone

    20 Feb 2023 · 20 min · Episode 52

    Listen to this episode if you find yourself stuck in the same routine and are questioning why nothing in your life is evolving. In this episode I talk about what's holding you back, creating new habits, visualizing and…

30. 51: Listen if You’re Heartbroken - Breakups and Rejection, Having Love for Someone Who No Longer Deserves It and Moving On

    13 Feb 2023 · 36 min · Episode 51

    If you just got your heartbroken or you're having a hard time getting over someone, listen to this episode. In today's episode I talk about: - Feeling broken after a breakup - Having love for someone who no longer…

31. 50: How to Date Yourself - Self Love, Past Relationships, Self Worth, Love Languages and Ways to Love Yourself

    6 Feb 2023 · 43 min · Episode 50

    With February being the month of love, this episode is a reminder to show yourself love before giving it away to someone else. We're all so quick to pour our time and energy into others and make sure they feel loved,…

32. Toxic Friends, Outgrowing Friendships, Letting Go and Making New Friends - ADVICE SESSION #1

    30 Jan 2023 · 43 min

    THE FIRST ADVICE SESSION FOR TRYING NOT TO CARE!!! The last episode of every month will be an advice/Q&A where I answer your questions and give you my opinion/advice on topics you want to hear about. The first topic I…

33. 48: Lucky Girl Syndrome

    23 Jan 2023 · 28 min · Episode 48

    YOU ARE SO LUCKY!!!! In today's episode we talk all about lucky girl syndrome and fixing your mindset. We go into what lucky girl syndrome is, how to use it and how to change your life with it. - Believing in yourself…

34. 47: In My Flop Era

    16 Jan 2023 · 27 min · Episode 47

    In today's episode I talk about how to get out of your flop era. I give you a list of tips and tricks on how I overcome a funk and how I make myself feel better. Make sure to check out my Instagram and TikTok to enter…

35. 46: The Art of Not Caring

    9 Jan 2023 · 35 min · Episode 46

    We're back besties! The first episode of 2023!!! With this being the first episode of 2023, I figured it was only right to go back to our roots and talk about not caring. In this episode, I talk about: - why do we care…

36. 45: New Year New Me

    26 Dec 2022 · 26 min · Episode 45

    hi besties! I hope the holidays are treating you well. Before we begin the new year, let's dive into what needs to stay and what needs to go for 2023. What will you be leaving behind in 2022 to make 2023 the best year…

37. 44: I'm My Biggest Hater

    19 Dec 2022 · 31 min · Episode 44

    With the year coming to a close, I've been reflecting on my accomplishments while also reflecting on what I haven't accomplished. While looking back on this year, I realized how often I fixate on "the bad" and…

38. 43: Holiday Struggles

    12 Dec 2022 · 38 min · Episode 43

    it's the most wonderful time of the year......but is it really? today's episode I talk about everything not so holly and jolly during the holiday season. I talk about feeling lonely, family problems/pressures, food…

39. 42: Am I the Problem?

    5 Dec 2022 · 24 min · Episode 42

    hi besties! today I wanted to talk and reflect on feeling like you're too hard to digest/like you have to work harder than others to be liked. I also touch on reflecting on whether or not you're the reason why…

40. 41: Things I'd Tell My Younger Self

    28 Nov 2022 · 37 min · Episode 41

    hello!!!! today's episode is a super special one. I talk about everything I wish I could tell younger me and give you some big sister advice. I cover high school, competing with other girls, boy problems, breakups,…

41. 40: Changing the Narrative and Proving People Wrong

    21 Nov 2022 · 20 min · Episode 40

    HELLO BESTIES! today's episode is a short one but definitely one of my favorites. I talk about my experience and struggles with breaking an image given to me by my peers. It's hard to want to grow and be better when…

42. 39: Learning to Let Go and Welcoming Change

    14 Nov 2022 · 26 min · Episode 39

    Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp get 10% off your first month: https://www.betterhelp.com/TNTC today's episode I talk about learning to let go of the familiar and welcoming in bigger and better LEARNING TO…

43. 38: It's Cool to Not Be Cool

    7 Nov 2022 · 19 min · Episode 38

    today's episode is all about how to ACTUALLY BE cool - avoiding being disliked - trends and popularity - losing track of who you are - the more you fit in the less you stand out - being you is cool let's be besties! my…

44. 37: Backstabbers

    31 Oct 2022 · 18 min · Episode 37

    happy halloween besties! today's episode we're talking about backstabbers - my own experience - why being backstabbed hurts so much - being expected to get over it - how to move on from being betrayed This podcast is…

45. 36: In My Selfish Era

    24 Oct 2022 · 40 min · Episode 36

    this episode is for my besties who are ready to enter their selfish era and put more focus on themselves instead of everyone else around them everything from - why being so selfless can actually hurt you - why you…

46. 35: Being Delusional Is Fun

    17 Oct 2022 · 44 min · Episode 35

    today I talk about how I owe my recent success to my mindset shift. I truly believe the more you think unrealistically and go after what you truly want, regardless of how unattainable it seems, the better chance you…

47. 34: Situationships

    10 Oct 2022 · 43 min · Episode 34

    I think this is my most requested episode....so I hope I hit all the points and did it justice. today we talk about situationships ♡ - the confusion in situationships - why they don't want to date you - the disrespect…

48. 33: Cool Girl Fall + New Beginnings

    3 Oct 2022 · 32 min · Episode 33

    hi besties <3 happy October! to welcome in the new month I wanted to talk about how to use this month as a fresh start to reinvent yourself and to become a better version of you. in this episode I talk about: • why I…

49. 32: Hot Girl Mindset

    26 Sep 2022 · 22 min · Episode 32

    hi besties!!!! I hope you enjoy today's episode - being insecure growing up - being hot comes from confidence - how to be confident - being unapologetically yourself let me know what you think! DM me on instagram:…

50. 31: The Bare Minimum + Higher Standards

    19 Sep 2022 · 20 min · Episode 31

    happy monday besties･:*★:*:･ﾟ☆ today's episode I talk about - having low standards - changing what you allow from others - raising your standards might make you feel lonely - how to higher your standards let me know…