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The Imperfects

Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

300 episodes

We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

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  1. How To Audit Your Mental Load with Prof. Leah Ruppanner

    · 1 h 08 min · S8 E40

    It’s time we talked about the mental load. Again. 💌 To join our journaling club, with 9,900+ others, subscribe to my imperfect email - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/ Consider this a…

  2. “MND Took Everything” Matt Nable on Grief, Depression & What Really Matters

    · 1 h 10 min · S8 E36

    In the end, Matt Nable wished his brother would give in. Motor neurone disease had taken everything, except his brother’s will to live. 💌 To join our journaling club, with 9,000+ others, subscribe to my imperfect…

  3. Zoë Foster Blake - Perimenopause, ADHD & Everything That Helped with Dr Fatima Khan

    · 1 h 30 min · S8 E38 · Explicit

    This is not your mother’s perimenopause. 💌 To join our journaling club, subscribe to my imperfect email - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/ Joined by guest host Zoë Foster Blake, and Dr…

  4. How OCD Hijacks Your Brain with Angie Greene

    · 1 h 11 min · S8 E37 · Explicit

    Angie’s OCD obsessions are that she has committed her worst, most insidious, fears. 💌 Join 9,500+ others in our newsletter community - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/ Officially diagnosed…

  5. Luke Bateman - Gambling With My Life

    · 1 h 16 min · S8 E36

    Mid 20's and $250,000 in debt. Gripped by a gambling addiction. How do you recover? 💌 Join 9,500+ others in our newsletter community - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/ From the outside, it…

  6. Dr Emily - The Phenomenon That Is Imposter Syndrome

    · 1 h 12 min · S8 E35

    Do you live in fear of being found out as a fraud? That despite your years of competency, achievement and high performance someone will uncover the truth? Well, you’re in the right place. Our resident psychologist Dr…

  7. Andy Lee - DO NOT Listen To This Episode!

    · 1 h 10 min · S8 E34

    When he was 15, Andy Lee’s mum forgot who he was. 💌 Join 9,400+ others in our newsletter community - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/ Given only two weeks to live, Andy tells Hugh, Ryan and…

  8. My Brilliant Career Took Years of Rejection

    · 1 h 16 min · S8 E33

    Have you ever watched the person you love most get everything you ever wanted? Did you harden around envy, or shrink with comparison? Were you able to find happiness for their success? Philippa Northeast, Logie…

  9. I Tried No-Sleep-Parenting For 10 Months

    · 1 h 09 min · S8 E32

    What impact does sleep deprivation really have on your wellbeing? What about your parenting? What about your identity? Matt D’Avella has amassed over 4 millions subscribers on YouTube undertaking 30-day wellness…

  10. The childhood struggle that inspired the world’s greatest fish chef - for reel!

    · 1 h 07 min · S8 E30

    How does having cancer as a child impact the way you live as an adult? Uber successful chef and restauranteur Josh Niland doesn’t do things in halves (no, literally, have you read his book The Whole Fish?). From…

  11. Dr Emily - Tough Love vs Shame

    · 1 h 20 min · S8 E30

    Is tough love to blame for our shame? 💌Join 9,200+ people getting a Dr Emily values worksheet and takeaways from this week’s episode in our newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy We all know that parent or coach on the…

  12. The Nature of Being Alone

    · 1 h 05 min · S8 E29

    Can nature help us to feel less alone? 💌Join 9,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/…

  13. Briggs - What Racism Feels Like (feat. Nazeem Hussain)

    · 1 h 21 min · S8 E28

    What is racism, really? 💌Join 9,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - https://www.theimperfects.com.au/sign-up-to-our-newsletter/ Adam Briggs, rapper,…

  14. Sex for Normal People with Ita O'Brien

    · 1 h 02 min · S8 E27

    Sex is sometimes a taboo topic. Not today! Intimacy expert Ita O’Brien tells us all about the new normal in the bedroom, and how she’s introduced it to Hollywood. 💌Join 9,000+ people getting our takeaways and…

  15. Our Phone Odyssey Begins

    · 1 h 13 min · S8 E25

    Could you live without your phone for a month? 🩵To hear more episodes like this, join A Little More Imperfects! Patreon - www.patreon.com/theimperfects Apple - http://apple.co/theimperfects This week it's just the…

  16. Dr Emily - You, Me & Jealousy

    · 1 h 05 min · S8 E25

    To be jealous is to be human. It is what you do with that feeling that counts. 💌Join 8,300+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Our…

  17. Joe Brumm & Hamish Blake - A Bluey-print For Dads

    · 1 h 30 min · S8 E24

    Want can you learn from playing with a child? In today's Academy of Imperfection, Bluey creator Joe Brumm joins us (for real life), with Hamish Blake stepping in as guest host. 💌Join 8,300+ people getting our…

  18. Janelle Booker & Hamish Blake - The ADHD Playbook for Parents

    · 1 h 43 min · S8 E23

    How do you raise a child whose brain works differently? This episode is for parents of kids with ADHD. And parents who have ADHD. And people who don’t have a diagnosis, but would consider themselves ‘fast and loose’.…

  19. Jimmy Wales (Wikipedia) - In Trust We Trust

    · 1 h 01 min · S8 E22

    How do you choose who to trust? And how do you show others that you are trustworthy? 💌Join 8,100+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy…

  20. Dr Emily - You're Full of Grit

    · 1 h 15 min · S8 E21

    Do you think you have grit? 💌Join 8,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Research has shown that the most common characteristic of…

  21. Ellyse Perry - It Starts With Trying

    · 1 h 19 min · S8 E20

    At just 16, Ellyse Perry was the youngest person to ever debut for the Australian International Cricket team. 13 days later, Ellyse debuted for the Matildas. 💌Join 7,800+ people getting our takeaways and favourite…

  22. We're Doing a One-Off Live Show!

    · 9:50 · S8 E19 · Bonus

    We have a BIG announcement. August 19. Balwyn Cinema. Our first ever live podcast recording. With Hugh, Ryan, Josh, Dr Emily, and you? ARE YOU AS EXCITED AS WE ARE?! And you could win your way there! THE ULTIMATE…

  23. Ryan Holiday - A Stoic Life & Death

    · 1 h 15 min · S8 E18

    We can’t control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond. At least, that’s what the Stoic’s say. 💌Join 7,500+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter…

  24. Joel Pearson - I Think, Therefore AI

    · 1 h 29 min · S8 E17

    In the age of AI, do you feel that your future is more uncertain? 💌Join 7,500+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy In today’s Academy…

  25. Dr Emily - What To Do With Envy

    · 1 h 19 min · S8 E16

    What is your envy telling you? 💌Join 7,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Dr Emily Musgrove, our resident psychologist, is back…

  26. Reuben Williams - What Happened After My Sexual Assault

    · 1 h 28 min · S8 E15

    Can you think of a moment that turned your life into ‘before’ and ‘after’? For Reuben Williams, that moment was not his sexual assault, rather, the decision he made in the aftermath to pursue justice. 💌Join 7,000+…

  27. Jan Fran - Wars For Your Attention

    · 1 h 11 min · S8 E14

    In a world so divided by hate, how can we choose to show love? This week we are joined by journalist Jan Fran, who unpacks the horror of witnessing horror. 💌Join 6,500+ people getting our takeaways and favourite…

  28. Dr Edna Lekgabe - New Baby… New Brain… Matrescence.

    · 1 h 35 min · S8 E13

    According to perinatal and reproductive psychiatrist Dr Edna Lekgabe, matrescence is the motherhood equivalent of adolescence. Puberty 2.0, if you will. 💌Join 6,500+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments…

  29. Shane Jacobson - Permission To Laugh

    · 1 h 34 min · S8 E12

    How do you make sure your kids are proud of who they are? 💌Join 6,500+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Propelled to international…

  30. Esther Perel - It’s Not Them, It’s You

    · 1 h 11 min · S8 E11

    Are you stuck, focusing on what's wrong in your relationship? Deeply embedded in the work of intimacy, desire and relationships, psychotherapist and best-selling author Esther Perel, ask us to take a look at ourselves…

  31. How To Deal With Overwhelm: A Psychologist's 4-Step Method

    · 1 h 02 min · S8 E10

    Looking for strategies to help deal with the overwhelm of, well, everything? Same. Dr Emily, our resident psychologist, is back in the studio to talk through overwhelm; how to greet it, how to get through it, and how…

  32. Hamish Macdonald - After The Facts

    · 1 h 26 min · S8 E9

    Is it true that we live in a world without facts? With AI becoming increasingly intertwined with our lives, and fake news infiltrating our screens, where do you go for truthful information and how do you know what to…

  33. Bri Lee - Babies+Climate=Anxiety

    · 1 h 21 min · S8 E8

    Is climate anxiety affecting your decision to have kids? 💌Join 6,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Joining us in the…

  34. Ben Crowe - Play School

    · 1 h 23 min · S8 E7

    When Ben Crowe, world-renowned professional mentor and leadership coach, tells us his favourite mantra, we listen. “I am enough no matter what, but I’m not done yet”. 📺 If you’d like to watch this full episode on…

  35. Matt Preston - Only 14 Summers Left

    · 1 h 26 min · S8 E6

    According to Matt Preston, he only has 14 more summers. And he’s determined to make the most of them. 💌Join 5,500+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter -…

  36. Dr Emily - Acceptance, That's Radical

    · 1 h 16 min · S8 E5

    Pain is inevitable, but suffering does not have to be. 💌Join 5,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Dr Emily Musgrove, our…

  37. Maggie Dent - ‘Good Enough’ Parenting is Good Enough

    · 1 h 26 min · S8 E4

    You just have to be a good parent 30-40% of the time. According to the research, and parenting expert Maggie Dent. 💌Join 5,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly…

  38. Bron Lewis - Is It Me or Postnatal Anxiety?

    · 1 h 41 min · S8 E3

    What do you do when your 3 day-old-baby just doesn’t wake up? 💌Join 5,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Motherhood is really…

  39. Dr Lucy Hone - A Life Worth Grieving

    · 1 h 24 min · S8 E2

    Two cataclysmic events have shaped Dr Lucy Hone’s relationship with grief, and resilience. 💌Join 5,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter -…

  40. Claudia Karvan - Love, Her Way

    · 1 h 38 min · S8 E1

    Stop. Everything. Now. It’s Claudia Karvan day. 💌Join 5,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy An icon of the screen, and of the…

  41. Soul Searching Summer - Ryan’s TV Show

    · 46 min · S7 E57

    Ryan’s got news. Well, past-Ryan had news, and now future-Ryan is going to reflect on how present-day-Ryan is currently feeling about said news. Get it? It’s reflecting on a reflection about a rejection. Today we’re…

  42. Spooky Summer - Hugh’s Haunted House

    · 40 min · S7 E56

    Do you believe in ghosts? Josh doesn’t, Ryan does, and Hugh is actually being haunted. 🎟️ Our live show Together Again is on sale! One show left! Tickets here - https://bit.ly/4mEK9Ep It’s the second episode of our…

  43. Psychology Summer - Your Inner Fan with Dr Emily

    · 1 h 08 min · S7 E55

    Today, we come to you with a gift: bonus Dr Emily. Thank you in advance for the standing ovation. 🎟️ Our live show Together Again is on sale! One show left! Tickets here - https://bit.ly/4mEK9Ep Welcoming you into…

  44. The Little Drummer Girl - A Christmas Scandal

    · 39 min · S7 E54 · Bonus

    Little heads up, this episode contains some language that is exclusively found on the naughty list, and therefore, isn’t suitable for kids. Now, it’s time to spill some Vulnerabili-TEA. It’s our annual holiday…

  45. Dave Hughes - Me, Myself & Ego

    · 1 h 27 min · S7 E53

    Dave Hughes has a complicated relationship with his ego. Performing in prestigious venues around the world, Dave Hughes has solidified himself as one of Australia’s comedy icons, but the journey was (and still is) far…

  46. Mary Fowler - Forgiving Yourself-Harm

    · 1 h 22 min · S7 E52

    We’re nervous. We’re excited. We’re nervous and excited. Because it’s Mary freaking Fowler day. 🎟️ Our live show Together Again is on sale now! Tickets here - https://bit.ly/4mEK9Ep Joining us in the Vulnerabilitea…

  47. Dr Emily - You Had Me At Communication

    · 1 h 26 min · S7 E51

    Is your communication style a red flag? It’s our favourite time of the month and Dr Emily Musgrove, our resident psychologist, is back in the studio to talk the talk (and walk the walk) about healthy communication.…

  48. Jamila Rizvi - Awoken by a Broken Brain

    · 1 h 13 min · S7 E50

    Jamila Rizvi has not been the perfect sick person. When Jamila was last in our studio, she was deep in the grief stage. Jamila’s life had been irrevocably changed by the imposition of a brain tumour, and the myriad…

  49. Troy Kinne - It’s What’s Inside That’s Backwards

    · 1 h 14 min · S7 E49

    Troy Kinne’s heart is in the right place. As in, it’s on the wrong side. In fact, many of Troy’s organs are in the ‘wrong’ place. Which can be hard on the immune system, but great material for a stand-up comedian.…

  50. Dr Emily - Am I Sick or Is It Anxiety?

    · 1 h 02 min · S7 E48

    Do you ever feel anxious about your health? Same. And it is the fundamental uncertainty of our health which can make this anxiety really exhausting, complicated and, well, hard, to live with. Back in the studio with…

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