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Behind the Couch: Therapist Calculations | Szn. 5 Ep. 10
· 14 min · S5 E10 · Explicit
Episode Behind the Couch: Therapist Calculations | Szn. 5 Ep. 10
What is your therapist actually thinking during that first session?
In this behind-the-scenes episode, Dr. Jenn takes you onto the couch and into the therapist’s chair to reveal what’s happening beneath the surface when a new couple walks into her office. From where partners choose to sit to how they tell their story, every interaction offers clues about their relationship, communication style, and readiness for change.
Dr. Jenn shares the subtle observations, split-second decisions, and clinical instincts that guide the first session—including how therapists assess trust, safety, emotional regulation, relationship dynamics, and the delicate balance between support and accountability.
You’ll learn:
• What therapists notice before a couple says a word • Why body language can be as important as the story itself • How therapists adapt their style to different clients • What makes building rapport happen so quickly—or not • Why couples often wait years before seeking help • The challenge of staying connected to both partners equally • How therapists balance empathy, accountability, humor, and hope
If you've ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes of couples therapy, this episode offers an honest look at the art, psychology, and human connection that shape the therapeutic process.
Connect with Dr. Jenn:
Instagram: @drjennkennedy
Website: Pleasure Project
Website: Riviera Therapy
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