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177: What's Actually Happening In An Avoidant's Brain When They Pull Away W/ Chris Lee
· 1 h 00 min · Episode 177 · Explicit
Episode 177: What's Actually Happening In An Avoidant's Brain When They Pull Away W/ Chris Lee
Neuroscientist Chris Lee joins me to break down what’s really happening in the brain when someone pulls away, shuts down, or spirals. We cover avoidance as a regulation strategy, why anxious activation hits so hard, and how state–story–strategy explains your patterns better than any TikTok soundbite. If you struggle with mixed signals, overthinking, or reacting fast in dating, this episode gives you clear, science-backed answers.
We also get into emotional availability, communication during conflict, and how to create safety without overfunctioning. You’ll learn how to recognize your patterns, rebuild trust in yourself, and stop taking someone else’s regulation personally. Whether you’re dating or partnered, this conversation helps you understand connection with far more clarity.
Learn more: https://www.drchrislee.com/
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