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#195: Ryan Moresby-White: You're not his girlfriend. You're his initiation.
· 1 h 27 min
Episode #195: Ryan Moresby-White: You're not his girlfriend. You're his initiation.
He was a little boy. You were the woman who paid for it.
You didn't fall in love with a man. You fell in love with a seven year old who hadn't grieved his childhood yet.
And until he does, he will sabotage every relationship that gets close enough to matter.
Ryan Moresby-White works with hundreds of men, fathers, CEOs, men in their 70s, helping them do the one thing society never taught them: grieve. He's built a multi-million dollar company doing it. And he's one of the most embodied, present men I've ever sat across from.
In this episode, Ryan gets completely honest about the relationship he lost because of his own unresolved wounds, the four hours he spent on a bathroom floor in Bali vomiting after she left, and the nine months on the grass on the Sunshine Coast that changed everything.
This is the episode I made for the women in my world who are tired of carrying men who don't know they're still boys. And it's for the men who are ready to find out.
What we get into:
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Why most men are emotionally operating as 7-year-olds, and what to do about it
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The real reason men sabotage relationships (it has nothing to do with you)
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The post-breakup level up, and the two very different paths it leads to
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How to support a man on his healing journey without becoming his mother
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What a truly safe man looks like, and why he can feel so confronting
Timestamps:
00:00: Most men are little boys walking around in adult bodies
01:15: What a rite of passage actually is, and why men don't get one anymore
06:12: Why women become the unintentional initiators for uninitiated men
11:03: The tree ring analogy: you're not dating one man, you're dating all of him
26:47: Ryan ends a year-long relationship, and shares why live on air
37:24: The bathroom floor in Bali: 4 hours of vomiting after she left
43:08: The post-breakup level up, two paths, two very different men
57:51: What women can do to actually support a man on his healing journey
Find Ryan: @@ryanmoresbywhite) (https://www.instagram.com/ryanmoresbywhite/) on Instagram and YouTube Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)
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