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Wives Not Sisters

Kayla Nielsen and Alix Tucker

44 episodes

A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.

More about the show

Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can coexist. Through real talk, playful debates, and just enough oversharing, we’re building a community that’s reflective, ridiculous, and radically relatable.

Episodes

  1. The Wives Are Having A Baby!!!!!

    · 31 min

    We're finally sharing the news we've been holding close to our hearts. ❤️ After months away, Alix & Kayla are back to explain where they've been—and why. In this deeply personal episode, they open up about the…

  2. I'm A Lesbian Married To A Man

    · 18 min

    Can you still call yourself a lesbian if you’re married to a man? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one listener story that immediately sent them into a spiral of questions, nuance, and identity politics.…

  3. Late In Life Lesbians

    · 49 min

    What does it actually mean to be a late-in-life lesbian… and is there even such a thing as “too late”? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community:…

  4. Does My Ex Girlfriend Listen To My Podcast?

    · 17 min

    In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla spiral into one of the most accidentally hilarious conversations yet after realizing an ex might be lurking on their podcast TikTok. What starts as a simple “wait… does she…

  5. We're Getting Divorced

    · 44 min

    What actually counts as a divorceable offense… and what’s just relationship growing pains? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most complex (and very requested) topics from the Sister Wives community:…

  6. Hooking Up With Your Bestie's Ex (Amanda Batula, Ciara Miller & West Wilson)

    · 30 min

    What happens when loyalty, love, and timing all collide… and someone crosses the ultimate friendship line? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the messiest (and most talked-about) relationship…

  7. WLW Strap Stories

    · 49 min

    What happens when you ask the internet for their most chaotic strap-on stories? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of their wildest listener-submitted topics yet—and you guys absolutely delivered. From TSA…

  8. My Girlfriend Has Only Ever Been With Guys

    · 14 min

    What happens when great chemistry meets… not-so-great sexual compatibility? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla respond to a vulnerable listener question about navigating intimacy with a “baby gay” partner who’s…

  9. Masc And Femme Beauty Standards

    · 53 min

    What does it actually mean to be masc or femme… and who decided the rules? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most unexpectedly heated topics in the Sister Wives community: masc vs. femme beauty…

  10. Aspyn Ovard is in a Throuple

    · 21 min

    Alix and Kayla are back with a quickie—but this one spirals into a very juicy conversation 👀 In this episode, they dive into the internet drama surrounding a longtime influencer whose life took a major turn—from young…

  11. Girls Hooking Up With Girls

    · 1 h 03 min

    What actually counts as sexy… and what’s just awkward? In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into a spicy (and very funny) conversation about lesbian sex, flirting, and the little moments that can either turn up the heat…

  12. WLW Couple Reacts To Heated Rivalry

    · 12 min

    There’s one very gay show everyone seems to be talking about right now… so naturally, Alix & Kayla haven’t watched it. In this quickie episode, they dive into the internet’s latest obsession — “Heated Rivalry.” From…

  13. Bi Girls With Husbands

    · 1 h 03 min

    Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community: the experience of bi women in relationships with male partners. After asking their audience for stories and questions, they…

  14. Becca Moore & Zoe Boyd DM Drama

    · 16 min

    What’s worse: sending a cringe DM… or fumbling someone you already married in your head? In this Quickie episode, Alix & Kayla break down the viral DM moment between Becca Moore and Zoe Boyd that divided the internet.…

  15. Understanding Detransition: Real Experiences from Queer and Trans Voices

    · 1 h 21 min

    In this episode, Alix & Kayla explore stories from people who have transitioned and later detransitioned, unpacking the deeply personal, emotional, and complex experiences behind those journeys. From informed consent…

  16. Cat Missal is Gay & Tell Me Lies Finale Reaction

    · 17 min

    Did the Tell Me Lies finale actually deliver… or are we all just emotionally attached to chaos? In this quickie episode, Alix & Kayla break down the Tell Me Lies finale—spoilers included—and unpack everything from…

  17. WLW Travel: What It’s Really Like Traveling the World as a Married Lesbian Couple

    · 1 h 01 min

    Why does queer dating sometimes feel like relearning everything from scratch? In this episode, Alix & Kayla talk about the strange, funny, and sometimes emotional reality of navigating attraction, identity, and dating…

  18. OMG…My First Time Hooking Up With Another Woman

    · 54 min

    What is it actually like the first time you’re with a woman? In this episode, Alix & Kayla talk about first times with girls — the magical ones, the awkward ones, the confusing ones, and the ones that quietly change…

  19. The Body Image Episode: Millennial Women, Diet Culture & Gender Expression

    · 1 h 03 min

    What does body image look like when you’re queer, partnered, confident… and still unlearning everything you were taught? In this episode, Alix & Kayla get deeply honest about body image, desire, and self-perception…

  20. I'm WLW, But I'd Never Date A Woman

    · 57 min · S1 E24

    In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one of the most controversial queer takes on the internet: being attracted to women, sleeping with women, but not wanting to date or marry them. Is it preference, internalized…

  21. I Lost 50k Followers When I Came Out

    · 1 h 13 min · S1 E23

    What happens when you come out online—and thousands of people decide they’re done with you? In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack cancel culture, internet outrage, and the emotional, financial, and personal fallout of…

  22. Should Straight People Be Allowed In Gay Spaces?

    · 51 min · S1 E22

    In this episode, married queers Alix & Kayla debate one of the most polarizing topics in LGBTQ+ culture—from gay bars and lesbian parties to allies, baby gays, and the future of community spaces. It’s thoughtful,…

  23. What's With All The WLW Breakups Lately?

    · 57 min · S1 E21

    Why does it feel like every WLW couple is breaking up right now? In this episode, Alix and Kayla unpack the recent wave of WLW breakups—from emotional burnout and attachment styles to visibility pressure, queer dating…

  24. Cheating Stories in 3, 2, 1…

    · 48 min · S1 E20

    Is it cheating… or just crossing a line? Alix and Kayla kick off the new year from Nicaragua by playing "Cheating or No?" —breaking down gray-area relationship scenarios like shared playlists, DMs, flirting, emotional…

  25. Is This Female Friendship or Gay AF? Untangling Homoerotic WLW Dynamics

    · 1 h 09 min · S1 E19

    Are homoerotic friendships a canon queer experience? 🌈 Recording from their new studio in Nicaragua, Alix and Kayla dive into homoerotic WLW friendships—the kind that blur the line between “best friend” and “something…

  26. Chosen Family, Holidays, and Saying No to Expectations

    · 1 h 20 min · S1 E18

    Family, queerness, religion, and the holidays—this episode goes deep. Alix and Kayla open up about navigating strained family relationships, missed weddings, religious rejection, reconciliation, and what it really…

  27. Lore: Caitlyn Jenner

    · 1 h 20 min · S1 E17

    In this juicy, long-form episode, Alix and Kayla go deep into Caitlyn Jenner’s childhood, gender dysphoria, Olympic fame, marriages, parenting issues, transition timeline, political contradictions, and why the public…

  28. When Queer Love Changes: Trans Partners, Privilege & Progress

    · 55 min · S1 E16

    This week on Wives Not Sisters, Alix & Kayla dive into your juiciest queer write-in questions—identity shifts, relationship changes, generational LGBTQ+ tensions, age-gap love, and what really counts as “queer…

  29. WLW Lore: Caroline Calloway

    · 1 h 20 min · S1 E15

    Alix and Kayla dive deep into the wild, chaotic, endlessly fascinating lore of Caroline Calloway — from Instagram fame and ghostwritten captions to book-deal drama, retreat controversies, and the blurred lines between…

  30. Two Wives, One Wallet: Love, Finances and Your Money Confessions

    · 1 h 04 min · S1 E14

    If you’ve ever argued about groceries, avoided showing your partner your skincare receipts, or wondered how to merge finances without losing your mind, this one’s for you! From $300 facials to $3,000 handbags,…

  31. The TERF Talk

    · 1 h 07 min · S1 E13

    In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into the internet discourse that blew up: Are lesbians allowed to have dating preferences—specifically around bi women or trans women—without being labeled discriminatory or TERFs?…

  32. How Problematic is The L Word?!

    · 1 h 00 min · S1 E12

    In this queer culture deep-dive, Alix and Kayla revisit The L Word — the iconic show that shaped lesbian visibility for an entire generation. From nostalgic favorites to problematic storylines, they unpack what the…

  33. WLW Lore: Sedona Prince

    · 1 h 11 min · S1 E11

    In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla cover the shocking story of college basketball star Sedona Prince — from her rise to fame as a gender equality advocate to the disturbing domestic violence and…

  34. Coming Out Confusion: The Most Googled Questions and Our Real Answers

    · 1 h 11 min · S1 E10

    Ever Googled “Am I gay?” You’re not alone. In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla react to the internet’s most-searched coming-out questions — from “How do I know if I’m gay?” to…

  35. Fighting Fair: What Took Us Years To Learn

    · 1 h 00 min · S1 E9

    In this episode, Alix and Kayla get real about what it means to fight fair after six years together. From weirdly specific compliments to the unspoken rules that keep their relationship grounded, the couple unpacks how…

  36. WLW Lore: Jojo Siwa

    · 1 h 17 min · S1 E8

    In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alex and Kayla dive deep into Jojo Siwa’s rise from Dance Moms to queer icon status. From the origins of her bow empire to Nickelodeon fame, child star controversies, her bold…

  37. Queer Culture: Lesbians vs Bi Girls

    · 1 h 13 min · S1 E7

    This week, Alix and Kayla dive into the long-standing dynamics between bisexual women and lesbians—myths, stereotypes, and the cultural nuances that shape queer relationships. From playful debates (Renee Rapp vs. Cara…

  38. Are We Actually Compatible? A Queer Couple Takes the Ultimate Relationship Quiz

    · 1 h 11 min · S1 E6

    In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla put their relationship to the test with a compatibility quiz led by producer Lex. From cover-stealing confessions to worst vacations, love languages, chores,…

  39. Our Queer Fertility Journey: IUI, IVF, Pregnancy Loss, and Choosing Surrogacy

    · 1 h 10 min

    In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla unpack the “propaganda we’re not falling for”—from self-help catchphrases to fitness influencers and even avocado toast—before diving deep into their three-year…

  40. WLW Lore: The Shannon Beveridge Episode

    · 1 h 16 min

    In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alex and Kayla dive deep into the lore of Shannon Beveridge—from her early YouTube days and first love with Cammie Scott, to her rollercoaster relationships with Fletcher, Becky,…

  41. Queer Culture: Queer Ultimatum

    · 1 h 13 min · S1 E3

    Alix & Kayla break down The Ultimatum: Queer Love—from boundaries and exes to chosen family, romance, and what true compatibility looks like. Expect laughs, hot takes, and some real talk on queer representation in…

  42. Making Friends in Your 30s...why is it so hard?

    · 58 min · S1 E2

    Alix and Kayla are back for episode two! They share each other’s “toxic traits” before diving into loneliness, friendship struggles, and how one genuine connection can shift everything. Timestamps: • 00:01 – Intro +…

  43. Our Queer Love Story: We Met, Moved In, and Got Married Within a Year as a WLW Couple

    · 1 h 04 min · S1 E1

    In their very first episode, Alix and Kayla dive into spicy hot takes, share lessons on love, and tell the hilarious, heartfelt story of how they met and fell for each other. Episode Timestamps: • 1:56 – Hot Takes:…

  44. Wives Not Sisters Podcast Premieres Tuesday, September 2nd!

    · 1:34

    Introducing Wives Not Sisters Podcast with wlw couple Alix Tucker and Kayla Nielsen Hi! We're Kayla and Alix. We're married, not sisters (even though that's what most strangers assume for some reason) and welcome to…

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