Bobo and Flex

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1. has he checked for your hymen yet?

   10 Nov 2019 · 1 h 05 min

   This is a brand new format - a chit chat episode! We talk about everything from the scam of the healthcare industry, who built the pyramids, T.I and the normalization of pedophilia. Enjoy!!SUPPORT US ON…

2. Q&A is my white boyfriend fetishizing me?

   3 Nov 2019 · 59 min

   This week we're answering all your love & relationship questions! are racial preferences racist? do all white men have racial fetishes and how do you get over trust issues?SUPPORT US ON…

3. what is the point of being a BETTER person?! ft. Mukundwa

   27 Oct 2019 · 1 h 20 min

   OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE !!! we talked to Mukundwa about the pursuit of kindness, intelligence and self-development. what does it mean to be a good person? and is the pursuit more important than the destination? how do…

4. who is responsible for ending climate change?

   20 Oct 2019 · 1 h 04 min

   In today's episode, we talk about climate anxiety, Greta Thunberg and the robot apocalypse. enjoyyyy :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US…

5. are you ready to die?

   13 Oct 2019 · 1 h 04 min

   Trigger Warning: Suicide - in this episode we talk all about death, suicide, after-lives and why humans fear death. enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

6. Part 5: Toxic Relationships

   6 Oct 2019 · 1 h 08 min

   this is episode 5 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about maintaining fulfilling relationships, apology languages AND how to fight well!SUPPORT US ON…

7. Part 4: How To Have The Best Sex

   29 Sep 2019 · 1 h 11 min

   this is episode 4 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about the importance of facilitating your own nut, the pros and cons of sex and finding sexual confidence!SUPPORT US ON…

8. Part 3: Transitioning from Situationship to Relationship

   22 Sep 2019 · 56 min

   this is episode 3 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about situationships, male-female platonic friendships and what to do when you fall in love with your best friend :)SUPPORT US ON…

9. Part 2.5: Navigating First Date Anxiety

   15 Sep 2019 · 48 min

   this is episode 2.5 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about first date conversations, anxiety and flourishing as an introvert :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

10. Part 2: First Dates For Dummies

    8 Sep 2019 · 54 min

    this is episode 2 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about where to go on a first date, initiating conversations AND how to avoid situationships! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

11. Part 1: Dating for Dummies

    1 Sep 2019 · 1 h 13 min

    this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, enjoy romance and staying away from problematic white boys :)TW: Sexual AssaultSUPPORT US ON…

12. the problem with wokeness

    25 Aug 2019 · 1 h 15 min

    what does it mean to be woke? why do we aspire for wokeness? how can we grow without attaching to dogma? We discuss all that and more !SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

13. so you want to be non-monogamous?

    18 Aug 2019 · 1 h 04 min

    what are open relationships? does anyone benefit from non-monogamy, and how can we stay ethical while navigating unconventional forms of love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

14. unrequited love and abusive relationships

    13 Aug 2019 · 1 h 09 min

    a heated conversation on unrequited love and how to navigate those waters, and we discuss whether or not love and abuse can coexist.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

15. dumb bitch decisions: i bailed him out of jail and he left me for another girl

    4 Aug 2019 · 1 h 01 min

    Whew, this is a hilarious episode about all the dumb bitch decisions we keep making!! from wasting money to raw sex, we cover it all!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

16. manifesting your best life in a world with no free will

    28 Jul 2019 · 58 min

    This week we're talking all about karma, free will and the law of attraction. How do you manifest your best life when you have no free will? If there's no free will, can you change your karma? Our most existential…

17. is moral superiority making you lonely?

    21 Jul 2019 · 51 min

    This week we're talking about the loneliness epidemic! Is our loneliness self-induced? Are we misdiagnosing our loneliness? is the quest to be understood a catalyst for feelings of isolation? How does morality and…

18. bonus episode – unpacking love island UK 2019

    16 Jul 2019 · 59 min

    This week, Flex chats to avid Bobo and Flex listener and Love Island fanatic Anny Ma (@_annyma). At this point in time Bobo hadn't started watching the series so I had to sub in a very capable guest.This episode was…

19. how to live fully before the world ends

    14 Jul 2019 · 59 min

    This week we're giving life hacks and practical tips on surviving (but also enjoying) life during the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

20. girl code: can i sleep with your crush or nah?

    7 Jul 2019 · 1 h 25 min

    This week we're chatting toxic friends, breakups and the merits or downfalls of girl code/objective morality!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

21. Mental Health, Therapy & Modern Day Happiness

    30 Jun 2019 · 45 min

    SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE…

22. Breakups, Heartbreak & Platonic Exes

    23 Jun 2019 · 1 h 03 min

    What are the benefits of heartbreak? How to survive a breakup, and why does love hurt so much??SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON…

23. Spirituality: Past Lives & The After Life, What is Reality & Are Humans Inherently Trash?

    16 Jun 2019 · 1 h 07 min

    This episode will either drive you to an existential crisis, or lead you to enlightenment. hehe, have fun tho!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

24. Are You Racist?? Being Black in a White World, Who Gets To Be Black & White Guilt

    9 Jun 2019 · 59 min

    In this episode, we literally ended racism. Thank you for listening! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON…

25. Body Image: Self-Loathing, Anti-Blackness, Body Positivity & Is Beauty for Everyone?

    2 Jun 2019 · 1 h 22 min

    We talk about body neutrality, self-love and whether or not beauty is accessible to everyone!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON…

26. Answering Your Questions: Casual Sex, Virginity & Unrequited Love

    26 May 2019 · 35 min

    We answer all your questions from finding body and sex confidence, losing your virginity, dealing with unrequited love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

27. Hookup Culture: Dating Etiquette, Soul Ties & Who Benefits?

    19 May 2019 · 58 min

    Hookup culture!! Is it ruining us or liberating us? Are we (even) sexually liberated or have we deluded ourselves into thinking we are? Let’s dive into it!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

28. Safe Spaces: Entitlement, Privilege & Is Equality a Worthwhile Pursuit?

    12 May 2019 · 46 min

    Are safe spaces helping or harming us? what is the intent vs the impact? Can we do without, and how can we level up our activism so it's inclusive but nuanced!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

29. BDSM, Sexual Fantasies, Race Play & The Orgasm Gap

    5 May 2019 · 1 h 19 min

    OUR SPICIEST EPISODE YET!!!! We’re diving into kinky sex and BDSM!! What’s healthy, ‘normal’ and where do our sexual fantasies come from? Let us know your thoughts, chime in - we’d love to hear from you!TAKE THE BDSM…

30. Self-Love, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Labour & Twitter Feminism

    28 Apr 2019 · 1 h 16 min

    How do you know when to fight vs when to leave? Has twitter (and instagram tbh) ruined how we navigate our relationships, and what does it even mean to practice 'self-love' in this day?SUPPORT US ON…

31. Manifestation, Pursuing Your Dreams & Is Passion a Scam?

    21 Apr 2019 · 55 min

    in this episode we're breaking down what it really takes to manifest your best life, and - is the idea of passion and purpose a scam?!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

32. Cheating, Side Chicks, Secrets & Morality

    14 Apr 2019 · 52 min

    We're diving into the topic of cheating! Is it really a dealbreaker? Do we need to destigmatize the role of side chicks? How do we let go of baggage from hurtful relationships and is infidelity and deceit really…

33. The Truth Behind Being an Influencer, Instagram Toxicity & The Apocalypse

    7 Apr 2019 · 48 min

    We're revealing the truth behind the lifestyle and career path of being an influencer, social media performativity and we unpack how social media is basically launching us into the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON…

34. Dating: Red Flags & Pink Flags, Settling vs Compromising

    31 Mar 2019 · 36 min

    Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTWRYIVsluA&t=1213sIn this episode, we're unpacking the subtle differences between red flags and pink flags. AND, we're dissecting where to draw the line…

35. Mental Health, Toxic Activism, Friendship Boundaries & Depression

    24 Mar 2019 · 52 min

    This week, we're talking *Mental Health*! Is depression the latest trend? Is activism toxic? And how can we create better boundaries in our friendships?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

36. What Would Bobo & Flex Do? l Virginity, Trauma & Awkwardness

    21 Mar 2019 · 26 min

    Yaay! Our new segment where we answer your questions and scenarios on love, sex, life and everything in between!DM us at @BoboAndFlex on IG or email us your dilemmas at boboandflex@gmail.com :)SUPPORT US ON…

37. how is (toxic) feminism affecting your sex life?

    17 Mar 2019 · 58 min

    This time we're talking about the orgasm gap, the intersection between our feminism and sex lives and we dissect the age-old 'spit or swallow' question. Also, trigger warning: Sexual TraumaLet us know your thoughts and…

38. dating broke men is not sustainable

    10 Mar 2019 · 1 h 13 min

    Bobo & Flex dissect the age-old question: WHO SHOULD PAY ON DATES? Is dating broke men sustainable and what is the least problematic, dating etiquette :)Let us know your thoughts and let's continue the conversation!…

39. Answering your questions about toxic friends, manifestation & dating white boys

    3 Mar 2019 · 1 h 27 min

    Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!Instagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobomatjila_Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo:…

40. Sex, Orgasms & Eating Ass

    25 Feb 2019 · 58 min

    Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

41. Friendship + Social Media // Are You A Trash Friend?

    18 Feb 2019 · 46 min

    Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

42. Cancel Culture + Rape Culture // Is R Kelly Really Cancelled

    10 Feb 2019 · 35 min

    Thank you for tuning in!(please excuse the sound issues)Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…

43. Dating Culture & Romance // Who Benefits From Romantic Love?

    29 Jan 2019 · 40 min

    Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON…