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REFINE

Buli Makhubo

28 episodes

Welcome to REFINE- the podcast for practical, biblically anchored conversations that cultivate intimacy with God, strengthen our relationships, and inspire a life marked by growth, transformation, and fruitfulness.

Episodes

  1. You Are Still Required To Participate ft Ps Koketso Molaolwe

    · 40 min · S3 E28

    This episode is a reminder that while God performs miracles, He often invites us to participate in them. Throughout Scripture, God consistently asked people to move before they saw the miracle: stretch out your hand,…

  2. It's More Than A Book... It's A Call ft Katlego Dibakoane

    · 51 min · S3 E27

    Join the mailing list here: https://buli-makhubo.kit.com/dc88dfda44 In this special episode, I share the story behind The Yielded Life; why I wrote it, the convictions that shaped every chapter, and the burden God…

  3. The greatest Struggle Is Surrender ft Busisiwe Mothudi

    · 57 min · S3 E26

    In today's Episode with Busisiwe Mothudi we unpack why surrendering to Christ as Lord is one of our greatest struggles. We explore the subtle ways we resist God's Lordship and why control feels safer than obedience.

  4. You're Drinking From the Wrong Well ft Ps Luxolo Kentane

    · 55 min · S3 E25

    We all have wells—people, places, habits, and pursuits we keep returning to, hoping they'll satisfy what only Christ can. In this episode of REFINE, we uncover the empty wells we often build our lives around and why…

  5. Your Sentiments Are Stopping You From Fully Obeying God

    · 33 min · S3 E24

    Sometimes the greatest obstacle to complete obedience isn't rebellion—it's the emotions we refuse to surrender. This episode explores how sentiment, misplaced compassion, and emotional attachment can keep us from fully…

  6. Are You Performing or Transforming? - Rediscovering the Heart of Following Jesus

    · 56 min · S3 E23

    In today's Christian culture, it's easy to become consumed with appearances, platforms, and personalities. We know our favorite preachers, quote influential leaders, and master Christian language, yet many of us have…

  7. Single or Married, It's Not About You: Returning to God's Original Design ft Faith Matilo

    · 1 h 18 min · S3 E22

    When marriage reflects God's heart, it becomes more than a relationship—it becomes a catalyst for restoration and revival Marriage was never meant to be merely a milestone, a status, or the fulfillment of our personal…

  8. The Consequence Of Living In Offence

    · 1 h 19 min · S3 E21

    Offence is one of the enemy's most subtle and destructive weapons. It often disguises itself as justified hurt, righteous anger, or self protection, but beneath the surface it becomes a trap that keeps us bound,…

  9. I Need To Nurture The Seed

    · 21 min · S2 E11

    In the season 2 finale I speak about the reason for our short break ( Nurturing The Seed) , the mistakes I made that I don't want to make anymore and my recent encounter with my Spiritual Father that is truly such a…

  10. Is Your Identity Your Idol ? - Out Of Compromise And Living By Conviction

    · 58 min · S2 E10

    You can “tick Christian” on a form and still feel split in two. We sat down for an unfiltered talk about identity in Christ, and why so many of us hit a wall where we don’t recognize ourselves anymore. That scary…

  11. The Pleasure That Delays Your Destiny - The Consequences Of Sexual Sin

    · 53 min · S2 E9

    A moment can feel small when you’re in it, but what if it’s quietly shaping your future? We sit down for an honest, Scripture-rooted conversation about sexual sin, not as a purity performance, but as a real fight for…

  12. When Passion Is Demanded - But Pain Is Ignored

    · 47 min · S2 E8

    You can’t hurt me and then dictate the terms of my healing. That line sets the tone for a real, practical conversation about sex, trust, and emotional safety in marriage and why the bedroom often reflects what’s…

  13. The Cost Of A Loose Tongue - Guard Your Tongue, Guard Your Life

    · 47 min

    Ever felt a nudge to share a fresh dream and then watched momentum vanish? We unpack why some words should be whispered to God before they’re shouted to the world—and how learning the difference can protect your…

  14. Saved... But Where's The Fruit?

    · 28 min

    Ever felt the tension between what God promised and what your week actually looks like? We go straight at that gap and name it: transformation—the “missing middle” between salvation and a life that truly bears fruit.…

  15. Adult Friendships Through Changing Seasons: Our Story, Our Mistakes & God's Grace

    · 1 h 08 min

    Together, we revisit how our circle formed through prayer, fasting, and Thursday-night intercession, then test those roots against the weight of real life: early marriage, babies, ministry demands, career pivots, and…

  16. Conflict Without Casualties - Let's Rewrite The Marriage Conflict Code

    · 58 min

    Fights happen. What you do next decides whether your home becomes a greenhouse for trust or a hallway of slammed doors. We open up about the “good fight” and the systems that keep a covenant strong—practical tools,…

  17. Forgiveness as Obedience, Freedom as the Reward

    · 49 min

    Forgiveness sounds noble until your body tenses at a name, a memory, or a room. We go straight to the core: why unforgiveness quietly locks you out of peace, progress, and the presence you’re praying to feel. Drawing…

  18. You’re Not Late—You’re Being Made, And That Changes Everything

    · 34 min

    When the calendar shouts “show up,” what if wisdom whispers “slow down”? Today we open a raw, timely conversation about hidden seasons—those stretches where God forms character away from the spotlight—and why they’re…

  19. EVERYONE NEEDS THIS IN 2026: TO BE LED BY THE HOLY SPIRIT

    · 20 min

    Missed closers, fresh start, real talk. We kick off 2026 by owning last year’s lessons and setting a new standard: be led by the Holy Spirit in what you plan, how you show up, and the choices you make. No more…

  20. Consecration Before the Promise: Why Obedience Precedes Breakthrough

    · 38 min

    Promises don’t break; people do—when we skip the prerequisite that unlocks them. Today we get honest about consecration: what it is, why it matters now, and how to practice it without turning faith into a checklist. We…

  21. The Cost of the Cross: Releasing What You Love To Fully Pursue Christ

    · 35 min

    Following Christ demands more than aesthetic Christianity; it requires the difficult journey of allowing Jesus to be not just our Savior but the Lord of our entire life. • Praise Mwelase shares her background growing…

  22. Double Dates & Separation: Navigating Couple Friendships

    · 40 min

    When was the last time you thought about the complex dance of couple friendships? Those relationships that form when marriages intertwine, creating communities that laugh together, pray together, and sometimes even…

  23. Fathers are parents too: Redefining What It Means to Be a Dad

    · 38 min

    What does it truly mean to be a present father? Beyond showing up at occasional soccer games or providing financially, the depth of fatherhood remains murky territory for many men—especially those who grew up without…

  24. Whose Voice Is Steering Your Life?

    · 31 min

    We're in a critical season of shifting where the voices we listen to will determine our direction and decisions. Guard your heart, for out of it flow the decisions that will steer your entire life. • When things reach…

  25. Your marriage bed doesn't have to be a battlefield.

    · 35 min

    Movies portray an idealized version of marriage where the honeymoon phase never ends, but real intimacy often includes unexpected challenges that couples aren't prepared to discuss openly. • Sexual compatibility isn't…

  26. Navigating Seasons of Shift: When God Says "It's Time to Move"

    · 47 min

    Navigating seasons of shift requires understanding the difference between stewarding what God gives versus owning it as our identity. When God leads us through transitions, we must learn to recognize the signals and…

  27. Marriage Beyond the Social Media Feed

    · 46 min

    Marriage is a divine institution designed by God, not a performance measured by social media standards or external validation. We explore how to navigate relationships in today's digital landscape where "couple goals"…

  28. God doesn't want your comfort, He wants your obedience.

    · 33 min

    Are you burying your talents in the ground because of fear? That's exactly what today's powerful conversation with Tamia Nontsikelelo, founder of Tol-Thema, a modest fashion brand, challenges us to examine. Tamia's…

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