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Under The Bed

Dest Dol & Tolu

36 episodes

A podcast hosted by Dest Dol & Tolu where we uncover the hard, often avoided conversations in the Christian community. Through raw and honest discussions, we shed light on biblical truths, challenge stereotypes, and encourage spiritual growth.

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Join us as we bring what’s “under the bed” into the light – @destdol @tolsfeso

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Episodes

  1. Your Boyfriend Gets 100 Chances, But Your Friend Gets One????

    · 1 h 09 min

    This week on Under The Bed...Guess what...Courtney and Renee from To My Sisters have joined us for an honest conversation about friendship. We unpack what happens when friendships get messy, what it really means to be…

  2. Do christians have an attitude problem? (our HOT takes) w/ Chantelle Rutendo & Hali Sesay

    · 58 min

    This week on Under The Bed, we’re getting into our CHRISTIAN HOT TAKES 👀🔥 And we’re not doing it alone! We’re joined by gospel artist Chantelle Rutendo and her best friend Hali for a very honest (and at times VERY…

  3. S4 EP3: Can You Deconstruct Your Faith Without Losing God? W/ Nicola Lambo

    · 1 h 00 min

    Everyone’s deconstructing their faith… why? 👀 This week on Under The Bed, we’re joined by Nicola for an open and honest conversation about the current buzz word in the christian community... 'deconstruction'. Nicola…

  4. S4 EP 2: S*xual Assault, BBL At 19 & Body Image w/ Chantelle Sophia

    · 1 h 05 min

    his week, Chantelle Sophia joins us Under the Bed…and honestly, this episode is CRAZY 😭😂 We’re talking body image, BBLs and EVERYTHING in between. From the pressures women face to look a certain way, to confidence,…

  5. S4 EP1: WE FELL OUT.. HERES WHAT HAPPENED

    · 51 min

    In this episode, we’re talking about friendship, conflict, communication and… the fact that WE ACTUALLY FELL OUT. 👀 We also get vulnerable about our struggles with prayer, what it looks like when your relationship…

  6. S3 EP10: Marriage, Divorce & Domestic Violence w/ Ysabella Grace

    · 1 h 09 min

    Wow, UTBGANG..the last episode of season 3 is here! This week we sit down with Ysabella Grace for a real and necessary conversation on marriage, divorce and domestic violence. Nothing is sugar-coated... just honest…

  7. S3 EP9: You Think It’s God… But It Might Be Self-Hate

    · 47 min

    Condemnation...don't you just hate that word? That might be the case but its also something ALL of us struggle with and on this weeks episode we get into the nitty gritty of it all. Whether you're struggling to return…

  8. S3 EP8: Why Do Our Parents Bring Out The Worst In Us?

    · 1 h 07 min

    On this Episode on Under The Bed, we get REAL about the struggles we have faced with our parents. From uncontrolled outbursts to dealing with 'honour' culture especially within the African/Caribbean culture. BUT…

  9. S3 EP7: Cheating, Gossip & Prayer - Dilemmas (Part 2)

    · 59 min

    This week on Under The Bed we’re back in our dilemmas bag 😭 and it gets messy real quick. We’re talking gossip (is it ever justified or are you just being nosy), cheating (forgiveness, boundaries, and be honest……

  10. S3 EP6: “I Have A Crush On My Pastor” - Dilemma’s

    · 1 h 00 min

    This week on Under The Bed… we’re getting into YOUR dilemmas 👀 No sugarcoating, no pretending...we’re talking real situations, real questions, and the kind of advice you might not be ready for 😭 From relationships to…

  11. S3 EP5: The Ugly Truth About Friendship w/ LifeWithYourMidwife

    · 1 h 04 min

    We’re joined by our close friend and returning guest Life With Your Midwife (aka Lydia), and we’re getting honest about the ugly side of Christian friendship. We talk about misunderstandings, tension, unspoken…

  12. S3 EP4: Can You REALLY Enjoy Being Single w/ Deborah B

    · 1 h 06 min

    In this weeks episode we have a REAL conversation about singleness, Christian dating apps, and what it’s like navigating faith when you’ve never had a boyfriend. We get honest about the pressures, expectations, and…

  13. S3 EP3: Unfiltered Christian Q&A (Lust, Comparison & Jealous)

    · 50 min

    This week on Under The Bed, we get honest about some of the trickiest heart issues we all face: lust, jealousy, envy and comparison, unpacking why these feelings show up, what the Bible actually says about them, and…

  14. S3 EP2: Let’s Be Real … Christians are JUDGY w/ Joe Garratt

    · 48 min

    This week we’re under the bed with Joe Garratt, yes, that Joe from Love Island, but there’s so much more to him than reality TV, as we talk about his journey beyond the villa, what faith looks like in the public eye,…

  15. S3 EP1: It’s 2026 And You’re Still DEPRESSED

    · 46 min

    In this episode, we’re talking about friendship, conflict, hurt, communication, forgiveness and… the fact that WE ACTUALLY FELL OUT. 👀 We also get vulnerable about our struggles with prayer, what it looks like when…

  16. S2 E10: The Spiritual Realm is VERY REAL w/ Apostle Randolph Adjei

    · 1 h 08 min

    On this episode of Under The Bed, we sat down with our incredible pastor, Apostle Randolph Adjei, and whew… this one was deep! From the spiritual realm to some of the most difficult questions - Apostle was flowing with…

  17. S2 E9: CHRISTIANITY IS NOT A TREND

    · 46 min

    In this episode of Under the Bed, we unpack the rise of 'Christianity as a trend' on social media. With so many influencers publicly embracing faith, we ask: is everyone truly walking with Christ, or are some using…

  18. S2 E8: “Promiscuity Ruined My Self Worth” w/ Aji

    · 59 min

    This week on Under the Bed, we are joined with Aji (the worlds most FAMOUS PT) for a powerful conversation titled “Promiscuity Ruined My Self Worth.” Aji opens up about his past struggles with promiscuity, the journey…

  19. S2 E7: Depression, Anxiety & Panic Attacks (as a christian?!)

    · 54 min

    On this week’s episode of Under the Bed podcast, we open up about mental health, diving into our personal experiences with depression, sleep paralysis, and panic attacks. We share raw stories, honest reflections, and…

  20. S2 E6: Healing from Trauma w/ Becca Folkes

    · 57 min

    This week on Under the Bed, we’re joined by the incredible Becca Folkes!! *eeeekkk* Becca is a gospel artist, speaker, and woman of faith who opens up with raw honesty about her journey. In this powerful episode, she…

  21. S2 E5: How to Deal With Conflict

    · 49 min

    In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re getting real about conflict. From the messy ways we used to handle it before coming to Christ, to the lessons we’re learning now about choosing peace, we open up about our own…

  22. S2 E4: 'I Turned Down Love Island For Jesus"

    · 53 min

    In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re talking about the things that felt so weird before coming to Christ and the tough decisions we had to make early on in our journeys. Destini also shares why she turned down the…

  23. S2 E3: Why Christians Are Being Exposed w/ Hayley Mulenda Record

    · 1 h 04 min

    Soo many of you guessed right 👀 ....this week on Under the Bed, Hayley Mulenda joins us for a powerful conversation on destroying compromise, interfaith relationships, healing from hurt in ministry, and so much more.…

  24. S2 E2: "He Chose Her Over Me" - Self Worth

    · 44 min

    In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re unpacking the meaning of true self-worth through a Christ-centered lens. We explore how our value isn’t defined by the world, our performance, or how others see us — but by what…

  25. S2 E1: This is Your Sign to Fast

    · 55 min

    We’re back baby!🥳💜 Season 2 of Under The Bed has commenced and we’re welcoming our #UTBGANG back with open arms. In this episode, we catch you up on everything we’ve been up to since our break.. from life updates to…

  26. S1 EP10: Unfiltered Christian Q&A

    · 50 min

    For our final episode of Season One, we’re taking a moment to reflect. We talk about what it’s been like starting Under the Bed, the highs, the challenges, and the lessons God’s taught us along the way. Plus, we’re…

  27. S1 EP9: Infertility, No Operation, No Treatment… Just a Miracle ft LifeWithYourMidwife

    · 1 h 00 min

    This week on Under the Bed, we’re joined by our good sisl Lydia — aka Life With Your Midwife! We’re talking wild lukewarm-Christian days, playing a chaotic game of "Who’s Most Likely To," and getting real about Lydia’s…

  28. S1 EP8: "I Got Baptised Then Got Into A Fight” ft. Limoblaze | Under The Bed

    · 1 h 05 min

    This week on Under the Bed, we sit down with the incredibly talented Limoblaze! Afrogospel pioneer, singer, rapper, and global voice for faith and culture. From hilarious story times to marriage chats and some real…

  29. S1 EP7: Things We Would tell Our Younger Selves

    · 38 min

    If we could sit across from our younger selves, there’s so much we’d say. In this episode of Under the Bed, we open up about the life lessons that could have saved us heartache, the truths we wish we believed sooner,…

  30. S1 EP6: Young, Called & Navigating It All w/ Apostle Tyrone Junior | Under The Bed

    · 57 min

    On this week’s episode of Under the Bed, we have out very first guest! None other than Apostle Tyrone Junior, the founder of Wild Fire, a ministry that’s setting this generation ablaze for Jesus. Tyrone may be young,…

  31. S1 EP5: Let's Talk Daddy Issues

    · 51 min

    This week’s Under the Bed dives deep into the topic of fatherhood — the presence of it, the absence of it, and everything in between. One host shares a vulnerable story about growing up without a father and the…

  32. S1 EP4: Lukewarm, Lost & Stuck On The Fence

    · 40 min

    This one’s for the ones stuck in the in-between. In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re talking about what it really looks like to be lukewarm in your faith, drifting, distant, and trying to make sense of it all.…

  33. S1 EP3: Obedience, Obstacles & Out Of Excuses

    · 47 min

    In this episode of Under the Bed, we’re talking about a word that sounds simple… but costs everything: OBEDIENCE. Not the kind that’s easy. Not the kind that comes naturally. We’re talking about obedience that…

  34. S1 EP2: Single, Saved & Slightly Frustrated

    · 39 min

    Being single and saved isn’t for the weak! In this episode of Under the Bed, we get real about the highs and lows of navigating singleness as Christians. From trusting God’s timing to dealing with loneliness,…

  35. S1 EP1: Chaos, Confessions, and Christianity – Welcome to Under The Bed!

    · 1 h 07 min

    Welcome to the very first episode of Under the Bed! 🎙✨ In this episode, we take it all the way back—sharing our personal testimonies, how we met, and the journeys that led us to where we are in our faith today. From…

  36. Under The Bed Trailer

    · 0:18 · Trailer

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