62. Never Empty Nesters: Midlife and Autism
· 32 min · Episode 62
Episode 62. Never Empty Nesters: Midlife and Autism
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Are you parenting a child with profound autism or navigating life with a non-verbal teen who requires 24/7 care? You’ve found your people.
We’re Chris and Becky—parents to an 18-year-old son diagnosed with Level 3 autism, sometimes referred to as severe or profound autism. Each week, we share real-life stories from our journey parenting a child with high support needs, including sensory challenges, communication barriers, meltdowns, medical visits, and meaningful milestones.
In this episode:
In this raw and honest episode of The Autism Parent Club Podcast, we open up about something many autism parents quietly carry: the reality that we may never be “empty nesters.” As our friends step into midlife with new freedom—traveling more, rediscovering hobbies, or simply having fewer day-to-day responsibilities—we’re facing the opposite truth. Our son will always live with us, and our home will never be an empty nest.
We share how this truth hit us again during Chris’s birthday, a milestone that should have been the start of a new chapter—but instead reminded us that our life path looks different. Not wrong. Not less. Just different.
Inside the episode, we talk about:
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What it feels like to grieve the traditional empty-nest season
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How midlife changes when you’re still full-time caregivers
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Why we’re not excited about grandbabies yet (and why that’s okay)
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The emotional and physical exhaustion that comes with lifelong caregiving
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How to hold both the sadness and the possibility
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How to create a meaningful, extraordinary life even when your nest will never be empty
We share some of the questions guiding us as we redefine this season of life:
“We can still dream big—it’s just going to look different than someone else’s empty nest. Our nest will never be empty.” “How can we make the most extraordinary life given our circumstances?” “What if we try something different?”
If you’re an autism parent wondering how to build a fulfilling future while still being a caregiver—this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and less alone.
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