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Miss Me?

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269 episodes

Join longtime friends Miquita Oliver & Jordan Stephens for their twice a week catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week.

More about the show

Every Monday, Miquita and Jordan will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; indie sleaze, orgasms, lies…

Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections.

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  1. Listen Bitch! Cartoons... Lola Bunny is a BABE

    · 23 min · Episode 264 · Explicit

    Miquita remembers how Pinocchio scarred her for life, and Jordan is shocked to learn the original fairytales were even darker. Jordan is also back on his Space Jam bullshit and deep dives how the show changed the…

  2. Divorce, empaths and ethical porn

    · 34 min · Episode 263 · Explicit

    Miquita shares how she helped Lily through a high-stakes divorce. They’re hard. And horrible. So Jordan asks why it’s easier to get married than go through the legal drama of separation. And a heads up that in this…

  3. Listen Bitch! TV Series - Which character would you be?

    · 42 min · Episode 262 · Explicit

    Miquita and Jordan gleefully chat about their favourite TV series moments whilst answering your questions. They discuss the shows that raised us, the ones that aged like milk, and why our perspectives completely shift…

  4. Amy Winehouse & Oasis: Double standards of sex & drugs & rock’n’roll

    · 46 min · Episode 261 · Explicit

    Miquita and Jordan do not hold back on how the press vultures came at Amy, more so because she happened to be a female pop star. Oasis did not suffer the same scrutiny. Yet the raw genius of Amy Winehouse's Back to…

  5. Listen Bitch! Lies - Have you ever panic lied?

    · 38 min · Episode 260 · Explicit

    Is lying ever kind in relationships? If you were being cheated on, would you want to hear the truth? Miquita and Jordan assess how that’s played out in their past relationships. And - be honest now - did you just make…

  6. Dissecting Celebrity Traitors, and the Cornell 7 Story

    · 51 min · Episode 259 · Explicit

    Celebrity Traitors, thank you. Oh, the unbridled joy of watching people actively deceive each other for entertainment in a Scottish castle, even if one of those celebs (Amol) blatantly disregarded the advice that…

  7. Listen Bitch! Death - Grief is a language we all speak

    · 40 min · Episode 258

    In this Listen Bitch! Q&A episode, Miquita and Jordan answer your questions about death. Sounds heavy we know, and it does get emotional, but as we all face the inevitable together there’s so much joy and wisdom to be…

  8. We May Destroy the BBC

    · 38 min · Episode 257 · Explicit

    Look, relationships are complicated. Yes, we had a thing with the BBC, then we left the BBC, but we never stopped loving the BBC. Miquita and Jordan get into the implications for TV culture with this latest round of…

  9. Listen Bitch! Do We Have Chemistry?

    · 34 min · Episode 256 · Explicit

    Is it a spark? Something to be wary of? Or simply science? Miquita and Jordan answer your questions about ‘chemistry’ in any way you felt like interpreting it. Is that feeling when you click with someone pure chemistry…

  10. Sheeran, Strictly & SNL UK

    · 37 min · Episode 255 · Explicit

    There’s apologies, and then there’s apologies… Jordan and Miquita debate the politics around Ed Sheeran saying sorry on stage after his support acts left his Loop tour in solidarity with Macklemore, who was previously…

  11. Listen Bitch! What’s Your Best Era?

    · 41 min · Episode 254

    We really didn’t know where this one would go but thanks Miss Me? listeners, as ever the questions being asked on ‘eras of time’ are iconic. From whether the 90s really were the best, to whether calling everything an…

  12. Macklemore & Ed Sheeran Situation

    · 49 min · Episode 253 · Explicit

    NB: This episode was recorded before Ed Sheeran released this statement about Macklemore leaving his current tour https://www.instagram.com/p/DdT-6KGAtuI/?img_index=1 In the week that a US stadium owner had Macklemore…

  13. Men, Misogyny and the Manosphere | Live at LushFest

    · 46 min

    This bonus episode of Miss Me? Is brought to you by Lush. Jordan and Miquita take to the stage for a special live recording of Miss Me? at Lush Fest 2026 - https://lushfest.lush.com , exploring the rise of the…

  14. Listen Bitch! Games

    · 39 min · Episode 252 · Explicit

    This week Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens go deep on your questions around games, covering many different meanings of the word. Do you play well? Does your family play well together? Is love a game to be played?…

  15. An Appreciation of Fearne Cotton and Monty Don

    · 46 min · Episode 251 · Explicit

    An apology on Miss Me? led to Miquita joining Fearne Cotton for her latest Happy Place festival, plus Jordan and Keets react to Monty Don’s decision to leave Gardener’s World. And why was it the books we consider…

  16. Are Rites of Passage Right?

    · 34 min · Episode 250 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about rites of passage. From that first rave, that first trying to talk your way into a club underage, to losing your virginity. As always your questions take…

  17. Pets are Family

    · 42 min · Episode 249 · Explicit

    The painful truth of loving a pet gets explored as Miquita Oliver returns from holiday to join Jordan Stephens for their weekly catch-up. Alongside the pain is the utter soul-soothing balm of having a pet as part of…

  18. Listen Bitch! What Even is a Beauty Standard? (with Sabrina Elba)

    · 48 min · Episode 248

    Jordan Stephens and Sabrina Elba are back to dissect what society deems to be beauty. Is it subjective? Do we just mean healthy? How much have social media filters skewed what we think of how we look? As always,…

  19. A Guide to Cinema Etiquette (with Sabrina Elba)

    · 57 min · Episode 247 · Explicit

    Jordan Stephens calls up his friend Sabrina Dhowre Elba to swap tales about people who just don’t shut up in the cinema, and if there can be anything more effective than shhh. They also share their experience of…

  20. Listen Bitch! Sorry I’m Late (with Zawe Ashton)

    · 27 min · Episode 246 · Explicit

    Jordan Stephens and Zawe Ashton get into your questions about being on time. Is it something you stress about if you’re always running late, or does it bug you if people don’t show up on time? Jordan talks about how…

  21. What Your Birth Story Says About You (with Zawe Ashton)

    · 1 h 01 min · Episode 245 · Explicit

    Jordan Stephens and Zawe Ashton share everything they know about how they came into the world, the silence and the screams, and the surprising similarities between their birth stories. They talk about how their birth…

  22. Listen Bitch! Is Everything OK With Your Meal?

    · 41 min · Episode 244 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions on RESTAURANTS. From when it’s OK to complain or not, and what they’d change about the dining out experience. And is it about time we normalised that table for…

  23. Has Festival Season Turned to Dust?

    · 47 min · Episode 243 · Explicit

    Have you ever been visited by an incubus? The sleep sirens come out to play as Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss the effects of insomnia, and how sleep paralysis has haunted them both. And as we slide into…

  24. Listen Bitch! I’m Not Doing That Anymore

    · 31 min · Episode 242 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens get into why culture glamorises some bad habits, and not others, and when things get embarrassing should you stay home? Oh, and then there was that time Jordan threw a fish at Jason…

  25. Celebrity Culture From Both Sides

    · 31 min · Episode 241 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens talk about celebrity fandoms, and whether it’s normal to idolise certain people. Miquita discusses her night out with Lily Allen seeing The Oresteia, while Jordan talks about…

  26. Listen Bitch! Alcohol is the Worst One

    · 34 min · Episode 240 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens debate your questions around the substances people take to escape from the world at times, and Miquita reveals she only recently dated soberly for the first time. They get into why…

  27. Unschool Yourself

    · 44 min · Episode 239 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens reflect on the weirdness of making a podcast at times, and what they think schools should actually teach. They also get into why school didn't work for them and the lessons that…

  28. Listen Bitch! Do You Believe in Magick?

    · 31 min · Episode 238 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about magic, delving into all its meanings and interpretations and wonder. Abracadabra doesn't mean what you maybe think it does… Next week the theme is DRUGS.…

  29. When Life Gets Peak, Head to Them

    · 45 min · Episode 237 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss why he's been wild camping this week, and the mixed emotions he felt walking in the heart of the British countryside. They also debate why football offers a different aspect…

  30. Listen Bitch! Fingering the Void

    · 41 min · Episode 236 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about foreplay. Expect sexual language and imagery, and frankly a very useful surfing analogy. Next time the topic is MAGIC so send your voice note questions to…

  31. The Great Forgetting

    · 48 min · Episode 235 · Explicit

    An apology to Fearne Cotton from Miquita and a reassessing of Ali G from Jordan and some love all round for Jude Bellingham. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @missme.4eva Explore the Miss Me? Library of culture…

  32. Listen Bitch! Clappers & Anthems

    · 22 min · Episode 234 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about those songs that make a summer. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @missme.4eva Next week we'd love your voice note questions on FOREPLAY send them here…

  33. You’ve Done Nothing Wrong (with Simon Amstell)

    · 54 min · Episode 233 · Explicit

    Simon Amstell joins Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens as they reminisce about friendship, career validation and vanity. Plus the Miss Me? Library is now open for subscribers - go to Patreon.com/missme Producer:…

  34. Listen Bitch! Is This Cultural Terrorism?

    · 39 min · Episode 232 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about stag and hen do’s. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Danny Pape Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video Editor: Danny Pape Production…

  35. The Rejection Olympics

    · 53 min · Episode 231 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens share their gig reviews of Lily’s West End Girl and Harry Styles’ residency at Wembley, plus is ghosting the new rejection olympics? On socials @missme.4eva Producer: Natalie…

  36. Listen Bitch! Everything is an Invitation

    · 32 min · Episode 230 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about invitations. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Jasper Fell-Clarke Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video Editor: Danny Pape Production…

  37. Sommar Solstice

    · 46 min · Episode 229 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens celebrate Dua & Callum’s love story, fatherhood and they go deep on Myles Smith’s fame. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty and Jasper Fell-Clark…

  38. Listen Bitch! Confidentially Incompetent

    · 47 min · Episode 228 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about confidence. New link to send us your Listen Bitch voicenote questions! https://wa.me/447849030711 Weekly topic reveals now @missme.4eva on instagram…

  39. Multiple Rafikis

    · 41 min · Episode 227 · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens welcome everyone into a new era of Miss Me? & look at cultural new beginnings. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid…

  40. Listen Bitch! Colour Outside The Lines

    · 37 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about hobbies. Next week, we want to hear your questions about CONFIDENCE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an…

  41. A New Era

    · 36 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens reveal the next Miss Me? evolution plus memorable cultural exits. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer:…

  42. Listen Bitch! Boundaryless

    · 33 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about boundaries. Next week, we want to hear your questions about HOBBIES. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an…

  43. Joseph’s Fiennes Now

    · 41 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss Lily and JADE at Mighty Hoopla, Dear England & actionable change. This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, and maternal death in childbirth.…

  44. Listen Bitch! Taste Buds

    · 41 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton answer your questions about taste. Next week, we want to hear your questions about BOUNDARIES. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email:…

  45. Connell’s Chain

    · 48 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton discuss making sex seem real on screen, and how much football means to them. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical…

  46. Listen Bitch! Roof Rack Envy

    · 33 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about cars. Next week, we want to hear your questions about TASTE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email:…

  47. Just Take a Lover

    · 39 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss dating apps, Monty Don, flowers and Loose Men. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver…

  48. Listen Bitch! Rizzle-elagwan

    · 31 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about languages. Next week, we want to hear your questions about CARS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an…

  49. Banksy’s Rules

    · 34 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss their cultural and personal connections to Sir David Attenborough, Celebrity Traitors and Banksy. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.…

  50. Listen Bitch! Higher Grounds

    · 34 min · Explicit

    Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about coffee. Next week, we want to hear your questions about LANGUAGES. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an…

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