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Beyond The Chaos

Amy Gerard & Gen Muir

253 episodes · Explicit

Join parent educator and obstetric social worker - Gen Muir - and mum of three - Amy Gerard - as they tackle the challenges of parenthood and answer your questions on Beyond The Chaos. Listening to this podcast is guaranteed to reduce parent guilt, help with practical tips and show you that you're not alone - because parenting is by far the hardest and weirdest thing you'll ever do.

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  1. What To Do When Your Child Says (Very) Inappropriate Words

    · 40 min · S3 E42

    Sometimes our kids can see or hear a word, and repeat it, even when they know they shouldn't. Today we hear from a mum who's little one won't stop saying a very inappropriate word, and has no idea what to do. Plus,…

  2. Picking The Right School For Your Child

    · 32 min · S3 E41

    Whether it's primary or high school, picking the right school isn't always as simple as which one is closest. There's the needs of your child, public or private, religious or not, and so much more. Amy and Gen speak…

  3. "My Husband Is Uncomfortable With My Daughter Having A Boyfriend!"

    · 32 min · S3 E40

    Whether you have younger or older kids, chances are you'll be facing them having a boyfriend or girlfriend at some point. So what do we do when the feeling makes us uncomfortable? Gen and Amy unpack a question from a…

  4. "Women Can Do It All, Just Not All At Once"

    · 21 min · S3 E39

    Amy has just been announced as the new host of KIIS breakfast radio, and is navigating what this career change means her family, and Gen has some sage advice based upon her own experiences. Pre-order Gen's new book…

  5. ARFID In Children: More That Being A 'Picky' Eater

    · 30 min · S3 E38

    ARFID and trouble with eating is more that being 'picky', as most mums know, and can be hard to navigate. Gen delves into her personal experience for this listener question. Plus, some parenting highs and lows…

  6. The Bittersweet Feeling Of Your Kids Growing Up

    · 21 min · S3 E37

    One day your kids are holding your hand and calling you mummy, and the next they want to be dropped off on the corner so their friends don't see you. Our kid's growing up is inevitable, and comes with a whole host of…

  7. Beyond The Chaos x Beyond The Bump: Why Kids Need Boundaries

    · 55 min · S3 E37

    In this special episode, we are joined by Sophie and Jayde from Beyond The Bump for a crossover episode! They keep Amy's seat warm while she's in Italy, and speak to Gen about everything to do with kids and boundaries,…

  8. Playing, Learning, And The Pressure To Get Your Kid 'School Ready'

    · 27 min · S3 E36

    It seems like the pressure to get your kid ready to sit down at school and learn is getting earlier and earlier. So what is the ideal age, and should we be encouraging our kids to sit down and read and write before…

  9. The Real Reason Behind Your Kid's Mega Meltdown

    · 27 min · S3 E35

    Amy is back from Italy, and got home to a loving peaceful household. For about 30 seconds. Her kids melted down one by one, but Gen has the reason behind why your nice moments are 'ruined' by tantrums and fights.…

  10. Do Your Kids Know How To Answer A Phone?

    · 20 min · S3 E34

    Do your kids answer the phone with a 'yep?' or a 'what?' instead of 'hello', and you're not sure why? Well, we have a theory. Plus, we hear from a listener who is worried about her daughter being too bossy and…

  11. How Long Would You Leave Your Kids To Go On Holidays?

    · 22 min · S3 E33

    Every parent deserves the occasional child-free holiday, and this week Amy has jetted off to Italy. She's not going for very long but is already anxious about leaving her kids, but Gen has a story about her parents…

  12. "I Have A Hyperactive Child, Is This 'Normal'?"

    · 31 min · S3 E32

    Lots of kids have extra energy, but sometimes hyperactivity can start being concerning. At what point is behaviour too disruptive for your child, and everyone else, and what do you do? Gen and Amy answer a listener…

  13. The Book That Has Divided The Country

    · 20 min · S3 E31

    It's an AMEN (featuring a new theme!) and Amy and Gen are discussing the new hit book Yesteryear, Amy's upcoming travel plans, and why Gen swears by a holiday hike. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries…

  14. The Heartbreak Of Your Child Saying And Doing Hurtful Things

    · 46 min · S3 E30

    Everyone has experienced their child acting out with their words and actions, but when is intervention needed? And what do you do? We hear from a worried listener who needs support, and Gen and Amy have some sage…

  15. When Amy Called Gen For Parenting Advice

    · 33 min · S3 E29

    It's an AMEN episode! This week, Amy called Gen with a parenting dilemma of her own, and needed some level headed advice on whether punishing a kid for lying ever works. Join our Facebook group and have your say:…

  16. Different Kids, Different Rules? Parenting Siblings Individually

    · 40 min · S3 E28

    Is it inevitable that if you have more than one child, you will parent them differently? And how does that affect the kids, and the family dynamic? This is a common dilemma for our listeners, and today Amy and Gen hear…

  17. Getting On The Same Page As Your Partner with Matty J from Two Doting Dads

    · 1 h 00 min · S3 E27

    We have a very special guest on this episode! One half of Two Doting Dads, former Bachelor, and dad of 3 Matty J joins Gen and Amy on the show! In this bumper episode they speak about their highs and lows of the week,…

  18. Mum Guilt: Does It Ever Go Away??

    · 17 min · S3 E26

    On this week's AMEN, Gen and Amy discuss their perpetual mum guilt. Despite doing what feels like more than ever for our kids, why does it still feel like it's not enough? Join our Facebook group and have your say:…

  19. Teaching Your Child To Say 'No'

    · 25 min · S3 E25

    Do you struggle to instil in your child the ability to say 'no'? And when is the right time to draw a boundary? Gen and Amy hear from a listener struggling with this, but suspect this question goes a bit deeper than…

  20. Why It Sometimes Feels Easier When Your Partner's Away

    · 18 min · S3 E24

    Do you find it easier or harder to manage your household when your partner is away? In this AMEN episode, Amy and Gen break down why life sometimes seems easier when their husbands travel. Join our Facebook group and…

  21. Separation Anxiety, Meal Prepping, and "I Hate You Mum"

    · 40 min · S3 E23

    In this bumper episode, Gen and Amy answer a question from a parent wondering how to manage separation anxiety in her child, and wonders if she's to blame. Plus, they discuss everything from plantar heel pain, to meal…

  22. A Vent About School Lunchboxes

    · 20 min · S3 E22

    It's an AMEN episode, and can we get an amen for how hard it is packing lunch boxes? Do your kids pack their own? Do they eat the food you give them? Will the cycle of bringing home uneaten food ever end? Jump in our…

  23. Do 'Time Outs' Ever Actually Work?

    · 30 min · S3 E21

    Time outs are a contentious subject; while they've been used to try and discipline children for a long time, do they ever actually work? Amy and Gen discuss a great listener question this week from a mum who is not…

  24. "I'm A Motherless Mother": Reflections On Mother's Day

    · 12 min · S3 E20

    Amy and Gen are popping in your feeds for a quick Mother's Day reflection, with Amy dialling in from Vietnam. Will it be better than last year's disaster? Plus, it's Gen's first Mother's Day without her own mum. Leave…

  25. Why Your Child 'Pushing Your Buttons' Is Not What You Think

    · 24 min · S3 E19

    Have you ever thought, 'man my child just loves to push my buttons'? Most parents have at some point. Well, Gen has some thoughts around the idea of back chat and pushing buttons that might surprise you. Plus, Amy…

  26. Why Your Child's Eye Health Is So Important

    · 28 min · S3 E18

    How much do you know about myopia? Or even what it is? It's super common in children, and can not only affect how children see the world, but their ability to learn and play. Today on the show we're joined by Margaret…

  27. You Need To Be Having The Sex Conversation Earlier Than You Think

    · 34 min · S3 E17

    You're probably cringing at the thought of it, but we all know how important the 'where do babies come from' conversation is. But what age is appropriate, and what do you say? We hear from a listener grappling with…

  28. Kids and Screens: Is It A Losing Battle?

    · 29 min · S3 E16

    Amy is back, and needs some help from Gen managing her kids and screens. Can you have different rules for different kids? Plus, Gen and Amy compare their very different school holidays. Leave your question for Gen…

  29. Managing Kids Who Use Harsh Words

    · 17 min · S2 E15

    Most kids go through a phase where they can use some really callous language, and while this is normal, it is shocking! Today, Gen answers a listener question about a little girl who can say some not very nice things.…

  30. The Manosphere And Raising Boys (And Girls)

    · 21 min · S3 E14

    In this special A-GEN episode, Gen dives into some of the fears both parents of boys and girls have right now; The Manosphere and raising good boys. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos…

  31. Holidaying With Kids- It's Possible!

    · 21 min · S3 E13

    Amy has just gotten back from a family holiday to Bali and she not only survived, she thrived! Plus, Gen recounts the family holiday from hell where she almost died (apparently). Leave your question for Gen and Amy…

  32. The Heartbreak Of Having A Misunderstood Child

    · 33 min · S3 E12

    Today on the show, we hear a heartbreaking but all too common dilemma from a dad whose child is struggling to be understood at their school. Gen and Amy offer some advice for this parent on how to support their child…

  33. Parenting In Your 40's: The Exhaustion Is Real!

    · 24 min · S3 E11

    It's a fun and loose AMEN episode today, and since Amy just turned 40, her and Gen break down the unique exhaustion that comes with parenting in your fourth decade (and just existing as woman, full stop!) Leave your…

  34. "Help! My Daughter's Dancing Making Me Uncomfortable!"

    · 17 min · S3 E10

    While we know that kids often just copy things they see on tv or in the media, sometimes that means that they can do things that are a little too...mature for their age. That's what a mum is struggling with this week,…

  35. "My Daughter Is Rude To Me In Front Of Her Friends, And I'm Sick Of It"

    · 23 min · S3 E9

    This week, it's Amy who has the parenting dilemma, and needs Gen's help! What do you do when your tween starts acting like a different person in front of their friends? And what happens when the FOMO moves into…

  36. "Help! My Child Is Jealous Of My New Baby"

    · 26 min · S3 E8

    While we all like to imagine our kids are going to be best friends, sibling jealousy is very normal and can be especially prevalent when a new baby enters the family. Today we hear from a mum whose eldest gets jealousy…

  37. Parenting Imposter Syndrome Is A Real Thing

    · 29 min · S3 E7

    We talk a lot on Beyond The Chaos about how hard it is when it looks like everyone else has it together, while you feel like you're falling apart (even when we all know no one is perfect). On this episode we hear from…

  38. The Number 1 Rule For Getting Your Child To Sleep

    · 28 min · S3 E6

    So many kids have a complicated relationship with sleep; everything from not wanting to sleep in their own bed, to not being tired at bedtime. We hear from a listener going through this problem with her 8 year old, and…

  39. Thank F*** School Holidays Are Over

    · 24 min · S3 E5

    Gen and Amy are back in the studio for 2026! They reflect on the highs and lows of school holidays; which as we know can range from beautiful moments of bonding to breaking up screaming matches between siblings and…

  40. What Is The Right Age To Talk To Your Teen About Dating?

    · 13 min · S3 E4

    Talking about dating can feel like a loaded topic; but there comes a time that every parent needs to broach that topic with their teen. But the question is, what is the right age? And how do you have that conversation…

  41. Are Your Kids Old Enough to Go Out Unsupervised?

    · 11 min · S3 E3

    When is the right age to let your kid and their friends roam unsupervised? And what happens if you find out another parent has let your child do exactly that without asking you? On this week's episode Amy and Gen…

  42. Our Top 5 Tips For Getting Through Starting School

    · 13 min · S3 E2

    As we creep closer to school starting for 2026, your child might naturally be anxious. And we're guessing you are too! Gen has your back with 5 practical tips for kids starting school for the first time. Leave your…

  43. "My Child's Grandparent Calls Her Fat"

    · 8:31 · S3 E1

    Grandparents....we love them, but sometimes they can say problematic things to our kids, often without even realising it. In this mini holiday episode, Amy and Gen discuss how to tackle this tricky problem. Leave your…

  44. Amy's Foolproof Guide To Surviving NYE With Kids

    · 8:04 · S2 E36

    New Year's Eve used to mean dressing up, parties, cocktails, and midnight kisses. But these days, if you're anything like us, we're lucky to see 10pm without a headache from fighting kids and sugar crashes. So Amy has…

  45. Gen's Christmas Eve Meditation

    · 6:51 · S2 E35

    Whoever said 'T'was the night before Christmas, and all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse' clearly did not have kids. It's Xmas Eve, and it's probably chaos in your house, so Gen is here…

  46. "My Child Is Suddenly Self-Conscious, What Can I Do?"

    · 9:52 · S2 E34

    Welcome to the first in our summer mini episodes! We're not leaving you high and dry without us at any point this festive period, don't worry. This episode, we hear from a mum who's young child has suddenly become…

  47. How To Explain Death To Your Child

    · 17 min · S2 E33

    Having a conversation with your child about someone special dying is one of the hardest talks you can have with them, and it can be tricky knowing how to navigate it. Recently, Gen had to have this conversation with…

  48. Siblings Are Meant To Fight - Here's Why

    · 32 min · S2 E32

    While it would be nice if siblings always got on with each other, we know that is generally not the case. In fact, sibling fights and rivalry can be one of the most stressful experiences as a parent. So what can we do…

  49. We're Sick Of Being Shamed By Instagram Parenting Experts

    · 34 min · S2 E31

    Recently, we heard from a parent who was feeling overwhelmed by the amount of negative messaging from 'parent experts' around things like sleep training and the effect it's having on your baby. The truth is, everyone…

  50. How Do You Tell Your Kids To Put Down The Screen, When You're Also Addicted?

    · 22 min · S2 E30

    Kids and screens. We talk about it all the time on BTC because it's the issue that we often struggle with the most, as do our listeners. But is there actually anything we can do about it? Especially when we're often…

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