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Why Kids Don't Listen (And What Actually Works)
· 12 min · Episode 167
Episode Why Kids Don't Listen (And What Actually Works)
Why kids don't listen is one of the most common questions I get from parents — and the answer isn't what most people expect. It's almost never about defiance. It's almost always about how communication is happening. And that means it can be changed.
In this video I'm walking you through five specific, research-backed reasons your child may be tuning out your words — and for each one, a practical strategy you can start using today. This is how to get kids to listen without repeating yourself, without yelling, and without the power struggle.
You'll learn: → Why your child's brain is literally filtering out your voice (habituation theory) → The difference between asking and stating — and why it matters → How transition warnings reduce resistance dramatically → Why following through once beats repeating yourself ten times → The "Reset Before You Repeat" technique for when you're at your limit
Based on research by Baumrind (1991), Broadbent (1958), Skinner (1953), and Piaget (1952).
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