023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?
· 1 h 08 min · S1 E23 · Explicit
Episode 023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in NYC, juxtaposing the girls’ married and partnered perspectives. Their conversation includes:
First experiences in CNM (consensual non-monogamy): Holly’s first threesome; common types of group play and the girls’ preferences; being discreet with “incognito mode”on Feeld. (1:05)
Group sex: Even vs odd numbers; dynamics. (7:12) Single and Poly: Going to mixers and meetups; the experience of being single vs partnered in the lifestyle; what considerations does a unicorn need to think about in play situations? (11:15)
Sexual Labels: “lifestyle”, “queer”, “fluid”, playing with women who don’t identify as gay, the different dynamic of having a penis in the room. (15:48) Comphet: What is Compulsory Heterosexuality? Questioning your thoughts due to internalized homophobia. Is it still a problem in society? Calling men vs women for a booty call. (23:32)
Best Threesomes: Being dommed by a women vs a man; what makes a successful unicorn? (36:12)
Boundaries: the case against taking sexy nudes. (41:05)
Coming out as open to friends and family. (43:13)
Growth through sexual experiences: being celebrated for who you are; taking back the word SLUT. (46:40)
Main Nuggets: Guarding your heart, finding the right people, misconceptions of people in the lifestyle. (52:49)
Listener Question: How to go to a mixer solo. (57:49)
Support the show
______
How to Support the Show:
💰 Donate Here
💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep
🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod
🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.
🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.
🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP
🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame
🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco
💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com
© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.
Links in the notes 8
Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. Every show and episode belongs to its publisher and plays from the publisher's own feed; this site hosts none of them. Explicit shows are for adult profiles only, and children’s profiles hear only children’s shows. More about this list.