026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms
· 58 min · S1 E26 · Explicit
Episode 026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms
In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including:
What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is it offensive? (2:40)
What do you think of when you think ethical non monogamy or open relationship? What words or concepts come to mind? (4:38)
What changes have you observed in your friends since they started exploring the nonmonogamous lifestyle? (9:55)
What questions do you have for people in the lifestyle?
• How does it work? (14:27) • How can you watch your partner with someone else, without feeling jealous? Jealousy, hotwife, and cuckolding. (15:55) • How can you be friends with someone who has sex with your husband (your metamour)? Friends with benefits. (21:44) • How does emotional intimacy work inside versus outside the primary relationship? (26:38) • How do you protect against STD’s when you have so much sex? What is fluid bonding? (32:38) • How do you tell your family and/or children about your open lifestyle, or how much do you tell them? How do you balance your time between kids and your partners? (35:37) • If you’re trying to get into girl-on-girl, how do you get comfortable playing with women? (44:46) • Will you ever be totally sexually satisfied? (48:09) • What happens when you get older or ready to settle down? Will you ever be with one person? (51:38)
“Serial monogamist and flirt with a high sex drive and little inhibition” poses some thought-provoking ideas and questions about polyamory and religion, and questioning your own choices further. (55:02)
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