The Messy Inbetween

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1. Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 240

   30 Oct 2026 · 1 h 11 min

   Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beduc.at/bg2639-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast October is ending, but the drama is far from over! Happy TMI Friday, Inbetweeners❤️…

2. Debatable Friendship Expectations | Episode 239

   23 Oct 2026 · 1 h 27 min

   Guys, can we talk about friendship expectations? Because some of these things we expect from our friends are actually debatable!👀. On today’s video, we’re getting into it! Is your friend not posting you on your…

3. Your Friend Is Richer Than You - Now What? | Episode 238

   16 Oct 2026 · 1 h 12 min

   Happy episode day Inbetweeners🎙️❤️ Can money complicate friendships? And when your friend can afford a lifestyle you can't, what does navigating that difference look like? This week, we're talking friendship, money…

4. He's A Good Man... Is He Though? | Episode 237

   9 Oct 2026 · 1 h 14 min

   Hot, rich and obsessed with you. That was the standard. 😂 But somewhere between our 20s and now, the list got a serious rewrite. In this episode, we get into the things we used to think made a good man, what we value…

5. What’s Been On Our Minds Lately | Episode 236

   2 Oct 2026 · 1 h 26 min

   Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Today’s agenda: a little brain dump. Think of this episode as one big extended intro. We just sat down and talked about all the things that have been popping into our minds lately. The…

6. An Inbetweener Once Said… | Episode 235

   25 Sep 2026 · 1 h 19 min

   We’re always asking you guys to comment and share your thoughts on our episodes, and today, we’re getting back to them! An Inbetweener once said… and we read your comments from past episodes and reacted to them. Now,…

7. Relationship Timelines | Episode 234

   18 Sep 2026 · 1 h 00 min

   Hey Inbetweeners! How’s your Friday going? Thank you for tuning in once again! In today’s episode, we’re talking about relationship timelines. Is there actually an appropriate time for different milestones in a…

8. Sex Hills We’re Willing to Die On | Episode 233

   11 Sep 2026 · 1 h 00 min

   Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2635-tmipodcast It’s Friday🤩! And you know we’re back with another fire episode🔥 On today’s episode, we’re discussing the sex hills we’re…

9. Things That Work in Relationships But Social Media Says Leave | Episode 232

   4 Sep 2026 · 1 h 09 min

   Happy new month, Inbetweeners. May your September be filled with love, kindness, positivity, peace of mind, laughter, healing, and plenty of good days. Today’s episode is all about those things that are working…

10. What Would We Do If…? | Episode 231

    28 Aug 2026 · 1 h 03 min

    What’s good, Inbetweeners? Happy episode day! Thank you for all the love on our last episode. We appreciate every like, comment and share❤️. We’re back with another episode of dilemmas, but this time, we’re switching…

11. Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 230

    21 Aug 2026 · 1 h 15 min

    Another Friday, another mess to unpack 👀 And today’s mess is your dilemmas. Oufff, they were HEAVY😭 We went through some of the dilemmas you sent us via DMs on TikTok and Instagram, and Kenyan male celebrities, y’all…

12. Money Mistakes We've Made in the Name of Love | Episode 229

    14 Aug 2026 · 1 h 00 min

    Click here to buy Tides movie tickets: https://kenyabuzz.com/movies/preview/tides Happy Friday Inbetweeners!🎙️ We have guests on today’s episode! The talented Sarah Hassan and Brian Kabugi, who play Salma and Biko…

13. Sex Mistakes We've Made in the Name of Love | Episode 228

    7 Aug 2026 · 56 min

    Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment, take the quiz: https://beduc.at/bg2631-tmipodcast Happy new month, Inbetweeners!✨ Wishing you nothing but great wins this August❤️. Now... today's…

14. Reacting to Messy Mondays | Episode 227

    31 Jul 2026 · 1 h 01 min

    Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from. Hee... Messy Mondays! You guys are messyyyyyy. If you're new here, Messy Mondays is our weekly segment where Inbetweeners…

15. Is the Group Chat Ruining Your Relationship? | Episode 226

    24 Jul 2026 · 1 h 13 min

    It's Friday🤩! And you know we're back with another fire episode. First, thank you for all the love on the last one. We appreciate you so much❤️🥰. So... is your group chat ruining your relationships? When you're…

16. Hot or Cringe...Sex Edition | Episode 225

    17 Jul 2026 · 1 h 03 min

    Discover your path to greater sexual confidence and fulfillment. https://beduc.at/bg2627-tmipodcast Your ribs will be aching after this episode. It's that funny🤣🤣 Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Hope your day is going…

17. Things People Say to Single People That May Seem Supportive but Are Actually Annoying | Episode 224

    10 Jul 2026 · 1 h 08 min

    TMI is FIVE 🥹🤩❤️ 5 years of The Messy Inbetween, honest conversations, and a community that's become home. Our Inbetweeners, we appreciate you so much, thank you for loving and supporting this thing we built.…

18. The Do's & Don'ts of Male Female Friendships | Episode 223

    3 Jul 2026 · 1 h 12 min

    Happy New Month, Inbetweeners! You made it to July 🎉 May this new month bring you peace, love, comfort and so much happiness. Today's episode is all about opposite gender friendships, how to navigate them, and the…

19. Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 222

    26 Jun 2026 · 1 h 06 min

    Happy Friday Inbetweeners! 🎙️ We promised you guys a dilemma episode every so often and we're keeping that promise. This one had everything: getting bored of your partner after a month, deadbeat partners, guns,…

20. An Inbetweener Once Said... | Episode 221

    19 Jun 2026 · 1 h 13 min

    It's Episode Friday Inbetweeners🖤 We're back with one of your most loved episodes — An Inbetweener Once Said. This time we went through your comments from our previous episodes and... yeah, you guys do not hold back 😭…

21. Questions People Are Secretly Googling About Sex & Masturbation | Episode 220

    12 Jun 2026 · 58 min

    Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2618-tmipodcast Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from. We're back with another one,…

22. First Date Fails: Men's Edition | Episode 219

    5 Jun 2026 · 1 h 02 min

    Happy TMI Friday Inbetweeners! 🎉 Before we get into it, we have some EXCITING news. We just launched the TMI x Enkata Galaxy Collection and we are so obsessed with how the watches turned out. They are absolutely…

23. Deinfluencing You From Internet Advice That's Ruining Your Relationship | Episode 218

    29 May 2026 · 1 h 13 min

    Hey Inbetweeners, happy Friday! Long time no see. Life really comes at you fast. Murugi recently lost her close uncle and we had to take some time off, which is why we have been away for a bit. Thank you for being…

24. Reasons Why You’d Want to Be Our Friend | Episode 217

    8 May 2026 · 1 h 01 min

    It's Friyay!! 🤩🥳 Happy episode day Inbetweeners! Thank you for all your comments on our last episode...Some of y'all are STRICTTTT! but that's very okay, we get it. Today's episode is a fun one. We're talking about…

25. Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be Our Friend | Episode 216

    1 May 2026 · 1 h 04 min

    Happy Labor Day, Inbetweeners 😊✨ How’s your Friday going so far? Ours at TMI is already off to a great start, because we’ve got a hot new episode: Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be My Friend. “I like to be invited to…

26. Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma Epd | Episode 215

    24 Apr 2026 · 1 h 05 min

    Long time no dilemma episode… but we’re back🤩. And this one? It’s one of those episodes that stays with you🫂. We love doing dilemma episodes because one story is rarely just one story. What one person is going…

27. My Sexual Partner Once Told Me...| Episode 214

    17 Apr 2026 · 1 h 02 min

    Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beduc.at/bg2624-tmipodcast Happy Friday🤩🤩!Eeeey Inbetweeners😌...Who are you guys dating though? We asked you on Instagram to finish the sentence “My…

28. Things Women Don't Get Enough Credit For | Episode 214

    10 Apr 2026 · 59 min

    Happy Episode Day! 🤩 Last week’s episode had y’all triggered but we’re not getting into that today👀. Women, what don’t we get enough credit for? EVERYTHINGGGGGGG. The PMS, the period itself, the cramps, pregnancy and…

29. Things Good Men Don't Get Enough Credit For | Episode 213

    3 Apr 2026 · 1 h 09 min

    Happy Easter Weekend, Inbetweeners🐰🤩🎉. Your weekend is already sorted because we have a brand new episode out today🥳. We filmed this one at the beautiful Dusit Princess Nairobi in Westlands. The hotel is stunning, the…

30. Unexplored Pathways To Pleasure | Episode 211

    27 Mar 2026 · 55 min

    Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment: https://beducate.me/bg2612-tmipodcast Let's get out of the ordinary and into the unexplored path ways to pleasure... Staying naked more often! That does some…

31. Things We're Still Figuring Out In Our 30's...|Episode 210

    20 Mar 2026 · 1 h 24 min

    Happy Friday, Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim Ibetweeners🥳🌙We hope you’re having a really soft, beautiful day. Let’s get into today’s conversation… There are still things we’re figuring out in our 30s. It might not…

32. Sex Toys...Where Do You Draw The Line? | Episode 209

    13 Mar 2026 · 1 h 17 min

    Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line? In this episode we share our sex toy stories, how we first discovered them, what the experience has been like for…

33. Things You Need to Decenter as a Woman | Episode 208

    6 Mar 2026 · 1 h 11 min

    Good afternoonnn, It’s lunchtimeee and TMIII just dropped a new oneeee🎶🎵 Flow with u💃💃 Anyway, Happy International Women’s Day, Queenbetweeners. Our true ride-or-dies, thank you for being such an integral part of our…

34. Q n A | Episode 207

    27 Feb 2026 · 1 h 02 min

    It’s definitely… TMI Fridaysssss 🤩🤩 New episode. New montage. And yes...we finally delivered the new montage we’ve been promising 💃💃(For the audio gang, its on our YouTube) On today’s episode, we’re answering some of…

35. Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks | Episode 206

    20 Feb 2026 · 49 min

    Your daily dose of happiness is here! TMI FRIDAYSSS🤩🤩.Today’s agenda? Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks. And listen… some of them are wild. For example...Speaking affirmations to your water before you drink it, marrying…

36. Things We Assume Come Naturally, But Actually Don't... | Episode 205

    13 Feb 2026 · 56 min

    Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment. Take the quiz: https://beducate.me/bg2608-tmipodcast Happy Valentine’s❤️. How are you spending yours? Date night with your manz? Galentines? Or you and your…

37. Our 2026 Ins & Outs | Episode 204

    6 Feb 2026 · 59 min

    Surpriseeeee🤩🎉 No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday! Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂 How have you been? We missed you so much during our two-month break, so we decided to…

38. From the Peaks to the Pits...Our 2025 Recap | Epd 203

    26 Nov 2025 · 1 h 25 min

    The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners! Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year. We’ve both had our fair share of lows including losing loved ones and some really…

39. Movie Moments That are Red Flags in Real Life |Epd 202

    19 Nov 2025 · 1 h 12 min

    Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2522-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Climaxing together in one minute, falling in love in two days……

40. Less of… & More of… Sex, Relationships & Friendships |Epd 201

    12 Nov 2025 · 1 h 01 min

    Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2542-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast69 Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! Less penetration, more…

41. Big Girl Jobs, Older Men & Friendship Breakups |Epd 200

    5 Nov 2025 · 1 h 08 min

    200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰 The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you participate. This week, we’re continuing the conversation on canon events that shape…

42. Canon Events That Shape You as A Woman |Epd 199

    29 Oct 2025 · 1 h 11 min

    Your weekly source of joy is here! Happy Happy Wednesday! We’re talking about the canon events that shaped us as women — the moments that completely changed how we see the world. From realizing that what happened to…

43. What's Destroying Relationships More Than Cheating? |Epd 198

    22 Oct 2025 · 1 h 07 min

    Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2538-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast We’ve always thought cheating was the biggest relationship destroyer but baby,…

44. Abortion Truths No One Talks About | Epd 197

    15 Oct 2025 · 1 h 00 min

    Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! You guys sent us so many questions after our “Stranger Removal” episode and we heard you❤ This week, we’re answering some of them and breaking down some of the biggest myths around…

45. How to Ruin a Date 101 |Epd 196

    8 Oct 2025 · 1 h 08 min

    Hey Inbetweeners💖 We missed you last week but guess what… we’re back with another banger 🎉 This time we’re talking about the things that can completely ruin a date. Like imagine pulling up cute and ready only for him…

46. Unspoken rules of Situationships |Epd 195

    24 Sep 2025 · 56 min

    Let’s talk situationshipssss! The real pandemic among the youth 🤣. On this episode we’re getting into the tea: what actually makes a situationship different from a relationship or FWB, plus the unspoken rules (like…

47. So…Are you really happy with your sex life right now? |Epd 194

    17 Sep 2025 · 1 h 04 min

    Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2534-tmipodcast Coupon Code: tmipodcast ✨ Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! ✨ We recently asked you on our Instagram:…

48. STRANGER REMOVAL |Epd 193

    10 Sep 2025 · 55 min

    “CTRL+Z” aka abortion...That’s the conversation on today's episode. Recent trends show just how alarming the rate of unsafe abortions in Kenya is, some even calling it “stranger removal.” In this episode, we’re…

49. An Inbetweener Once Said...|Epd 192

    3 Sep 2025 · 1 h 04 min

    It’s TMI Wednesday✨ Today we’re reacting to your comments from episode 190: Life is Messy. You guys shared what life is teaching you, from learning to slow down, to trusting that things will always work out and…

50. Hey Big Sisters-Dilemma Epd | Epd 191

    27 Aug 2025 · 57 min

    It’s been a minute since we did a dilemma episode, but the wait is over! First, thank you for being so open with us—sharing your dilemmas really helps us figure out what conversations we need to lean into more. Got a…