Olivia on Finding Freedom After Abuse
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Episode Olivia on Finding Freedom After Abuse
In this episode of the Therapy Works podcast, Olivia shares the harrowing experience of her husband being arrested in 2014 for downloading and sharing paedophilic images of children. She discusses the subsequent impact on her life and her four children, detailing the years of coercive control, emotional abuse, and manipulation she endured during her marriage. Olivia reflects on the therapy and support she received that helped her come to terms with the situation, reclaim her sense of self, and start to rebuild her life. Despite the trauma, Olivia speaks of her path to freedom, the crucial role of her support system, and how she managed to rebuild a life filled with joy and self-discovery.
00:12 The Day Everything Changed
01:22 Living Under Coercive Control
05:10 Realisations Through Therapy
10:19 The Arrest and Its Aftermath
14:14 Struggles with Shame and Guilt
31:30 Support Systems and Healing
37:46 Reflections and Moving Forward
Support Links & Further Resources
• Understanding the Vagus Nerve – Learn more via the Polyvagal Institute • Carolyn Spring – Resources on trauma and recovery: carolynspring.com • Women’s Aid – Support for those affected by domestic abuse: womensaid.org.uk • Support for Families & Friends of Perpetrators – Guidance via the Survivors’ Network: Read here • Dr. Gwen Adshead: Reith Lecture – Listen on the BBC: Episode link
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- https://www.polyvagalinstitute.org/
- https://www.carolynspring.com/
- https://www.womensaid.org.uk/
- https://survivorsnetwork.org.uk/resource/support-for-families-friends-and-partners-of-perpetrators/
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