When Submission Has Been Used to Silence You
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Episode When Submission Has Been Used to Silence You
Today's Scripture: Ephesians 5:21–33 **Today's devotional is in response to listener requests.** In this episode, Dr. Alison Cook reflects on the often misunderstood language of submission. She explores the heart of Paul’s teaching through the lens of Jesus: mutual reverence, self-giving love, and power expressed through care—not control. We explore: *What submission is not *Why Ephesians 5 begins with mutual submission and must be read through the way of Jesus *How religious language can sometimes reinforce fear, control, or self-abandonment *Why real love creates space for both people to become more whole, honest, and free *What mutuality looks like in relationships marked by dignity, accountability, and truth Go Deeper: Episode 56: Am I really Supposed to Die to Myself? Episode 55: Am I Supposed to Distrust Myself? Episode 5: What is Codependency and Why Does it Matter? Read the first 3 chapters of The Best of You here.
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