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Menisms

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132 episodes · Explicit

Menisms is an Urban Popculture Podcast that deals with all things Men. African men in their most vulnerable and completely honest state. Conversations on masculinity, navigating women, emotions, behavioural characteristics and sex amongst other topics. The podcast that answers the age old question, What do men really want?!

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  1. Why Are So Many Men so Lonely? | Ep. 131

    · 1 h 04 min · Explicit

    Murewa and Isioma are back, and today they explore the lonely men epidemic. They discuss how financial struggles, social media comparisons and societal expectations affect men's confidence and relationships. From…

  2. What Men Want In The “Perfect” Girlfriend | Ep. 130

    · 1 h 04 min · S6 E20

    What does it really take to be the “perfect” girlfriend? And more importantly… does she even exist? In the final episode of the season, the guys dive into the expectations men place on women, the pressure to “perform”…

  3. Finding Purpose in Fashion and Events to producing GTCo Fashion Week ft. Sola Oyebade Ep. 129

    · 54 min · S6 E19

    Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys: Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/ Murewa:…

  4. The Best Rizz Game That Every Woman Falls For But Pretend They Don't | Ep. 128

    · 1 h 13 min · S6 E18

    We’ve all heard the loud, flashy pickup lines that usually end in a drink being thrown or a very awkward "read" receipt. But what about the subtle moves? The ones that actually work so well that women won't even admit…

  5. 10 Non-Sexual Things Men Find Attractive in Women (But They'd Never Say Out Loud or Admit) | Ep. 127

    · 1 h 03 min · S6 E17 · Explicit

    What actually keeps a man thinking about you when you aren't in the room? In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the male psyche to reveal the 10 subtle, non-sexual traits that men find absolutely…

  6. Dealing With Sexual Performance Anxiety as Men (The TRUTH No One Really Talks About) | Ep. 126

    · 1 h 32 min · S6 E16 · Explicit

    The pressure to perform is real — and most men suffer in silence. In this episode of Menisms, we're going deep on one of the most common yet least talked about experiences in men's sexual health. Whether it's the…

  7. Life After Big Brother to Nollywood & Becoming DAVIDO's Music Video Director ft. Dammy Twitch & Beverly Osu | Menisms 125

    · 1 h 41 min · S6 E15

    In this episode, Dammy Twitch and Beverly Osu open up about their unconventional journeys from unexpected career pivots to navigating fame, pressure, and purpose. They unpack the realities of Nollywood, life after Big…

  8. 8 Things Men Do That Make ZERO Sense (But They’ll Argue It Does) | Ep 124

    · 1 h 06 min · S6 E14

    A brutally honest (and hilarious) breakdown of the things men do that make absolutely no sense, yet they will defend with their chest. From ego to conditioning to pure vibes, this episode unpacks the why behind the…

  9. “I Want to Be More Than Friends” Ft. Binti Talks | Menisms Ep. 123

    · 1 h 33 min · S6 E13 · Explicit

    In this episode of Menisms, the guys sit down with the ladies from Binti Talks to unpack one of the most debated questions ever: can men and women really just be friends? From blurred boundaries to hidden feelings,…

  10. "I Was Losing My Mind": The Dark Side of Entrepreneurship Nobody Talks About | Menisms Ep. 122

    · 1 h 14 min · S6 E12

    "Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life" is the ultimate career lie. In this episode, we discuss the moment a creative dream becomes a logistical nightmare and why monetising your hobbies can…

  11. Is It Just Privilege? Or Are Men Still Out Here Proving Themselves? Feat. Tobi Bakre & Demi Banwo | Menisms 121

    · 1 h 48 min · S6 E11

    We're joined by two of Nollywood's finest – Tobi Bakre and Demi Banwo, and we unpack deep conversations on the deep and most times unsaid struggles that men face. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions,…

  12. 15 Things Women Do That Instantly Turn Men Off (Without Them Knowing It)

    · 1 h 22 min · S6 E10 · Explicit

    There are some silent, unspoken things that turn us off the moment we spot them in a situationship or even a potential partner. The guys share personal experiences on this and more in this new episode of your favourite…

  13. Are Nigerian Men Getting Married Too Late? Best Age To Marry in Your 20s or 30s? | Ep. 119

    · 1 h 32 min · S6 E9 · Explicit

    In this episode, the Menisms guys dive into the idea of a “marriage window” and whether it actually exists. From turning 30 and feeling societal pressure, to family constantly asking when you’ll bring someone home, the…

  14. Tattoos, Respect & African Parenting | Ep. 118

    · 1 h 21 min · S6 E8 · Explicit

    The dilemmas in this episode are wild! 😂 Why is it that even as grown adults, we still hear our parents' voices in our heads before making a personal choice? We’re sharing the raw, hilarious, and sometimes painful…

  15. Can Nigerian Men Be Soft & Vulnerable Without Losing Respect? | Ep. 117

    · 1 h 13 min · S6 E7

    Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉 https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7 Follow the guys: Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/ Murewa:…

  16. Can Men Really Handle Rejection? | Ep. 116

    · 55 min · S6 E6

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉…

  17. Valentine Is Coming… But Who’s Gifting The Guys? | Ep. 115

    · 1 h 12 min · S6 E5

    In this episode, we unpack our real experiences with Valentine’s Day — from secondary school teddy bears to uni heartbreaks… and even the infamous Prado moment. We talk about the pressure men feel to always be the…

  18. Dating in Your 20s vs 30s... Have our taste changed? Crazy Experiences! | Ep. 114

    · 1 h 57 min · S6 E4 · Explicit

    In this episode, we step into a time machine to a world before high-speed Wi-Fi, Tinder, and the "talking stage"—the era of analogue love as we knew it. From the high-stakes pressure of scratching a ₦200 Econet…

  19. How Social Media is Shaping The Idea of the 21st Century Man | Ep. 113

    · 1 h 06 min · S6 E3

    The guys talk IShowSpeed and the whole drama that surrounded his Nigerian leg of his Africa tour, sex before marriage, sexual compatibility and the how social media is somewhat defining who or what the 21st century men…

  20. Everybody go chop Breakfast? How do men Deal with Heartbreak? 💔 | Ep. 112

    · 1 h 33 min · S6 E2 · Explicit

    In this episode, we unpack a controversial question many couples avoid: does being the sole financial provider excuse someone from daily house chores? The Lads also share stories of Heartbreak, and how they recovered,…

  21. New Co-Host Reveal + Detty December Recap & 2026 Expectations | Menisms Ep. 111

    · 1 h 07 min · S6 E1

    Menisms in back... We meet our new co-host Isioma Okey-Nwosu and our OG co-host Murewa. Talk about Detty December, marriage pressure and 2026 expectations. Ladies and gentlemen. Strap in, Menisms season is upon us!!!…

  22. Caught Between Men & Baddies - One Man's Dilemma | Ep. 110

    · 51 min · S5 E10 · Explicit

    Trust us when we say this episode is different. We unpack one of the wildest listener dilemmas we’ve ever received, and it sparks a brutally honest conversation about masculinity, male sexuality, identity, loyalty, and…

  23. Men's Value: Is Wealth the Ultimate Metric?, Bad Money Habits in Your 20s | Ep. 109

    · 42 min · S5 E9

    This episode is packed with honest advice, personal anecdotes, and a fresh perspective on relationships, finances, and self-worth in the modern world. Enjoy| Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on…

  24. Lagos Dating Dilemma: Dating Your Spec VS The "Lock-In" Phase

    · 43 min · S5 E8

    Ever wondered how many people are truly dating their "spec" outside of social pressures? This episode of Menisms, unpacks listener questions that touch on the heart of modern relationships, navigating breakups and the…

  25. Beyond the Bars: M.I. Abaga on The Pressures of African Masculinity, Therapy & Nigerian Identity

    · 1 h 18 min · S5 E8

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the evolution of African music, the psychology of success, and a refreshingly honest dialogue about masculinity and mental well-being. Subscribe to our YouTube…

  26. Do men have financial boundaries when it comes to women?! | Ep. 106

    · 1 h 31 min

    On this episode, Michael and Murewa dive deep into the complexities of adulting, money, and relationships. They kick things off with a candid discussion about blowing a "first million" and the lessons learned (or not…

  27. Call Me Daddy | Father's Day Special | Ep. 105

    · 1 h 06 min · S5 E5

    Happy Father's Day to every man making a living to support their family and loved ones. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast Feel free to…

  28. Surviving Kirikiri, Poison Grapes and Genius Gorillas ft. Falz | Ep. 104

    · 33 min · S5 E4

    In this episode of Menism, the hosts are joined by Falz, and together, they explore high-stakes dilemmas, from surviving Kirikiri to identifying your ultimate lifeline in a crisis. The conversation dives into the…

  29. Her Senior Brother Billed Me, Her Best Friend Seems To Have a Crush on Me | Ep. 103

    · 16 min · S5 E3

    What happens when family drama interferes with relationships? This episode dives into outrageous family requests, the shock of cultural differences abroad, and the funny struggles of language. We want to hear YOUR…

  30. She Said WHAT?! Shocking Dating Stories & Red Flags | Menisms 102

    · 19 min · S5 E2 · Explicit

    The guys react and share their opinions on random reels on somewhat controversial topics. Enjoy. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast Feel…

  31. Checking Your Partner's Phone, Monogamy, & Should Women Give Men Money | Ep. 101

    · 22 min · S5 E1

    The guys react and share their opinions on random reels on somewhat controversial topics. Enjoy. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast Feel…

  32. We'll Be Back... Soon!

    · 1:56 · S4 E8 · Bonus

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉…

  33. Road to 100 Episodes ft. Wande Thomas (Menisms Producer) | Ep. 100

    · 1 h 05 min · S4 E8

    This episode is dedicated to you our listeners from day one and everyone that has seen. listened, shared or talked about the podcast. Cheers to 100 and to the next 100 🥂 Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the…

  34. What No One Tells You About Parties & Nightlife in Lagos ft. Jay Breeze | Ep. 99

    · 1 h 24 min · S4 E7

    Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? 👉…

  35. Is Real Estate Overpriced? Best place to rent in Lagos Ft. Duru Bond | Ep. 98

    · 1 h 39 min · S4 E5

    Is real estate really overpriced in Lagos or Nigeria as a whole? Where is the best place to rent an apartment as a first timer. Can I invest in real estate as a 9-5er. The guys sit down with Bond, one of the best in…

  36. When Situations and Hookups Become a Nightmare | Ep. 97

    · 51 min · S4 E4

    Have you ever been stuck in a friendship that slowly snowballs in a situationship with so much drama or a hookup thay suddenly becomes a nightmare you so want to forget? The guys talk about this and more on this…

  37. Challenging Nigerian parents, wrong cultural and societal norms | Ep. 96

    · 1 h 24 min · S4 E3

    The guys share their experiences on different cultural and societal ideologies that have shaped us as a people. Enjoy Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉…

  38. How Money, Women, Career & Ego Changes Friendships ft. Isomer & Iremide | Ep. 95

    · 1 h 31 min · S4 E2

    Can money, ego, money or career impact friendships? We dive deep with Isyomar and Iremide from Showmax's "Under the Influence," exploring real-life experiences on the topic. Enjoy. Feel free to drop a comment. We love…

  39. IJGBs, Lagos vs London babes & More | Ep. 94

    · 59 min · S5 E1

    The men are back and they start the episode with a bang😏. In this episode they talk about their Detty December, the Lagos vs London babes drama and so much more. You're in for a fun ride. Enjoy Subscribe to our YouTube…

  40. Surviving Detty December without going broke ft. Deji Osikoya | Ep. 93

    · 55 min · S4 E6

    This is your starter pack for navigating Detty December whether you're party from dusk to dawn or just chilling all through. Enjoy Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here…

  41. Does money influence taste in Women and lifestyle? | Menisms Ep. 91

    · 58 min · S4 E4

    On today's episode, the guys talk about Detty December, the Yoruba demon stereotype and share value life lessons on how more money significantly impacts ones lifestyle and decisions. Subscribe to our YouTube channel…

  42. Wild Tinder Experiences & Hookups Ft. Kolamide & Jesta | Menisms Ep. 90

    · 1 h 12 min · S4 E3

    Jesta and Kolamide join Michael and Murewa on this rib-cracking and entertaining episode of your favourite podcast. Together, they share their thoughts on the WizKid album and share wild and interesting Tinder and…

  43. 5 Ways I got confident as a guy in my 20s | Menisms Ep. 89

    · 1 h 05 min · S4 E2

    Thank you so much guys for streaming last week's episode with Toolz and Gbemi. This week, the guys go back memory lane to their 20s and shared ways they got the confidence to go to be the men they are today. Enjoy…

  44. How to approach women in public ft. Toolz and Gbemi | Menisms Ep. 88

    · 1 h 28 min · S4 E1

    On this week's episode we are joined by Media personalities Toolz and Gbemi as they share their experiences from how women like to be approached to some tips on what not to do when stepping up to a babe. We also…

  45. Should You Tell Your Partner About Your Past Secrets or Situationships? - Menisms Ep. 87

    · 1 h 16 min · S3 E37

    Thank you guys for sticking with us throughout this entire season. We love y'all! Have you ever found yourself in a serious relationship only to discover that you've dated one of your partner's friends or you just…

  46. 10 Things Men Want To Tell Women But Are Too Scared To - Ep. 86

    · 1 h 02 min · S3 E36

    What are the top 10 things men want to tell women but are too scared to do so? The guys talk about this and more on this episode of your favourite podcast. Enjoy Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video…

  47. Becoming Nigeria's Biggest Food Critic ft. Opeyemi Famakin - Ep. 85

    · 1 h 55 min · S3 E35

    This is such a great episode! The guys are joined by the biggest food critic in Nigeria (Opeyemi Famakin) on the best podcast in Nigeria 😌. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉…

  48. Is it a Man's World? ft. Oiza & Meyi - Ep. 84

    · 2 h 27 min · S3 E34

    The guys are joined by the talented twins– Oiza and Meyi in this episode. In this episode, they share their struggles as upcoming female artists in Nigeria and more. The juicy conversations are worth every second.…

  49. Why Young Women Can't Leave Older Men - Menisms Ep. 83

    · 1 h 02 min · S3 E33 · Explicit

    The guys talk about some dynamics such as age, class, Finance and more in relationships in this episode. Enjoy. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉…

  50. Dating to Get Married, How Long is Too Long? - Menisms Ep. 82

    · 1 h 09 min · S3 E32

    Is there a perfect amount of time to date before marriage? Some believe in the slow burn, while others swear by love at first sight. In this episode, we unpack the pros and cons of long and short courtships, and…

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