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Why You Keep Choosing the Same Painful Relationship in Love -Sheleana Aiyana

· 52 min · Episode 422

Episode Why You Keep Choosing the Same Painful Relationship in Love -Sheleana Aiyana

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In this episode of The Brave Table, I sit down with Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman, bestselling author of Becoming the One, mother, and relationship expert whose work has helped millions heal attachment wounds, reconnect with themselves, and create healthier relationships.

Together, we explore the hidden ways childhood wounds, nervous system patterns, self-abandonment, and attachment styles continue shaping our adult relationships.

From heartbreak and divorce to motherhood, self-trust, boundaries, and healing, this conversation is a masterclass in remembering your wholeness.

This isn't about becoming someone new.

It's about coming home to yourself.

WHAT YOU'LL GET OUT OF THIS EPISODE...

✨ Why you keep attracting the same relationship patterns

✨ The connection between nervous system regulation and healthy love

✨ How childhood wounds show up in adult relationships

✨ Why chemistry doesn't always mean compatibility

✨ The truth about self-abandonment and red flags

✨ How attachment styles affect breakups and healing

✨ Why grief can become a doorway to transformation

✨ The practice that helps you reconnect with self-trust

✨ Motherhood, identity loss, and finding yourself again

✨ What it really means to become "the one"

CONNECT WITH SHELEANA AIYANA

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Website: https://risingwoman.com

Book: https://www.amazon.in/Becoming-One-Transform-Relationship-Patterns/dp/1797211676

Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, bestselling author of Becoming the One, and a globally recognized teacher helping people heal attachment wounds, reconnect with themselves, and create conscious relationships through inner child work, nervous system healing, and self-awareness.

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