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Teenagers and Grief: How to Support Your Teen Through Death or Serious Illness: Vintage
· 43 min · S5 E36
Episode Teenagers and Grief: How to Support Your Teen Through Death or Serious Illness: Vintage
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Parenting tweens and teens is challenging enough, but when someone in the family becomes seriously ill or dies, it can feel overwhelmingly difficult. In all honesty, we Westerners are terrible at talking about death, often avoiding it, so when it comes to talking with teenagers about the subject most of us don't feel equipped. Many who have suffered a loss, or are suffering a serious illness will tell you that friends often fall away just at the time when they are most valued, because they're embarrassed or uncomfortable about the situation. In this episode we draw on research, personal experience - and some incredible listener feedback - to discuss how to deal with a serious illness or death when you're raising a teen. We pass on some amazing tips that have made all the difference, and also some awful 'what not to do's'. The episode is dedicated to the wonderful mum, Sophie Baker and her loving husband and boys, who did an amazing job in very difficult circumstances.
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https://winstonswish.org/ https://hospiceofnorthidaho.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Supporting-a-Teen-When-Someone-is-Seriously-Ill.pdf https://www.hospiscare.co.uk/how-we-help/advice-support/children-and-young-people/how-to-talk-about-death-with-children-and-teenagers/https://thegoodgriefproject.co.uk/ https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/how-to-talk-about-death https://whatsyourgrief.com/helping-a-teenager-deal-with-grief-2/ https://elunanetwork.org/resources/talking-to-teens-and-children-about-illness-and-death https://www.strong4life.com/en/emotional-wellness/emotional-expression/talking-to-kids-and-teens-about-death https://www.todaysparent.com/family/talking-about-death-with-kids/ https://www.winstonswish.org/support-a-grieving-teenager/ https://www.childbereavementuk.org/information-understanding-grieving-teenagers https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/two-takes-depression/201612/the-dos-and-donts-talking-child-about-death?amp https://audioboom.com/posts/6858679-talking-to-young-people-about-death-and-dying
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- https://www.buzzsprout.com/1882538/fan_mail/new
- https://open.substack.com/pub/teenagersuntangled/p/how-to-support-your-teen-through?r=2u24i0&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
- https://www.hospiscare.co.uk/how-we-help/advice-support/children-and-young-people/how-to-talk-about-death-with-children-and-teenagers/
- https://thegoodgriefproject.co.uk/
- https://yourteenmag.com/health/teenager-mental-health/how-to-talk-about-death
- https://whatsyourgrief.com/helping-a-teenager-deal-with-grief-2/
- https://elunanetwork.org/resources/talking-to-teens-and-children-about-illness-and-death
- https://www.strong4life.com/en/emotional-wellness/emotional-expression/talking-to-kids-and-teens-about-death
- https://www.todaysparent.com/family/talking-about-death-with-kids/
- https://www.winstonswish.org/support-a-grieving-teenager/
- https://www.childbereavementuk.org/information-understanding-grieving-teenagers
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/two-takes-depression/201612/the-dos-and-donts-talking-child-about-death?amp
- https://www.buymeacoffee.com/teenagersuntangled
- https://teenagersuntangled.substack.com/
- https://www.instagram.com/teenagersuntangled/
- https://m.facebook.com/teenagersuntangled/
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