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406. How to romanticise your 20s (even when they suck)
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Episode 406. How to romanticise your 20s (even when they suck)
Your 20s are sold to you as the “best years of your life” - which is hilarious, considering how many of us spend them underpaid, overthinking, heartbroken, living in transitional housing, and finding a new identity every 6 months. So what does it actually mean to ‘romanticise your 20s’? In this episode, we break down romanticising as a real psychological skill - how your brain constructs meaning, why attention shapes what feels like reality, and why building a coherent life story matters most when your life feels messy.
We explore: • Why your attention changes your experience • The neuroscience and cognition of meaning-making • The role of emergent adulthood • Why narrative psychology is so important • Five grounded ways to romanticise your life
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