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Episode 578: The On Call Mom
· 36 min · S6 E578
Episode Episode 578: The On Call Mom
Moms are often the first call when a child needs advice, a ride, help solving a problem, or simply the reassurance that someone is there. Being that safe place is a privilege, but constantly being on call can also become physically and emotionally exhausting.
In this Whinypaluza Wednesday episode, Rebecca Greene and her husband, Seth, have an honest and humorous conversation about balancing availability with healthy parenting boundaries. Rebecca reflects on her journey from being an on-call therapist and supervisor to becoming the on-call mom of three teenagers.
Being available does not mean Mom must immediately handle every request. Children are often more capable than parents realize, and allowing them to solve problems, wait a few minutes, help around the house, or ask the other parent can build independence while easing some of Mom’s mental load.
Rebecca also discusses why mothers must communicate when they are unavailable, share responsibilities with their partners, ask their children for help, and make room for their own appointments, interests, rest, and enjoyment. Taking care of yourself is not selfish. It helps you remain the steady, supportive person your family needs.
In this episode:
• What it really means to be the on-call mom • How to remain available without being available every minute • Why children need opportunities to solve their own problems • Allowing kids to wait or be temporarily inconvenienced • Communicating clear windows of availability • Sharing responsibilities with your spouse or partner • Asking children to contribute and help at home • Recognizing when Mom needs rest, support, or time off • Making sure Mom’s needs are included in family plans • Using small steps to regain momentum when you feel depleted
You can be the person your family calls without carrying everything alone. The goal is not to stop being there for the people you love. It is to manage your energy so you can be there without completely losing yourself.
Listen, follow, and share this episode with an on-call mom who needs to hear it. Please leave a rating or review and let Rebecca know which parenting topics you would like discussed next.
Explore Rebecca’s podcast, blog, newsletter, parenting community, and other resources at www.whinypaluza.com
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