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How to Get Court-Admissible Proof of Every Message From Your Ex
· 47 min · Episode 401
Episode How to Get Court-Admissible Proof of Every Message From Your Ex
🎧 Listen to this episode if…
- You dread every text from your ex and screenshot messages "just in case"
- Your co-parent avoids, delays or denies every conversation that matters
- You can't get a straight yes or no
- You carry the mental load of every reminder, newsletter and schedule
- You've been told to "document everything" and want it done automatically
⚠️ General information only not legal advice. Australian family law; always consult a qualified family lawyer about your circumstances.
🛟 This episode discusses family violence and coercive control. If you're in danger call 000. Support: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732), Lifeline 13 11 14.
unpack the co-parenting app that courts here actually trust.
⏱️ Episode Timeline
00:00 – Dreading Texts From Your Ex? Why You Need This Episode
01:00 – Meet Erin Green From OurFamilyWizard Australia
02:00 – Why Avoidant Co-Parents Stop Communicating
05:00 – The Amicable Trap: Becoming the Communication Manager
07:00 – What Is OurFamilyWizard? The Co-Parenting App Explained
08:00 – Uneditable, Encrypted Records vs Deleted Text Messages
10:00 – Calls Feature: Transcripts and Documented Call Activity
11:00 – Family Violence Orders: Calling Without Sharing Your Number
12:00 – The Shared Calendar and Change Requests Without Drama
15:00 – Expense Tracking: Invoices, Receipts and Proof for Court
17:00 – The Info Bank: Schools, Medications and Clothing Sizes
18:00 – Who Uses OurFamilyWizard (And When Courts Order It)
20:00 – Putting the App in Your Consent Orders
21:00 – Timestamped Messages: No Deleting, No Rewriting History
22:00 – Free Divorce Webinar With Laura & Lyn
23:00 – Court-Admissible PDFs and Professional Access
25:00 – The AI Writing Assistant That Flags Escalating Language
27:00 – Message Search + Safety for Survivors of Abuse
29:00 – Word Salad, Yes-or-No Requests and Coercive Control
31:00 – Check-Ins and Location Privacy After Family Violence
33:00 – A Tool, Not a Safety Plan: Tech Stalking Reminders
34:00 – What If Your Ex Refuses to Use a Co-Parenting App?
36:00 – Protection Orders, Mediation and Raising the App
37:00 – Fee Waivers for Family Violence and Financial Duress
38:00 – Defence Force Discount Explained
40:00 – OurFamilyWizard Cost: Essentials, Premium and Max
43:00 – Erin's Best Advice: Pause Before You Reply
44:00 – What to Embroider on a Cushion This Week
🎧 Episodes Mentioned
Coercive Control and Your Kids – https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/coercive-control-and-your-kids-how-to-protect-your/id1503451022?i=1000777679728
Co-Parenting With a High Conflict, Narcissistic or Avoidant Ex – https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/co-parenting-how-to-successfully-do-it-even-with-a/id1503451022?i=1000559535573
Take the Divorce Personality Quiz – https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/take-the-divorce-personality-quiz-learn-why-your/id1503451022?i=1000748290587
Is Your Ex Watching You? Coercive Control Goes Digital – https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/is-your-ex-watching-you-coercive-control-goes-digital/id1503451022?i=1000758578403
Creating a Safety Plan Before You Need One – https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/from-fear-to-freedom-creating-a-safety-plan-before/id1503451022?i=1000741625311
Co-Parenting Without Court Orders – https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/co-parenting-without-court-orders-the-real-rules-and/id1503451022?i=1000735234386
🔗 Links & Resources
OurFamilyWizard Australia – https://www.ourfamilywizard.com.au
Fee waiver (via your lawyer, mediator or support professional): prohelp@ourfamilywizard.com
Help using the app: info@ourfamilywizard.com
📞 1800 RESPECT – 1800 737 732 | Lifeline – 13 11 14 | 🚓 Police – 000
🌐 www.thedivorcecourse.com.au – free webinar: click "Reserve My Seat"
🎓 Blog: www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog
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