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It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Abbie Chatfield

300 episodes · Explicit

Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.

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Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .

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  1. GRETTA RAY: How a Hidden Heart Infection Triggered a Stroke at 26

    · 1 h 23 min · S8 E133 · Explicit

    Gretta Ray's new album Heartsong is born from grief - but not just the grief of a relationship ending, and the loss of loved one. For the first time, Gretta shares the full story of her hospitalisation in 2024. She…

  2. BRIDIE CONNELL'S NMF: He Turned Our Texts Into A Play

    · 26 min · S8 E132 · Explicit

    Have you ever been down so bad you made verbatim theatre? Well... Writer, producer, actor, and comedian Bridie Connell has seen it happen first hand... She shares a high school inspiration behind her sensational show…

  3. SOLO: Unpacking That Kikiva TikTok & Filip From MAFS Has Advice For Women

    · 1 h 24 min · S8 E131 · Explicit

    It's a big one today!! Abbie unpacks the Kikiva TikTok live drama, and why a lot of the response online is not only disappointing, but problematic. Plus, Filip from MAFS has been posting some interesting videos, and…

  4. NMF: An Urchin, A Kiwi Cheater, and An Attempted Mugging

    · 40 min · S8 E130 · Explicit

    This all-time Euro summer (mis)adventure story proves not only the figurative, but literal, power of female friendship ✊⚢ #ytg LINKS: • Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more:…

  5. BBNO$ On Dating, The Antidepressent Honeymoon Phase, and Being Whatever He Wants

    · 1 h 08 min · S8 E129 · Explicit

    Before sculling a litre of milk on stage with him at Yours & Owls, Abbie brought her friend - Canadian rap icon / internet boyfriend - bbno$ into the studio for a lovely lil chat! They talk about his insane work ethic,…

  6. MICHELLE BUTEAU'S NMF: "This is First Testament Sh*t"

    · 19 min · S8 E128 · Explicit

    Michelle Buteau loves Australia, but she does NOT love creepy crawlies... LINKS • Buy tickets to see Michelle Buteau - The Surviving And Thriving Tour in Brisbane, Sydney and Melbourne:…

  7. SOLO: Why The Cornell 7 Are Not Separate From Society

    · 57 min · S8 E127 · Explicit

    The Cornell 7 case has been dominating headlines and social media feeds. It's equal parts horrific, frustrating an maddening. Abbie deconstructs how misogyny and power structures all intertwine to allow this kind of…

  8. SOLO: I'M BURNT OUT!!! HELP!!

    · 44 min · S8 E126 · Explicit

    Abbie is trying to get out of burn out land but having adult problems and responsibilities makes it so much harder to recover?? So what the hell do we do divas?? Abbie shares her experience with an ADHD coach and…

  9. NMF: Never Trust A Tate Lover

    · 30 min · S8 E125 · Explicit

    That's right, we're treating you with two eps today!! We thought we're all in need of a classic listener story and this chook's is like something off of Abbie's NMF bingo card! LINKS: • Send us your thoughts, topic…

  10. "How Do I Co-Parent with a 'Boys Don't Cry' Dad?" - Dr Billy Garvey Answers Your Parenting Questions

    · 33 min · S8 E124 · Explicit

    Even after a big chat on Tuesday, there was so much we didn't get to with Billy. So, we've got him back to answer your questions! LINKS • Buy Billy's book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys:…

  11. DR BILLY GARVEY: Raising Boys, Masculinity, and Ending the Cycle of Violence

    · 1 h 27 min · S8 E123 · Explicit

    From the manosphere, to mental health, to sexual assault and family violence - it is more apparent than ever that we must reckon with how boys are being raised, and the damaging behaviours that are normalised. But how…

  12. Sage Advice From Granny Bingo

    · 19 min · Bonus

    The wonderful ladies of Granny Bingo, Edith and Maureen, stuck around for a special bonus episode where they're doling out their sage wisdom to you the lucky listener! LINKS • Watch Another Cuppa on YouTube or ABC…

  13. GRANNY BINGO'S NMF: Setting Fire To A Lesbian & Retail Wars

    · 31 min · S8 E122 · Explicit

    Get yourself a piping hot cappuccino and settle in with Australia's favourite women of a certain age, Granny Bingo's Edith Vale & Maureen McGillicuddy!! The ladies tell their own on-stage Nightmare Fuel, and take clear…

  14. Am I Actually AuDHD?? Chatting Neurodivergence with Dr Monique Mitchelson

    · 1 h 20 min · S8 E121 · Explicit

    What's the difference between a hyperfixation and a special interest? When is a symptom anxiety and when is it ADHD or autism? Why are so many women still struggling to get diagnosed with autism and ADHD? How do our…

  15. BENSION SIEBERT'S NMF: The Threat That Made Him Go Public as a S*x Worker

    · 34 min · S8 E120 · Explicit

    As a sex worker and investigative journalist, Bension Siebert does in practice what some only do in theory, f*ck's around AND finds out! He tells Abbie about how the NMF client who spurred him to come out, and why he…

  16. IT'S A LITTLE: The Problem with the Lindsay Clancy Trial Discourse

    · 43 min · S8 E119 · Explicit

    The trial of Lindsay Clancy has made headlines around the world and has sparked countless debates and conversations, some more productive than others. Abbie unpacks some of the extreme manosphere reactions, why we…

  17. SOLO: 'Why Men Don't Listen And Women Can't Read Maps'

    · 1 h 17 min · S8 E118

    Abbie found a new op shop book about gender roles!!! This one is called Why Men Don't Listen And Women Can't Read Maps, and of course features complete fabrications about 'caveman times', among many other hilarious…

  18. NMF: Everything's A Conspiracy!!

    · 38 min · S8 E117 · Explicit

    It's a NMF situation we've all had to endure; listening to a co-worker's insane opinions because you're stuck on shift together at a minimum wage job. But some of these conspiracy theories even WE haven't heard of!!…

  19. MARC FENNELL: How AI Is Already Changing Us

    · 1 h 05 min · S8 E116 · Explicit

    Abbie has made it well known on this podcast that she is not a fan of generative AI and LLMs. But, as journalist Marc Fennell found in his new podcast series Unreal, AI is already fundamentally changing the way we…

  20. SOLO: Are Gen Z More Misogynistic Than Boomers??

    · 1 h 13 min · S8 E114 · Explicit

    Is misogyny really that bad? Well, yes, obviously! But now it's not just us screaming into the void. A new study from Melbourne University details the findings of research into the link between misogyny and youth…

  21. NMF: Playlists, Triple Lives, and the Lion King Panic Attack

    · 38 min · S8 E113 · Explicit

    Producer Amy has been saving up some quickfire stories and boy oh boy you chooks are outdoing yourselves! You think you've heard it all, and then you hear a story that Joe from 'You' would probably take notes from.…

  22. JENNIFER ROBINSON: How Defamation Laws Silence Women

    · 53 min · S8 E112 · Explicit

    Defamation laws have a long and strange history, and in recent years, these laws have been leveraged in order to silence women who attempt to speak out about abuse. In the midst of the cultural reckoning incited by the…

  23. HIGH SCROLLERS NMF: The Infernal Redneck Wedding (Ft. Brittney Saunders and Alright Hey)

    · 1 h 03 min · S8 E111 · Explicit

    It's the crossover you've all been waiting for!!! After filling in for Brittney Saunders with Alright Hey over at High Scrollers, Abbie thought she better have them both in to listen to a NMF! And boy is this one a…

  24. SOLO AMA: Robert Irwin's Logies Joke, Burnout, and Beauty Standards

    · 1 h 11 min · S8 E110 · Explicit

    It's time for an AMA!!! Abbie's been asked to unpack what happened on the Logies, as well as an update on her mental health, her thoughts on current beauty standards and more!! LINKS • Stream the new Peking Duk…

  25. CHLOE MIRA'S NMF: "Just Kiss Each Other"

    · 11 min · S8 E109 · Explicit

    Chloe thought her Nightmare Fuel wasn't up to scratch... our reactions would prove otherwise. Tashi Duncan eat your heart out. LINKS • Follow Annie Knight on IG @anniekknight • Follow Chloe Mira on IG @chloemiraa •…

  26. Are Stunt Creators Bad For OnlyFans? Ft. Annie Knight & Chloe Mira

    · 58 min · Bonus · Explicit

    Where's the line between engagement and exploitation? So-called 'stunt creators' on OnlyFans have stirred up a lot of controversy in the last few years, with some creators targeting teenagers at Schoolies, or…

  27. DR JENI HAYNES: How Her 2,681 Personalities Helped Her Find Justice

    · 1 h 30 min · S8 E108 · Explicit

    CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains discussion of child sexual abuse. Help is available from the National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service on 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) and Lifeline on 13…

  28. MICHELLE BRASIER'S NMF: "I'm Laying An Egg In Newark Airport!"

    · 35 min · S8 E107 · Explicit

    We are so blessed to have one of the funniest (and smallest) women in the country on the pod for a NMF - it's MICHELLE BRASIER!!! Seat backs and tray tables up for an all-time tale that has to be heard to be believed!…

  29. SOLO: Nara Smith Was Never A 'Tradwife'

    · 1 h 11 min · S8 E106 · Explicit

    UPDATE FROM ABBIE: "Please note I've gotten two new pieces of information since publishing this episode; The first is that I had seen screenshots of Nara Smith using #tradwife, but I have since been told they were not…

  30. NMF: Trouble In The P*ssy Palace

    · 29 min · S8 E105 · Explicit

    We were screaming SO loud at this NMF that Mr Walter got up to check we were okay #ally LINKS • Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 • Check out @itsalotpod on…

  31. LILY SCHUBERT: "I Spent Six Years Totally Bedbound"

    · 1 h 29 min · S8 E104 · Explicit

    CW: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health, chronic illness, and suicidality. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24/7 via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11…

  32. #AnklesOutForAndrew

    · 1 h 07 min · Bonus · Explicit

    Andrew and Tristan Tate were arrested in Florida last week, and are facing extradition to the UK to face 38 additional charges. The Tate brothers deny any wrongdoing. Abbie and Amy are breaking down what happens next,…

  33. NMF: Bunker Boy's Cursed House Party

    · 21 min · S8 E103 · Explicit

    CW: This episode contains mention of animal cruelty. This NMF had our jaws ON THE FLOOR!!! Still in shock tbh... This is why you never go to a party alone. LINKS • See Abbie on tour!…

  34. SOLO: Sludge Update, Tour Tales, and Calling WHO??

    · 42 min · S8 E102 · Explicit

    It's been a minute since Abbie's been on the mic solo, so it's time for a little life update, mental health check in, and Abbie randomly remembering she got in touch with someone from her past... NOTE: If any content…

  35. NMF: Looksmaxxing, Birth Rates, Climate Change - A Male GC Perspective

    · 24 min · S8 E101 · Explicit

    It's our first Nightmare Fuel from our new Reddit page!! This group chat drama story's got everything with mentions of the 4B movement, looksmaxxing, birth rates and more... LINKS • See Abbie on tour!…

  36. PROF JASON ABBOTT: Unpacking Your Endometriosis Questions

    · 1 h 14 min · S8 E100 · Explicit

    Endometriosis awareness is higher than it's ever been, but why is there still so much that's missing from common knowledge?? Abbie sits down with Prof Jason Abbott, one of Australia's leading experts in endometriosis,…

  37. RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST'S ADVICE: Am I Anxiously Attached??

    · 21 min · S8 E99 · Explicit

    We've got something a bit different for you! Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie and Aleks are unpacking an email from a chook who was after some advice about her relationship. LINKS • See Abbie on tour…

  38. How To Break Trauma Bonds ft. Trauma Therapist Aleks Trkulja

    · 32 min · S8 E98 · Explicit

    Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be talking all about TRAUMA BONDS! What are they?…

  39. Sex Therapist Answers Your Questions!! ft. Aleks Trkulja

    · 41 min · S8 E97 · Explicit

    Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be answering some of your burning questions about…

  40. NMF: The Scooter Stalker

    · 9:33 · S8 E96 · Explicit

    A short and not-so-sweet horror story about a woman who just won't leave this chook and her family alone!! LINKS • See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen • Send us your thoughts, topic…

  41. JESSICA BRADY: "A Man Is Not A Plan" And Other Money Lessons

    · 1 h 05 min · S8 E95 · Explicit

    It's the end of another financial year, and for many it's the opportunity to restart working on money resolutions. It's SO important for young people, and especially young women, to take control of their finances and…

  42. NMF: Dumped Into Oncoming Traffic

    · 14 min · S8 E94 · Explicit

    We love a self-aware chook who knows when she is both in the Nightmare Fuel but also causing a bit of it. Let's go lesbians!! LINKS • See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen • Send us your…

  43. SOLO: I Watched Pauline Hanson's Speech So You Don't Have To

    · 1 h 37 min · S8 E93 · Explicit

    The good news is, Abbie handed in the first draft of her book!!!! The bad news is, right as the extra brain space has opened up, Pauline Hanson did a speech at the National Press Club so now we have to unpack that...…

  44. SAM HALES' NMF: Ruining Arcade Fire's Secret Afterparty

    · 24 min · S8 E92 · Explicit

    The Jungle Giants frontman himself Sam Hales is in the studio!! Fresh off their hit new album, Sam made time to tell us some PEAK Nightmare Fuel stories with music legends aplenty. LINKS • See The Jungle Giants on…

  45. HARRI JAMES: From Survival Mode to Changing the Law

    · 42 min · S8 E91 · Explicit

    In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at…

  46. NMF: The Chaplain's Secret

    · 20 min · S8 E90 · Explicit

    We've had office drama, now it's time for some teacher drama! This chook takes us through some wild stories from her Christian high school and we're so happy to be along for the ride. LINKS • See Abbie on tour…

  47. SOLO: Men's Rights Reddit HATES This Phrase

    · 1 h 02 min · S8 E89 · Explicit

    It's been a while and Abbie needed some cheering up, so what better medicine than the Men's Rights Reddit?? Some absolutely kooky takes from the lads about respect, parenting, and office doors. LINKS • See Abbie on…

  48. NMF: Healthcare Horrors ft. Emma Hardy

    · 19 min · S8 E88 · Explicit

    What better time to hear from a chook about her healthcare horrors than when Emma Hardy is in the studio!! Medical misogyny is truly the stuff of NIGHTMARES. LINKS • Buy Emma Hardy's book Periodic Bitch…

  49. Breaking Down the Budget with Larissa Waters

    · 55 min · Bonus · Explicit

    In the weeks since the 2026-27 Federal Budget was announced there's been a lot of misinformation to navigate, complicated tax lingo to get around, and of course a bunch of terrible AI content. Abbie sits down with…

  50. EMMA HARDY: PMDD and the Myths of Monstrous Women

    · 54 min · S8 E87 · Explicit

    Emma Hardy lives with PMDD, and spent years of her life trying to work out what actions and feelings were 'her', and what was her PMDD. Her new memoir, Periodic Bitch, intertwines her exploration of her own psyche with…

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