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Sex Gets Better With Effort: The Husband's Intimacy Playbook
· 40 min · Episode 508
Episode Sex Gets Better With Effort: The Husband's Intimacy Playbook
Today's guest is Laurie Handlers — Tantra educator, talk show host, and intimacy coach. She's the author of Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and leads programs through Butterfly Workshops, Inc. and the International School of Temple Arts.
In this ~40-minute episode, you'll learn:
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Why long-term sex gets better only with intentional effort (after the honeymoon & kids).
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The starter "effort stack": schedule date night, learn to dance, have the conversation.
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How to decode complaints into clear requests—without hurting feelings.
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The training mindset: treat intimacy as a skill (courses/coaching > guessing).
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The presence playbook: breathe together, watch her face, phones down.
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The 10/10 framework women name: Presence, Connection, Safety, Communication, Skill.
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A simple boundary script and the repair rule: "First to return to love wins."
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