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Happiness Break: A Practice In Appreciating Your Friends
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Episode Happiness Break: A Practice In Appreciating Your Friends
Take a moment to appreciate the friends who know you, support you, and make your life richer with their presence, with author Alex Elle.
How To Do This Practice:
• Take a few deep breaths: Inhale through your nose and exhale slowly, relaxing your shoulders and jaw. • Bring a friend to mind: Think of someone who has become an important part of your life. • Remember how they’ve known you: Reflect on the stories, experiences, and versions of yourself that this person has witnessed. • Notice the ordinary moments: Bring to mind a laugh, conversation, meal, road trip, or small gesture that captures your friendship. • Feel your gratitude: Let yourself appreciate what it means to be seen, remembered, supported, and accepted by a friend. • Consider how you can show you care: Think of one small way you can tend to the friendship, whether by reaching out, checking in, or simply telling them you appreciate them.
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Today’s Guide:
ALEX ELLE is a breathwork coach, author and restorative writing teacher.
www.alexelle.com/about
Related Happiness Break episodes:
A Meditation on Original Love and Interconnectedness:https://tinyurl.com/mu2uzs2c
Our Deep Interconnectedness: https://tinyurl.com/y2epxyxn
Making Space for You, with Alex Elle: https://tinyurl.com/45arsb76
Related Science of Happiness episodes:
Why Compassion Requires Vulnerability: https://tinyurl.com/mrxsad33
When It's Hard To Connect, Try Being Curious: https://tinyurl.com/mr32nwtv
The Contagious Power of Compassion: https://tinyurl.com/y6bpvbv5
We’d love to hear about your experience with this practice! Share your thoughts at happinesspod@berkeley.edu or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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Transcription: https://tinyurl.com/mvhnrk5b
Links in the notes 10
- https://vote.signalaward.com/PublicVoting#/2026/limited-series-specials/genre/mental-health
- https://www.alexelle.com/about
- https://tinyurl.com/mu2uzs2c
- https://tinyurl.com/y2epxyxn
- https://tinyurl.com/45arsb76
- https://tinyurl.com/mrxsad33
- https://tinyurl.com/mr32nwtv
- https://tinyurl.com/y6bpvbv5
- https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap
- https://tinyurl.com/mvhnrk5b
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