How to heal after betrayal (with Lysa Terkeurst)
· 35 min · Episode 504
Episode How to heal after betrayal (with Lysa Terkeurst)
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SHOW DESCRIPTION: In this podcast I talk to best-selling author, public figure and mother Lysa Terkeurst about healing after betrayal, how boundaries help us avoid extremes, finding resilience after a crisis, what healthy conflict looks like, and so much more!
On the eve of her daughter’s wedding, Lysa found out that her husband of 30 years was having an affair and had a whole life outside of their marriage. Even after years of counseling and therapy, Lysa’s husband continued to live a life outside of their marriage, while Lysa was also experiencing a number of serious health issues, including breast cancer.
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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
1:38 Lysa’s story
6:10 Lysa’s amazing new book on boundaries & goodbyes
7:48 How healthy boundaries establish access & responsibility in a relationship
9:42 How to set healthy boundaries
10:50 Boundaries are not about changing other people
13:28 Examples of boundary conversations
17:00 The relationship between grief & boundaries
18:00 People pleasing & boundaries
22:22 How to avoid feeling guilt over setting boundaries
26:50 The difference between a difficult & destructive marriage
29:15 How a traumatic relationship can affect us mentally & physically
30:35 How boundaries help us avoid extremes
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