Podcasts · Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families
5 Secrets to Raising Resilient Kids Who Can Handle Hard Things
· 20 min · Episode 1727
Episode 5 Secrets to Raising Resilient Kids Who Can Handle Hard Things
When your child is anxious, overwhelmed or afraid, should you step in or let them work it out? The answer could change how you parent.
Justin and Kylie Coulson share five research-backed ways to build resilience in children, from listening without rushing to fix things to letting kids tackle challenges, take safe risks and discover what they're capable of. Because raising resilient kids isn't about toughening them up. It's about giving them the support and confidence to face hard things.
KEY POINTS
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Why feeling cared for and listened to is the foundation of resilience
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How staying calm helps children manage big emotions
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When to support your child and when to resist the urge to rescue them
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How family identity and purpose help kids through difficult experiences
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Why independent activity and safe, risky play build confidence
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“Resilience is built as much inside a child as it is built around a child.”
RESOURCES MENTIONED
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Happy Families: https://happyfamilies.com.au
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Andrew Fuller, Australian psychologist and resilience researcher
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Steve Biddulph, parenting expert
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Anne Masten, resilience researcher
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Peter Gray, play researcher
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
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Put your phone down and give your child your full attention when they want to talk.
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Take a slow, audible breath before responding to your child's big emotions.
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Encourage your child to try something difficult before stepping in to rescue them.
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Find small ways for your child to contribute to your family and feel part of something bigger.
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Give your child age-appropriate opportunities to explore, play independently and take safe risks.
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