# Inst@Guru: Bentinho Massaro Ep 13 - The Insane Text Messages Part 4

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Inst@Guru is an investigative series examining Bentinho Massaro, a Dutch-born spiritual influencer, and the high-control dynamics inside his organization. It's built around the accounts of three former members who spent years close to him: Jacqueline Graham, Keilan McNeil, and Jade Alectra. Each brings their own texts, memories, and evidence to build a full picture of what actually happened, and why it's so hard to see from the inside while you're living it.

This is part four of the text message series. Jacqueline, Keilan, and Jade go through their private conversations with Cory, Bentinho's right hand, and with Bentinho himself, in the aftermath of leaving his organization.

Jacqueline shares her full exit conversation with Cory, the one where every doubt she raises gets reframed as a "visit" from a negative entity. Jade walks through what happened during an isolated retreat with Bentinho, Cory, and Paola, and what she describes as being groomed into treating consent as something to overcome. You'll hear what happened to Paola in the years that followed. Keilan shows the "plug the holes" damage control that kicked in within thirty minutes of a single online post, along with a threatening text from Bentinho to a former employee, and an older group chat that shows Cory's devotion to him years before any of this.

I'm Mark Vicente. I spent twelve years inside NXIVM, the group HBO covered in The Vow. This series exists because Jacqueline, Keilan, and Jade wanted people to see how this actually works from the inside, not just hear that it happened.

This is episode 13. If you haven't watched episodes 1 through 12, start there, this one builds directly on everything before it.

I also just released Narcissist's Playbook, a documentary highly relevant to this series. https://narcissistsplaybook.uscreen.io/

0:00 Welcome Back & Refresher 3:32 Jacqueline's Exit Conversation with Cory Begins 13:39 The Secret Recording 30:54 "You're Confusing Yourself with Bentinho" 37:42…

- What it is: Full episode
- Series: [Inst@Guru: Bentinho Massaro](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/library/rights-holders/series/3783e5a891a2)
- Previous episode: [Inst@Guru: Bentinho Massaro Ep 12 - The Toxic Text Messages Part 3](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/watch/rights-holders/Tgpd1LXMwCw)
- Next episode: [Inst@Guru: Bentinho Massaro Ep 14 - The Cult Assassin](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/watch/rights-holders/Ty3yVA3ih6w)
- Length: 1 h 38 min
- Rights holder: [Mark Vicente](https://www.markvicente.com/) (its site links the channel: https://www.markvicente.com/)
- Channel: [Mark Vicente | WTF is on my Mind?!](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCX1OsELrINqvPVImbyM6qdQ)
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