# How Do You Actually Get Over an Ex?

An episode of [The Dash](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/6799188622), 13 Oct 2026, 52 min.

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Marissa Hermer kicks off this episode of The Dash with embarrassment from butt-dialing her rabbi — then gets honest about converting so her children know their religious background. Elizabeth and Marissa talk rebuilding a life after divorce one wine glass in your cabinet at a time, and why a smaller house can be the upgrade. The ladies discuss the anti-pick-me culture and how to be the coach, not the player, in the dating game. Elizabeth has a new theory for getting over an ex, and it is not “get under someone else.” She also names the only person in her life who is blocked. Is there a peak hotness age? The ladies go there. They talk finding passion after divorce — and faking orgasms in their twenties. Dating after divorce, conversion, Judaism, friendship, blocked contacts, peak attractiveness, and the kind of best-friend phone call you only get on The Dash with Elizabeth Chambers and Marissa Hermer. New episodes weekly from Lemonada Media. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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