# 319 - Love Factually - Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick

An episode of [You Are Not So Smart](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/521594713), 4 Aug 2025, 1 h 06 min.

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Two psychologists who study love, relationships, and human mating behavior pick apart the movie "The Notebook" and tell us what it gets right and what it gets wrong when it comes to portraying how humans actually, truly think, feel, and behave. Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick are the cohosts of the Love Factually podcast, a show that discusses the romantic/scientific accuracy of movies, and on this episode we listen in as they examine one of the most popular romance movies of all time. Love Factually Website Love Factually Substack Eli Finkel's Website Paul Eastwick's Website Kitted Shop The Story of Kitted How Minds Change David McRaney's BlueSky David McRaney’s Twitter YANSS Twitter Show Notes Newsletter Patreon Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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