# John Gray: Why Men Stop Wanting Their Wives : 1556

An episode of [The Human Upgrade: Biohacking for Longevity & Performance](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/451295014), 16 Oct 2026, 1 h 45 min.

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The king is back! You probably recognize his name as the author of the famous book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. But what's especially exciting is how John has evolved his insights to address the changing dynamics between men and women in the modern world, as he highlighted in his 2020 book, Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for Today's Complex World. Now, why is this episode a must-listen? Well, John isn't just a relationship expert; he's also a seasoned biohacker who understands the profound impact of our environment – including relationships – on our hormones, happiness, and dopamine levels. In essence, he's been biohacking before it even had a name. With decades of wisdom, he offers invaluable insights into navigating the complexities of male-female relationships in today's world. Delve into the fundamental differences between men and women, the importance of appreciation in relationships, what truly motivates men, and practical tips on boosting testosterone and managing emotions. We also explore how men and women process feelings differently, the art of setting boundaries, and the language of love as the language of hormones. Get ready for a masterclass in understanding the dynamics of modern relationships and how to create lasting happiness. Timestamps: 00:00 — Intro 04:57 — Hormones Drive Relationships 08:29 — Emotional Manipulation & Control 20:42 — Detachment & The Cave 31:37 — Listening Without Losing It 39:49 — When Negativity Never Passes 46:54 — Fasting & Testosterone Science 01:04:23 — Languages of Love & Hormones 01:14:54 — Surviving Public Attacks 01:31:41 — Porn, Polarity & Reassurance 01:44:00 — Wrap-Up Thank You To Our Sponsors! • Butcher Box | Go to ButcherBox.com/HUMANUPGRADE to get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ground beef for life, or free chicken thigh • The One Device | Use code DAVE for $10 off at theonedevice.com/dave • Viome | Check it out at viome.com and use code 10DAVE for 10% off. It’s time to stop guessing and start knowing your body. • iRestore | Unlock your best hair & skin with @iRestorelaser and HUGE savings on iRESTORE with code DAVE at irestore.com/DAVE Resources: • Learn More About John’s Work At: https://www.marsvenus.com/ • Get My 2026 Clean Nicotine Roadmap | Enroll for free at https://daveasprey.com/2026-clean-nicotine-roadmap/ • Dave Asprey's Latest News | Go to https://daveasprey.com/ to join Inside Track today. • Danger Coffee: https://dangercoffee.com/discount/davetube • My Daily Supplements: SuppGrade Labs (15% Off) • Favorite Blue Light Blocking Glasses: TrueDark (15% Off) Timestamps: 00:00 — Intro 04:57 — Hormones Drive Relationships 08:29 — Emotional Manipulation & Control 20:42 — Detachment & The Cave 31:37 — Listening Without Losing It 39:49 — When Negativity Never Passes 46:54 — Fasting & Testosterone Science 01:04:23 — Languages of Love & Hormones 01:14:54 — Surviving Public Attacks 01:31:41 — Porn, Polarity & Reassurance 01:44:00 — Wrap-Up See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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