# the preston rack show A podcast by Preston Rakovsky. Most of us learned about love by accident, from movies, our parents, and relationships that taught us more about what we didn't want than what we did. But love isn't one-size-fits-all. This podcast brings you a new perspective on love every episode: the couples therapist, the ER doctor, the grandparents, the wedding planner. Borrow what resonates, leave what doesn't, and build a definition of love that's actually yours. If you enjoy the show please hit a follow and review the show! That's a small way you can help us carry on doing this, thank you for listening! Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/rss ## Latest episodes - [why you should fall in love the way you fall asleep](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/6f0291700220) (2026-10-23, 25 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/127931108/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-23%2F434790727-44100-2-16d8d8f5c6466.mp3 - [the only question you have to ask to get over someone](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/1cc9c14f1cf0) (2026-09-30, 23 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583209/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027220-44100-2-b51bbeee246ee.mp3 - [10 Signs You're With the Right Partner](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/7377510eef74) (2026-09-26, 43 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583374/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027505-44100-2-acd54150d7fe7.mp3 - [10 Questions to Reveal if You Feel Safe in a Relationship](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/d67583f31dc3) (2026-09-08, 32 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583264/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027268-44100-2-8c770129eaade.mp3 - [Why It's So Easy to Ignore Relationship Warning Signs](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/589c4e4f9b13) (2026-08-19, 29 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582969/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026927-44100-2-11c771d34da53.mp3 - [Why Relationships Get Stuck At Surface Level](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/2094b596e4b9) (2026-08-06, 34 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126584445/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433029333-44100-2-278d162d98431.mp3 - [How To Tell If You're Looking For Love in the Wrong Place](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/986994391cb3) (2026-08-02, 34 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583175/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027227-44100-2-70173f3a2c3cd.mp3 - [The Effort Trap in Relationships](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/c6d4ef2a7980) (2026-07-30, 34 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583853/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028078-44100-2-1150b10f71767.mp3 - [Are You Asking Your Partner The Right Questions?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/98ec773c80a6) (2026-07-27, 42 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126584030/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028410-44100-2-acdb939c3be67.mp3 - [Engaged in 6 Months: Why Waiting Longer Won't Make You Sure](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/30e42e52ad26) (2026-07-20, 43 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126584319/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433029438-44100-2-09946626039df.mp3 - [Married Magician Reveals The Lie About Modern Love](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/837f0ac69f39) (2026-07-14, 38 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583948/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028223-44100-2-ac2f0aaea01d2.mp3 - [The One Question Every Couple Avoids Until It's Too Late](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/bdff2e6f8981) (2026-07-01, 31 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583438/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027514-44100-2-ed8f8805d9f77.mp3 - [The Difference Between Love that Looks Right and Feels Right](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/08df436aa9a1) (2026-06-26, 30 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583397/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027511-44100-2-ec60718bc68cc.mp3 - [Married 21 Years: Don't Create a Safe Space](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/6ea2f2e7c69f) (2026-06-23, 43 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583957/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028197-44100-2-9ede25b22c88e.mp3 - [Why Trying To Be Loved Is Pushing People Away](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/92564bd0ca9c) (2026-06-21, 26 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126584350/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433029366-44100-2-a4f3193cdd04f.mp3 - [Gary Vee: The Kind Of Love That Decides Your Whole Life](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/5ac7266dc286) (2026-06-17, 9 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583097/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027025-44100-2-753ea52279f8d.mp3 - [Why Grand Gestures Are Actually Red Flags](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/473a7b8252af) (2026-06-15, 32 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583390/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027484-44100-2-481e207b10475.mp3 - [Why You Stay When You Know You Should Leave](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/bbb2ec1d0630) (2026-06-10, 40 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583512/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027646-44100-2-6b73570cb5a3.mp3 - [You Marry the Same Person Three Times](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/68281240e6cd) (2026-06-07, 43 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583871/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028094-44100-2-ebd17413c5e55.mp3 - [What The Bachelor Taught Me About Conversations We Avoid](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/f12c83337551) (2026-05-31, 39 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583442/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027625-44100-2-a699431a7dd6d.mp3 - [What No One Understands About Love Until It's Too Late](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/cc221beabb46) (2026-05-26, 40 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583555/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027752-44100-2-a277181da83fd.mp3 - [The Type of Intimacy Most People Will Never Experience](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/826214f3af92) (2026-05-22, 54 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583781/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027999-44100-2-f9192a88d297e.mp3 - [Marriage Therapist: The Skill That Makes Love Last](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/006df5d25c20) (2026-05-09, 36 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583564/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027741-44100-2-a1a12400aa9c3.mp3 - [Resentment is the Cholesterol of Love](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/39a5b60e82b3) (2026-05-06, 39 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126584281/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433029550-44100-2-68012e2509575.mp3 - [Married 20 Years: The Difference Between Limerence, Attachment, and Love](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/7dc334f8f39f) (2026-05-01, 25 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583831/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028059-44100-2-06811361f387a.mp3 - [American's Don't Love Hard Enough](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/15d5ba4f67c2) (2026-04-27, 27 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583465/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027595-44100-2-30da45fb7cbec.mp3 - [He Won't Date a Woman Who Can't Be His Friend First](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/f7e2d3fad6a7) (2026-04-25, 54 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583631/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027955-44100-2-6c703d05f7497.mp3 - [Why You Should Celebrate Your Breakup](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/dac55cde212a) (2026-04-17, 34 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583046/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027053-44100-2-ab66f528b9a18.mp3 - [Americans Don't Know How To Love](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/89c631076080) (2026-04-05, 29 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583089/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027047-44100-2-d2c90cbaddcb6.mp3 - [You Are Not Just Falling for Them, You Are Falling for Who You Are With Them](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/bb577d090cc6) (2026-03-31, 22 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583977/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433028195-44100-2-2ff7324f2ef7b.mp3 - [To Love is to Be Heard, Not Just Listened To](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/0e6bb530a656) (2026-03-22, 28 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583726/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027867-44100-2-b294dd7fc88cd.mp3 - [When Dating, Don't Trust Your Gut](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/73327f39a314) (2026-03-11, 21 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582655/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026378-48000-2-a1374d0b57c74e03.mp3 - [Love Isn't a Goal You Can Work Towards](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/18a07d7f27bf) (2026-02-19, 25 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582652/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026376-48000-2-ed9fde5483c292bc.mp3 - [Love Only Exists When Its Enacted](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/b6d7639bb8d9) (2025-09-01, 5 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583042/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026920-44100-2-37bbfa594f721.mp3 - [Luke Chiang on Reframing His Past Relationships](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/39602202f2ff) (2025-09-01, 8 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126583167/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433027141-44100-2-2a97f3564cde7.mp3 - [men not talking about their feelings is a recipe for disaster](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/927144e53631) (2025-07-10, 7 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582633/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026366-48000-2-d84e8822e838d993.mp3 - [there isn't "one true love" for everyone (therapist)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/881d752fd0d4) (2025-07-08, 4 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582642/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026377-48000-2-694d3c8a8aa29f71.mp3 - [people should focus on themselves rather than trying to find a relationship](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/c668c0975699) (2025-07-06, 3 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582632/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026371-48000-2-90f9b8014a9a51d3.mp3 - [dating should be approached as an anthropological study](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1896072246/fffb85063ac4) (2025-07-06, 5 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/117f4073c/podcast/play/126582639/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2F433026375-48000-2-2f0574cdee9bc0cf.mp3 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. 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