# How To Have Sex

A podcast by Jay-Jay Feeney & Melissa Vranjes. How To Have Sex is the sex education you never got at school, and have been quietly winging ever since. Hosted by broadcaster Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes. One very curious host and one expert who actually knows the answers. Every episode tackles a real topic: how to improve your sex life, how to talk about intimacy without killing the mood, how to have better orgasms, how to spice things up in a long-term relationship.... you get the idea. Shame-free, refreshingly practical, and occasionally so mortifying you'll need to pause it. New episodes weekly. Hosted by: Jay-Jay Feeney - 30+ years in radio, trusted voice for Kiwi women. Melissa Vranjes - Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, featured in VOGUE & GRAZIA Together, we combine humour and expert knowledge to normalise conversations around sexual wellness. Breaking taboos. Building confidence. Supporting modern intimacy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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## Latest episodes

- [How To Feel Sexy Again After Heartbreak](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/20f78b8f74d8) (2026-10-27, 47 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6adbf344c40fa69ae11303c2/media.mp3
- [How To Know If You're Normal Down There](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/688b252c4982) (2026-10-20, 54 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6ad4196522236bee3a34e2e2/media.mp3
- [How To Come Back From Infidelity](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/d9d0a5c6f5fa) (2026-10-13, 56 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6acc0fbdced9d03d5a414206/media.mp3
- [How To Choose & Use Adult Toys For Couples](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/96617441e649) (2026-10-06, 62 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6ac33160977a4e50d44f2412/media.mp3
- [How To Stop Resentment From Killing Your Sex Life](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/6af40aba7799) (2026-09-29, 36 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6abae084583d5d66f7211819/media.mp3
- [How To Find The Best Positions That Work For Women](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/cb386119b5bd) (2026-09-22, 46 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6ab073a4eaffb6c3bd790775/media.mp3
- [How To Get Back In The Dating Game](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/5c3b9af597d8) (2026-09-15, 45 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a9cd45d4672553a2f938421/media.mp3
- [How To Have Hot Group Sex](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/968635191ad3) (2026-09-08, 46 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a9f878629b9244174629822/media.mp3
- [How To Have A Great Sex Life As Parents](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/230ed43f97be) (2026-09-01, 51 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a9510691d52ae16baa469ae/media.mp3
- [How To Have Wild Casual Sex](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/239546a48bdf) (2026-08-25, 52 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a8a31dba89d26398e654dd7/media.mp3
- [How To Have Powerful, Internal Orgasms](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/02ee35cb75d8) (2026-08-18, 46 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a83d2faa835875d370e7e99/media.mp3
- [How To Come Back To Sex After a Dry Spell](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/2422ca0f3a03) (2026-08-11, 52 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a797d375a90490c34bf51aa/media.mp3
- [How to Get Really Turned On](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/4789509fd641) (2026-08-03, 48 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a6ed38cc7cc27169d8627d5/media.mp3
- [How To Get Out Of Your Head During Sex](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/b1f0ae3d2668) (2026-07-28, 48 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a680aa1a02cbcf2a1da1051/media.mp3
- [How To Stop Faking It and Start Being Honest In Bed](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/f2b456e14c5f) (2026-07-21, 37 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a5dcdc9461a6a41900465e7/media.mp3
- [How To Get Over Your Body and Sex Insecurities](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/b9c614bef02a) (2026-07-14, 55 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a55bab975790d5f019b94d2/media.mp3
- [How To Navigate Love, Judgment and an Age Gap: Jay-Jay & Minou](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/1891b624c390) (2026-07-07, 45 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a49a9a20069388b7ac446fa/media.mp3
- [How To Get Better at Foreplay](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/1964115e27fa) (2026-06-30, 47 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a4098ee0ad321168678ce2a/media.mp3
- [How To Spice It Up In Long-Term Relationships](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/a22a9c85bb8d) (2026-06-23, 52 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a35c379f1612f1c69e950b4/media.mp3
- [How To Bring Your Fantasies To Life](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/dc9fad038a41) (2026-06-16, 47 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a2e09d4cd023694946712d2/media.mp3
- [How To Initiate Sex](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/601d4689079d) (2026-06-09, 38 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a2508a5a2db34bb89ad2ec2/media.mp3
- [How to Explore Beginner-Friendly BDSM](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/b2d2e9824841) (2026-06-02, 46 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a1d02e3ad1ed3d7b549c58a/media.mp3
- [How To Keep Porn From Replacing Intimacy](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/880940ace491) (2026-05-26, 45 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a1116e742bb55037b739aec/media.mp3
- [How To Actually Get Your Needs Met In Bed (Without Killing The Mood)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/16c6d71a2261) (2026-05-19, 46 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a09395b8bd09f5c48c7839a/media.mp3
- [How to Self-Pleasure (and Why it Will Change Your Partnered Sex Life)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/25ff68f98306) (2026-05-12, 53 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/6a012612668fe6d31ff18d63/media.mp3
- [How to Butt Play (Without Making it Weird or Scary)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/9292095ae1cf) (2026-05-05, 41 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69f919e768235ca3bc1d79f4/media.mp3
- [How to Have Earth Shattering Orgasms](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/4fcf755b9352) (2026-04-28, 50 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69ed471b738b0d0aa55299d7/media.mp3
- [How to Enhance Your Sex Life with Erotic Activities](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/2275d14d8dc8) (2026-04-21, 38 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69e47cfdc8a506316d188b42/media.mp3
- [How to Navigate Low Libido in Pregnancy and Sex Postpartum (Mel’s Story)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/4e50b03c27c0) (2026-04-14, 43 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69ddb25dea8ef7a4e06b425b/media.mp3
- [How to Dirty Talk (Without Dying of Embarrassment)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/42a4fab0b132) (2026-04-07, 41 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69d4885ef44b357ce943fd98/media.mp3
- [How to Give World-Class Head](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/9a60af69221a) (2026-03-31, 45 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69cb0c4592d007a7652e302d/media.mp3
- [Foreplay (Get into Bed with Jay-Jay & Mel)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/9c3de386470e) (2026-03-24, 43 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69bf678862f6c66afe2ccc16/media.mp3
- [How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/3e4ae99eb46d) (2026-03-24, 52 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69bf75e61861d127d53be37c/media.mp3
- [WE ARE COMING!](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1880830347/1a7e988d7c85) (2026-02-27, 2 min): audio https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/699e41e8a4a9e6b7fd8ba4c5/e/69a21d99f8755e109da3088b/media.mp3

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