# Love in a F*cked Up World A podcast by Dean Spade. Why do so many of us act our worst in relationships? How can we hold on to our liberatory values even when strong feelings are involved? For 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. In his new podcast, Love in a F*cked Up World, Dean and his guests offer concrete tools for building and sustaining strong relationships, because our connections to each other are the building blocks of our resistance. Feed: https://rss.buzzsprout.com/2509646.rss ## Latest episodes - [Ericka Hart](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/7f979619b211) (2026-10-15, 61 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19965591-ericka-hart.mp3 - [Accountability](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/c7c69ed62a08) (2026-10-01, 25 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19892533-accountability.mp3 - [AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo on Confidentiality, Self Care, and Maintaining Friendships](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/6a99385ee33d) (2026-09-16, 45 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19813539-ama-with-jessica-lanyadoo-on-confidentiality-self-care-and-maintaining-friendships.mp3 - [Love and Relationships Across Prison Walls (Part 1)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/120a75a53215) (2026-05-28, 53 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19251807-love-and-relationships-across-prison-walls-part-1.mp3 - [Gossip](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/57918075c5db) (2026-05-14, 17 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19174454-gossip.mp3 - [Resentment](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/2a17d4466ce5) (2026-04-30, 25 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19100406-resentment.mp3 - [Vicky Osterweil](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/26b6fb8767b9) (2026-04-16, 77 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/19024109-vicky-osterweil.mp3 - [Eli Clare](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/c587faa807de) (2026-04-02, 58 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18935199-eli-clare.mp3 - [Benji Hart](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/18931dedfcc2) (2026-03-19, 56 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18871715-benji-hart.mp3 - [Am I Working Too Hard to Fix Myself?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/2c6761ef5480) (2026-03-05, 34 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18792688-am-i-working-too-hard-to-fix-myself.mp3 - [Andrea Ritchie](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/16dd8acb6a80) (2026-02-19, 65 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18679873-andrea-ritchie.mp3 - [Chani Nicholas](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/d6ae65e6b7a7) (2026-02-05, 61 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18628925-chani-nicholas.mp3 - [Green Dreamer](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/f949c10add73) (2026-01-29, 55 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18586880-green-dreamer.mp3 - [Peter Gelderloos](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/157ad185f5aa) (2026-01-22, 64 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18550909-peter-gelderloos.mp3 - [Holly Whitaker](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/362fc410da3b) (2026-01-08, 55 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18472371-holly-whitaker.mp3 - [Giving and Receiving Feedback](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/c213c673e59e) (2025-12-24, 20 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18409993-giving-and-receiving-feedback.mp3 - [Shira Hassan](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/679b465dace9) (2025-12-10, 53 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18328745-shira-hassan.mp3 - [7 Steps for De-escalating a Crush](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/7d3fbfcd0160) (2025-11-26, 19 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18256488-7-steps-for-de-escalating-a-crush.mp3 - [AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 2)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/9208af7c74cb) (2025-11-12, 62 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18175274-ama-with-jessica-lanyadoo-part-2.mp3 - [AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo (Part 1)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/d356ea21b9e1) (2025-11-05, 53 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18133355-ama-with-jessica-lanyadoo-part-1.mp3 - [Kelly Hayes](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/240b73307e53) (2025-10-22, 57 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18054833-kelly-hayes.mp3 - [Weyam Ghadbian](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/efe673779a6a) (2025-10-15, 58 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/18014705-weyam-ghadbian.mp3 - [How to Survive the End of the World: Be My Senpai](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/e69b256e88ad) (2025-10-06, 85 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17961648-how-to-survive-the-end-of-the-world-be-my-senpai.mp3 - [Should I Stay or Should I Go?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/e77572b79805) (2025-09-29, 31 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17921706-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go.mp3 - [Prentis Hemphill](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/0031788a8dc8) (2025-09-10, 62 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17819720-prentis-hemphill.mp3 - [Long Distance and Electronic Communication](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/435d76c7c2c6) (2025-08-25, 31 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17726415-long-distance-and-electronic-communication.mp3 - [Mariame Kaba](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/78ea15e63304) (2025-08-11, 72 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17643577-mariame-kaba.mp3 - [What Else is True?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/23c333724f35) (2025-07-24, 14 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17555308-what-else-is-true.mp3 - [Tourmaline and Morgan Bassichis](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/e4b5d0215e7d) (2025-07-10, 62 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17482344-tourmaline-and-morgan-bassichis.mp3 - [Hard Feelings](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/69670b8fe571) (2025-06-25, 16 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17394262-hard-feelings.mp3 - [adrienne maree brown](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/a75814649b38) (2025-06-11, 45 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17316846-adrienne-maree-brown.mp3 - [Introducing: Love in a F*cked Up World with Dean Spade](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1819407403/cf9e733749ff) (2025-06-09, 2 min): audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/episodes/17302978-introducing-love-in-a-f-cked-up-world-with-dean-spade.mp3 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. 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