# Because We Said So A podcast by Zama Marubelela; Landiwe Gama. Because We Said So is a podcast by Zama Marubelela and Landzy Gama, two 20-something South African women figuring life out in real time. From navigating friendships, love, careers, and the chaos of growing up—no topic is off-limits. It’s girlhood, unfiltered. Come for the laughs, stay for the realness. Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/rss ## Latest episodes - [Birds of A Feather, Do They Flock Together?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/c9a8d4472f86) (2026-10-21, 82 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/127823775/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-21%2F15b0868f-83ba-dafd-6d05-44138dd9ad3a.mp3 - [Our Generation’s Relationship With Alcohol.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/e8dbce8591e0) (2026-10-14, 68 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/127453715/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-14%2F83724468-030d-e5e4-42bc-d6b9b7812d58.mp3 - [28 Things We've Learnt at 29](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/fb9de98a07ee) (2026-10-07, 81 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/127010089/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-9-7%2F781feb8c-8d8a-6c70-4c64-356f5905dd65.mp3 - [Leave Women Alone](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/16ecea2e4b02) (2026-09-30, 78 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/126547409/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-30%2Fde3b69c7-fdf5-545f-02df-04e83026c7d4.mp3 - [Ok, We’re All Going Through It! Ft. Rhythm And Vibes](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/b036d46a81ea) (2026-09-23, 66 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/126181623/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-23%2Fac1dc05e-0dee-229f-fc76-aa5bed1116f4.mp3 - [The Girls We Used To Be](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/cc2bfabf4b76) (2026-09-16, 88 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/125810340/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-16%2Fc3b90798-d2cb-7cfc-7263-3c501f0c038b.mp3 - [Can You Have It All?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/c7c4af1a4ed5) (2026-09-09, 85 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/125429083/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-8%2Fa92ba2a5-8d32-62a6-f6df-344ec62eab2e.mp3 - [Dating For Love or Dating For Money?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/dceed8d63251) (2026-09-02, 78 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/125075902/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-2%2Faf6278f2-faaf-730b-30b6-a8fa216cd233.mp3 - [Holding Space While Holding You Accountable](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/aa8b9dc5f709) (2026-08-26, 87 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/124751106/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-26%2F9074e4d3-7b77-522c-09df-d059537bb155.mp3 - [Answering Your Dilemmas](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/a823d31d7cb5) (2026-08-19, 74 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/124406920/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-18%2F990fb76a-0660-986a-8b7b-44c04c652c20.mp3 - [The Pressure To Be Excellent ft. Amanda Du-Pont](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/1c79101b1bfb) (2026-08-12, 62 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/124095995/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-11%2F1de0cae2-da42-af0c-72b2-ccdc6a0e9dc6.mp3 - [The Journey To Womanhood](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/a53466aad36b) (2026-08-05, 85 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/123796817/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-5%2F5eac7669-ce8f-136d-a8d4-7ff9e888204e.mp3 - [Are Men Female Centered? Ft. Dj pH](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/dc97bc0aaa16) (2026-07-29, 79 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/123468033/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-29%2F436a218c-dc58-ee31-8fc4-dda6775f2a03.mp3 - [Should We Be Posting Kids Online?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/33b43ac11e55) (2026-07-22, 74 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/123144205/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-21%2F806f6245-05b7-c1f3-5959-e143cdb3bfb0.mp3 - [100K Special! The Truth About Working With Friends](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/d815e68ac886) (2026-07-15, 81 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/122859125/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-15%2F68a81acb-5e42-4fcf-2703-3f99fd9513aa.mp3 - [The "Pick Me" Problem](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/b15c62cf87ac) (2026-07-08, 87 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/122547098/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-8%2F50cc43f7-83b8-57f6-d64d-12ffc386b1f0.mp3 - [Choosing You Without Losing Them](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/dbfbbc9e1794) (2026-07-01, 82 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/122232912/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-1%2Fb176baa7-96e7-5015-92e7-b3a39350c38b.mp3 - [The Polygamist, Love Island & Everything In Between](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/b14d9c406276) (2026-06-24, 76 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/121906224/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-23%2Fd22f93ad-922d-dad3-b8ad-fc10b9a206b0.mp3 - [Is "Good on Paper" Good Enough?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/399d3ed1a5d8) (2026-06-17, 64 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/121587470/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-17%2F73f640dc-087a-b547-752b-289707c0d4a4.mp3 - [Dilemma Diaries](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/2113665e6335) (2026-06-10, 55 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/121250532/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-9%2F000ce072-37c5-89dd-ca9f-5eee1221a679.mp3 - [How to Survive The Girl's Trip](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/43b25ac85c21) (2026-06-03, 78 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/120909182/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-2%2F0473b375-6d92-6e40-1c33-3060184c5a75.mp3 - [Should Friends Match Your Aesthetic?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/3313bb23691f) (2026-05-27, 76 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/120579792/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-26%2F5364bb35-17cc-2b3c-a4d2-883ea6d7aae3.mp3 - [Made by Africa, Loved by The World ft. Linda Mtoba](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/58420bf78c75) (2026-05-22, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/120354229/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-21%2F7f020705-f0cc-3299-e0d2-076b6ed1cfea.mp3 - [Made by Africa, Loved by The World ft. Nomzamo Mbatha](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/00b22e73dcce) (2026-05-20, 88 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/120227971/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-19%2Fc35f3cd3-08c8-a845-4591-2fdcf5cb399d.mp3 - [365 days of BWSS.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/be5b93c9ad9d) (2026-05-13, 86 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/119916333/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-13%2Fe9fa96ce-69b8-658e-9668-82f606841581.mp3 - [Is Closure A Scam?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/eda6962a6520) (2026-05-06, 83 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/119539687/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-5%2F626db4b8-e924-420d-9e45-11a43feae63e.mp3 - [Live For Now, Suffer Later.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/c16581f33c3c) (2026-04-29, 75 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/119215907/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-29%2F5c7e3497-258c-d689-1fba-68b6743f27d5.mp3 - ["Do It, And Do It Well!" ft Nadia Nakai.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/78294ad71d5f) (2026-04-22, 72 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/118804992/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-21%2F84605ada-a7fe-ae38-39dc-96389397743b.mp3 - [Is age JUST a number?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/ebc39de0e8dd) (2026-04-15, 76 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/118491614/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-15%2F06b9c04f-2fa1-3338-453b-8efb8078910c.mp3 - [Landzy is Back!! Let's Catch Up.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/b845e604b7c6) (2026-04-08, 55 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/118100438/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-7%2F58286788-022e-123e-4ebc-73b514a7fdb7.mp3 - [The Busines of Being You ft. Xoli Gcabashe](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/bad78edd0fa8) (2026-04-01, 70 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/117758944/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-31%2F5ce173f4-9440-5d4c-7b9a-e09436ac3da1.mp3 - [Are High Achievers Made at Home?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/702ccb5eb0a1) (2026-03-25, 72 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/117446941/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-25%2F709aa928-ae8f-17ac-664c-651f581c29f7.mp3 - [The Truth About Group Friendships ft. Vanessa Padi](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/e5c111d32615) (2026-03-18, 73 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/117067792/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-17%2Fdecbf884-0453-4756-2252-bdd90a97e309.mp3 - ["My Man Is Jealous Of My Boss?" ft. Kele Khoza](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/429d4092bee1) (2026-03-18, 56 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/116687944/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-10%2Fdb830779-1d17-bdad-2cf6-2c075a2c6f73.mp3 - [Self Care as Self Love.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/d21453beaf05) (2026-02-25, 76 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/115992197/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-24%2F23a461f9-1098-9124-dbb6-d6983b131abb.mp3 - [Are Best Friends The New Boyfriends?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/416978f7b5ad) (2026-02-18, 69 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/115580353/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-16%2F49ad461d-8b3c-ddf2-f049-08a719b581c3.mp3 - [Love Is In The Little Things](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/0394189fb24d) (2026-02-11, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/115341309/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-11%2Fbcc2a876-4a9e-caaa-aaea-9bd74e42497e.mp3 - [WE'RE BACK! Let's Catch Up.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/606f8f52752d) (2026-02-04, 84 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/114968512/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-3%2Fe93b2813-9c20-1d26-69fa-1f6e95fe8416.mp3 - [And That’s All Folks! 2025 Wrapped ft. Lesedi Nkopane](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/f8cb7f5c87b6) (2025-12-31, 72 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/113274044/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-30%2F3240af07-edc0-fb45-c255-f0b5b7687d00.mp3 - [Home for The Holidays ft . Zola Joka](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/0fc952aea369) (2025-12-24, 50 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/112725186/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-16%2F2289d48f-2081-ed44-9ef6-6ab1fe4af5d0.mp3 - [It’s Time For Your Dilemma’s..](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/40e3e63c9675) (2025-12-17, 58 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/112724761/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-16%2F728843ec-bc2c-ed57-1191-16d9bfaa103e.mp3 - [Reclaiming Your December](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/e51a5d14875d) (2025-12-10, 54 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/112388996/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-9%2Fdc7d9ca0-ee39-cfde-ba34-835767adb187.mp3 - [The Red Piling of Women?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/00dbfb2016f5) (2025-12-03, 60 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/112043410/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-2%2Fc64f93ff-63b4-b27b-61cd-a794068aa552.mp3 - [If Everybody Has It, I Don't Want It](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/f64a383eaa7d) (2025-11-26, 62 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/111726823/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-10-26%2F6b54e86d-dd13-2963-7bed-beb12979634d.mp3 - [The Audacity To Want More](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/d79f8f1f8b53) (2025-11-19, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/111301577/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-10-17%2F56f824e6-1e2b-5dbe-9ae5-89034534d563.mp3 - [Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/b19dcaa97d4b) (2025-11-12, 68 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/110957924/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-10-10%2Ff383e5fb-4276-600d-e839-1651b60d0abb.mp3 - [No More Bob The Builder](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/165ef85a1f28) (2025-11-05, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/110692152/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-10-4%2F9d7cfc1f-a62e-69a2-460e-d3f718bafd39.mp3 - [We're Tired of The Mean Girl Energy](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/2678e26ef9c2) (2025-10-29, 67 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/110353978/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-9-28%2Fdd6489b1-cadd-3dd8-ca64-7198b00bc6f8.mp3 - [Pretty Privilege or Punishment?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/e0959de73618) (2025-10-22, 63 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/110039816/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-9-22%2Fc35c5f68-3ba7-92bc-011b-3207e90e9621.mp3 - [Nails Done, Hair Done, Everything Did?](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1814365374/79f6791fb4b7) (2025-10-14, 61 min): audio https://anchor.fm/s/10205564c/podcast/play/109653755/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-9-14%2Fff1fb3ad-e007-924b-7a59-717eb85a34e8.mp3 Shows are listed from Apple Podcasts' charts and directory, and Podcast Index where it is used. 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