# Ep.91 Are You a Builder or a Destroyer? (Most Don't Know)

An episode of [The David Ghiyam Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1775548374), 17 Apr 2026, 23 min.

Audio: https://anchor.fm/s/fc9d14c4/podcast/play/118536091/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-16%2F422176000-44100-2-fcda2f01df2f.mp3

Are you a builder or a destroyer? Most of us have no idea which one we really are, and it's costing us the people, relationships, and opportunities we love most.We're inside the 49 days of the Omer right now, and the seeds you plant in this window yield more than any other time of the year. In this episode, I break down the three things that matter most:• Certainty over your day• Building instead of destroying• Guarding your speechI share why "nice guys" keep losing the people they love, what was really happening when my friend's girlfriend walked away after years of giving, and why fear-based giving is actually a form of taking. Then I go deep into the 7 laws of evil speech, how your breath carries your soul into the world, and the day I recorded myself and found out 83% of my words were evil speech, and what shifted when I dropped it to 17%. JOIN ME LIVE→ Upcoming events in LA and MIAMI: https://join.davidghiyam.com/YTevents #manifestation #spiritualgrowth #consciousness #relationships #healing

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