# Stop Feeding Tantrums & Outbursts

An episode of [BratBusters Parenting Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1770136136), 24 Feb 2026, 28 min.

Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2404296/episodes/18641827-stop-feeding-tantrums-outbursts.mp3

#145 In this episode, Lisa discusses tantrums. She covers embracing tantrums, the difference between her approach when it comes to tantrums over wants compared to needs, her thoughts on ignoring tantrums, whether or not she believes all kids have tantrums, when tantrums often end, the importance of connection after the tantrum, looking calm during tantrums, how she acts during discipline, and what the BratBusters Behaviour Board is. Lastly, Lisa addresses five listener questions, discussing whether you can use the BratBusters Behaviour Board for tantrums, how to handle an 8-year-old having outbursts at school, the best way to manage toddler tantrums caused by skipping naps, how to respond when a 3-year-old tantrums because a younger sibling interrupts play, and how to navigate toddler tantrums when a child is sick. Thank you for joining us! Courses: Toddler BratBusters Bootcamp (16-35 Months) BratBusters Bootcamp (Ages 3-12) Learn More: BratBusters Behaviour Board (Plus Toddler Basics) No-Cost Mini Course Private Coaching Podcast Questions: Have a question you'd like to submit for a chance to be featured in an upcoming podcast episode? Click Here to Submit 🎙️ Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice. Lisa Bunnage is a Parenting Coach, mom and grandmother. Lisa is not a licensed psychologist or counsellor. Her services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals. For a full disclaimer, please visit bratbusters.com/disclaimer

## Chapters

- 0:00 Introduction to Tantrums
- 0:59 Embracing Tantrums
- 1:11 How Lisa Approaches Tantrums Over Needs
- 1:41 How Lisa Approaches Tantrums Over Wants
- 2:28 Lisa’s Thoughts on Ignoring Tantrums
- 3:45 Do All Kids Have Tantrums?
- 4:39 The Importance of Connection After the Tantrum is Done
- 5:44 What Age Do Kids Often Stop Having Tantrums?
- 7:24 Looking Calm During The Tantrums
- 8:49 What Lisa Believes is Important With Calm Leadership Parenting
- 10:57 How Lisa Acts During Discipline
- 11:58 Listener Question 1: Can You Use the BratBusters Behaviour Board For Tantrums?
- 12:53 What is the BratBusters Behaviour Board?
- 13:29 Listener Question 2: 8-Year-Old Outbursts at School?
- 17:10 Listener Question 3: Toddler Tantrums Caused By Skipping Naps?
- 18:55 Listener Question 4: 3-Year-Old Tantrums When Younger Sibling Interrupts Play?
- 23:04 Listener Question 5: Toddler Tantrums When Sick?
- 25:21 Final Thoughts on Approaching Tantrums

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