# Yes, No, Maybe: Erotic List w/ Jessa Zimmerman | Szn. 5 Ep. 7

An episode of [Pleasure Project: Sex and Relationships](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1754424612), 23 Aug 2026, 32 min.

Audio: https://anchor.fm/s/d83aac7c/podcast/play/114363987/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-19%2F430154628-44100-2-bead06983d079.mp3

This conversation with sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman goes deeper into one of the most misunderstood tools in couples’ sexuality: the Yes / No / Maybe list. Dr. Jenn and Jessa unpack how this exercise can expand desire without pressure, clarify boundaries, and help partners talk about fantasy versus lived experience, without shame or performance. You’ll learn why wanting to imagine something is different from wanting to do it, how to stay regulated during vulnerable conversations, and how curiosity builds erotic confidence over time. Perfect for couples navigating desire discrepancies, rebuilding erotic trust, or wanting a safer way to explore what turns them on, and what doesn’t. ✨ Best paired with: Low Desire Partner w/ Jessa Zimmerman | Szn. 3 Ep. 9 Reach Jessa at: https://www.intimacywithease.com Instagram: @intimacywithease Connect with Dr. Jenn: Instagram: @drjennkennedy Website: Pleasure Project Website: Riviera Therapy

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