# When You're Talking But Your Spouse "Isn't Hearing You" | Lilly Million

An episode of [That Husband Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1743925482), 23 Sep 2026, 1 h 13 min.

Audio: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/uv5ryczfckqyqvfa/lilly_n_b_editb9h6q.mp3

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. \[S3\] EPISODE 35: 12 YEARS IN AND STILL LEARNING In this week's episode Blaque sits down with Anele for an honest and necessary conversation about divorce, identity, healing, and the journey of finding your way again. Drawing from his book, Thrive, Anele Matshisi opens up about the phases men go through after divorce moments many are never prepared for and few feel safe enough to talk about. Together, they unpack the weight of separation, the questions it raises around purpose and identity, and the quiet struggles men often carry behind closed doors. This conversation goes beyond simply surviving heartbreak. Anele reflects on what it takes to confront pain honestly, rebuild your life with intention, and heal in a way that does not leave you repeating the same patterns. From loss and loneliness to self-worth, responsibility, and rediscovering purpose, this episode makes space for the real work of becoming whole again. They also explore why men need healthier conversations around divorce, support through life’s hardest transitions, and the courage to seek healing instead of hiding behind strength. If you’ve experienced divorce, felt disconnected from who you are, or are trying to rebuild after a season that changed everything, this conversation is for you. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

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