# S1 Ep2: It's Giving.. Mom Guilt

An episode of [Everybody's Crazy](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1738947925), 7 May 2024, 36 min.

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Welcome back to Everybody's Crazy, with Savannah James and April McDaniel. This week we're diving into the madness of motherhood, strange obsessions that keep you up at night, the hot topic of disciplining kids (or not), and some kind reminders to drink your water and exercise! Tune in for some real talk, some kee kee's, and a whole lot of love. Follow us on socials: https://www.instagram.com/AprilsOffice https://www.instagram.com/mrs_savannahrj/ https://www.instagram.com/everybodyscrzy/ Full video episodes can be found on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverybodysCrazy See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

## Transcript

[0:00] I'm scared. Scared. Getting nervous. Getting nervous. Okay. How about you kick us off? Hi. Welcome back to episode two of Everybody's Crazy. Very stressed still. Thanks for coming back. Obviously, we did something good. Episode one for y'all to be back here with us. So thank you so much.
[0:26] when we're doing this. You don't start over. No, it's fine. I'm nervous. Girl, come on. We go through this every single time. Okay, we'll put one something together. It's okay. Episode two. On the feels. We're here. Call us.
[0:55] So let's go to our first caller. Let's do it. Who are we speaking to? Where are you from? And what's your crazy? My name is Daryl. I'm from Atlanta. So my crazy is, you know, I'm 72 years old and I'd be playing a video game and I'd be cussing, screaming, banging the desk. And my mom come in and like starts yelling at me. So I just want to know if you think that's crazy.
[1:17] I think it's crazy because I can hear my sons through the walls as well. But, you know, I did this rule with my sons. This is Savannah. You know, they play basketball. And I gave them the you can cuss on the court rule. But I guess I got to translate that to you can cuss when you're on the game too. Because the obscenities that fly out of their mouths through my closet wall is crazy.
[1:42] And I feel like it's normal. I think kids get excited. My only thing is in my house, I feel like sometimes someone's dying. It's a little extreme. So there's like limits to it. So I feel like you would go excitement six to eight. A 10 is crazy. And sometimes you guys are at a 10.
[2:00] So I think just like bring it down a little bit, but I think it's... Keep it between a six and eight. Yeah, six and an eight. But I don't think it's really that crazy. But it's also not something we really can relate to because I feel like growing up, we didn't have that. So we don't even know what that's like. So I'm going to let the cuss words fly because I don't get it. Yeah, exactly. And old school black moms be like, what are you doing? So I get it. You're not that crazy, though. But thank you for calling, Daryl, from Atlanta.
[2:28] To be honest, mom, I don't even think that's crazy at all. See, there you go. Wait, Bryce? Ah! What the fuck? Oh, he's dying. Why are you dying? Yo! How do you change your voice like that?
[2:52] No, that wasn't me. That was Dana talking. That was Dana. Oh! Oh my gosh, y'all aggravated me. Get off my line. Goodbye. Love you. Goodbye.
[3:07] Oh my God. Oh my God. We just got hacked by Bryce. I can't. Why? Do they play all day? That was good. I didn't even catch one of them was Bryce. Me neither. Well, I'm like, it definitely didn't sound like him until he said something. I'm like... Child. See, this is why. This kid's crazy. Dry eat a drink. Okay.
[3:37] Let's go to the next caller. Let's go to the next caller. Oh my goodness. Hey, what's your name? Where you calling from and what's your crazy? Oh man, my crazy is life period, but my name is Bree. I am from Mesa, Arizona. And yeah, I can't believe I'm talking to you. Is this Savannah? It is. What you got going on, Bree? Oh wow.
[4:06] Oh, I'm just like, oh my God, I'm a huge fan. I love your style. Hair is, I'm sleek all the time. Love it. I appreciate it. Thank you. My crazy. Anytime, anytime. My crazy is I have a three-month-old baby. Congratulations. And I have a six-year-old daughter and a seven-year-old daughter. And I'm about to lose my mind. Like, I already don't have stuff to myself already. So, yeah.
[4:33] I already know it's going downhill. No, no, no, no. Not downhill. Not downhill. Not downhill. Always, yes. Positive vibes. Positive. I feel like it's normal to feel like that in this moment, especially with a small baby. And I don't know how much help you do or don't have, but.
[4:50] I think to manage everything. Yeah, I'm married. I've been, I'll be married 12 years tomorrow. Congratulations, Brie. So I feel like, I feel like making sure you make time for yourself is really important. And I know that sounds crazy in a day like that, but.
[5:07] This is April speaking. I wake up super early, like, to be honest, between, Savannah thinks I'm crazy, but 4.30. I wake up at 4.30. And from 4.30 to 6.30 is like my time. I do whatever I want to do. Make a tea, walk around the house and sage my house. Sometimes I work out. I take a bubble bath every morning. I feel like you just need a minute. And I think because your kids are so small, you start with just like 30 minutes. Yeah.
[5:36] And I think you can train your kids to be understanding that this is my 30 minutes. Like, so, you know, don't bother me during this time or do it during that when they're asleep. But you have to make sure to just give yourself a little bit of space. Because I do think if you don't, you will go crazy. Yeah, for sure. That's really important to take some time to yourself. No, no. Hands down. Like, my second child, I kind of did. I did, like, mental health is a big thing I want to advocate for because,
[6:03] A lot of people don't realize, especially in our community, being black, that, you know, depression being one of the things in postpartum is huge after you have your child. Yeah. So it's something I definitely struggle with. She's bustling her dad right now. Yeah, it's definitely something I struggle with. But I have to get over the mom guilt.
[6:27] That's what it is. Yeah, mom guilt is so real. I ain't have no mom guilt. Wanted to do something for myself? No, I be leaving them kids. Sorry, y'all, but I be like, fuck them kids. I used to have mom guilt for sure. And it's definitely... It's not even the kids. It's the people around you that making you feel bad. I don't know. I don't know. I be in my head about that. I hate that. Don't listen to the voices. Yeah, we got to give a... I don't give a fuck. These is my kids.
[6:52] Yeah, exactly. And I'm going to say goodbye to them for the night. See you later. And I'm going to the spa. I'll be back. You won't remember this. I feel like you just got to remember that. Exactly. Exactly. And give yourself some grace. You'll get there. Like April said, 30 minutes to start and try to, you know, add more and more time. But you'll get there.
[7:15] And we're proud of you, Bri. Keep thriving. Yeah, I appreciate you guys doing this. April, nice to meet you as well. I love what you guys are doing. So thank you again. All right. Thanks, Bri. See you later. Good night. Mom guilt never.
[7:31] I used to have mom guilt. No. I know you said, here go this baby, ma'am. I'll see y'all later. Listen, listen. I left the hospital and gave that baby to that baby nurse and said, I see y'all back. I'm going to get manicure and pedicure. Don't wake me up tonight. That's so funny. I was very opposite. Like, I wanted every single second. When I came home from that, I barely wanted somebody else to hold my baby. So I feel like if I have another kid, I would be different. Yeah, I agree. I feel like if I have one more baby, God willing.
[8:02] I feel like she's such a hater on my other baby. My baby that's not even here. That she's going to love the baby. But the baby is going to be cutting into the... The baby is going to... I'm going to be like an African lady tying the baby on my back. We're going to be in Paris. We're going to be outside. At the Chanel show with the baby in a little... With Chanel scarf. With a little bag in the back.
[8:27] I feel like I just didn't I didn't have any of that. I felt like I was doing the best I can. And that just y'all got to get what y'all get. Yeah. Yeah. Now it's interesting. I have a little bit of mom guilt right now with Knox. Like because now that I started dating and like prioritizing and all the moving pieces.
[8:48] And I mean, my youngest son is going to be 14 in a week. So this is the first time in my life that I'm like, okay, let me make sure everything is, everyone feels like they're number one. But when he was a baby and plus he couldn't even talk, I was like, see you later, brother. His eyes wasn't even straight. His eyes look across. You can't even see me, Sarah. I'll be right there. Listen, stay with this. Stay with this.
[9:09] This baby nurse from the islands. That's the end of it. Exactly. Next caller. Hi, can you give us your name, where you're from, and what's your crazy? My name is Rudy, and I'm from Mississippi, but I'm in Massachusetts right now. Okay. And my crazy is I'll be home in a couple months to the sunny palm trees and fresh air.
[9:37] That sounds like a place to me. That don't sound crazy to me. Wait a minute. Be home from where? Drink water and exercise. But where are you coming home from? I'm from Mississippi, but I'm in Massachusetts right now. But in a couple of months, I'll be there. Be where? Making my new home. Where are you going to be? L.A.? Or are you going to be in Mississippi? Yes. Or are you going to be in L.A.?
[10:07] Yeah. Okay. I'm making my home. And you're going to make it your home from Massachusetts? Yes. Okay. I'm not mad at that, but why is that crazy? Do you not see that that's possible? No, it is crazy. Because it's true. Well, the fact that it is crazy, I don't think that is... I don't think it's crazy. I don't think it's crazy. I think it's great. It's elevating. Yeah, you out of here. Fuck Mississippi and Massachusetts. Damn. You coming to LA. That's right.
[10:38] Well, we look forward to seeing you here in no time. Okay, drink your water and exercise. All right, don't worry. We're going to drink our water and exercise. Talk to you later, Rudy. All right. I thought he was coming home from jail. I know, that's right.
[10:58] He was asking. That's what I thought. I wasn't going to say nothing. Talking about you coming to LA. He said, don't look for me. Because I got a man. And you got a man. And we got a man. And we got a man. We got mans. Got mans in them. We got mans in them. Okay, so next. Oh my gosh. Color. Next color. It's action packed today. Okay.
[11:26] What's your name? Where are you calling from? And what's your crazy? My name is Alicia, and I'm calling from Atlanta, Georgia. And my crazy is sometimes that I have to lie to my employers about, like, because I'm going to be late or something to work. And sometimes I really do believe in my lies. Like, have you ever happened to you before? Like, you lie so good that you believe your lie?
[11:47] can't lie. I don't have a good memory. So I don't know what the fuck I didn't told you because I can't remember. But what you lying about? I'm just curious. So I'm trying to get like, I just moved to Georgia from Buffalo so I'm trying to get a few of things. And sometimes I do so before me so sometimes I be having to go to another interview.
[12:08] So I'd be like, hey, I got a flat tire today. And then I get to work, like, really acting like I got a flat tire. And I just keep looking at myself like, yo, something really wrong with you. Because you, girl, you was nothing at all. You had a great morning. So do you lie in your personal life? I'm very honest with my friends, and that's my problem. So I appreciate that. I mean, listen, I have to say, because I am an employer, I don't like getting finessed.
[12:36] so let somebody come up in here with some old riggedy mo rat. I ain't for the shit. So you walk up in here in all black. I'm like, you interviewing. Like, I'm just very intuitive. So like, I would rather me personally, I'm at a smaller agency. So I feel like, you know, with a bigger companies, you're just a number and it may not matter as much. But for me, I would just rather somebody be transparent. Like I'm running late this morning. What are they going to do?
[13:05] I like the smaller agencies. I have learned that it's better, but as far as the bigger agencies, because my thing is you go for an interview and you don't really know if you're getting a job and now you're jobless. Correct. I mean, yeah, I agree. And as long as you're not jumping around from job to job. Don't need one job without another. I agree, honey. Don't play around with your money because it gets funny. And it's about to be a recession. So, I mean...
[13:34] I think understanding that as well. Well, I appreciate it. Thanks, Alicia. Thank you so much. All right, bye. Have a good night.
[13:45] My sister cannot squat because she said my mom never taught her. What? My mom never taught her how to squat, so she don't know how to squat. So she sits on all the toilet seats. Ew. I'm not sitting. Oh, I'm a squatter and I'm a fast one. It's going to make it go. Squat, squat, squat. Yeah. Same. Okay. Should we take another caller? Hey. Hey, what's going on? Hey, how you doing, man? This is all.
[14:13] Gino from New York City, but I'm in North Carolina. What's her? Okay, that's good. I'm good, I'm good. What's your crazy? My crazy is that I do believe that Savannah's really going to work with me. With my clothing line. What's your clothing line? That's the crazy. That's all I know. And the reason why I say that is because what I like about her is that she's different. She just don't wait.
[14:41] for her husband to do everything. She do believe in her power and I can see that. So that's just how I am. I don't believe in staying in the shadow of nobody. So, you know, shout outs to her, man. Oh, we love that. You know what I'm saying? You know, keep, yeah, keep doing your thing and I do believe that. I'm going to send her. That's my craziness. I'm going to send her my, my R&L, send a couple of things that I have and I'm going to leave it in God's hands. That's my craziness. All right. Well, we love that and we love a manifestor. So, yes. Thank you, Gino. Appreciate it. Hell yeah.
[15:11] I have a good one. All right. You too. Bye. He says, I'll be nervous. I'll be nervous. My husband will see these. I'll be nervous. He's like, Gino, go ahead and send that shit. I'll burn it. Gino be great. I can't. Should we go to a voicemail? Have a little banter? Yes. Let's hear it. Love that for us. Banter. Look at you. Banter. It's a podcast chat.
[15:41] My guys, girlies. Compliments of our guy, Chris. Thanks, Chris, for the tagline. Hi, guys, girlies. Love it. All right, let's do a voicemail. Girl, I have quite a few crazy, but here's one that I'm trying to get over. So I am obsessed with, like, crime shows like Snaps.
[16:05] Dateline, 2020, anywhere someone's getting murdered and you got to figure out the killer. The problem is it's messing up my sleep. No, like drastically. Like I watch these shows till one, two o'clock in the morning and then can't sleep because I'm paranoid thinking someone's out to get me. Even my therapist told me I should stop. What's a normal nighttime routine that won't keep me up with nightmares? Show suggestions, meditation suggestions, anything. Yeah.
[16:31] How can you help me get away from these crime shows? And even like on social media, there's a page dedicated to 911 calls for crazy events. And I'm like, obsessed. And I feel like that's a crazy obsession. And the men I date all have told me I'm crazy. Hence why I'm single. Because they think I'm obsessed with crime and homicide. Jonathan, you're out of here. Homicide!
[16:55] That is so funny. That's funny. Well, first of all, they think you're trying to figure out how to kill him and get away with it. Yes, exactly. And first of all, you love horror. I do. So I could never watch anything like that. I love it. Before I go to bed.
[17:10] So this is the thing. And I know a lot of people who be like, I don't know how you watch that. I can't let it get into my spirit. It's entertainment to me. The movies. Now, when you talk about true crime, I really don't watch a lot of true crime. I'm more of a whore. But I have a couple people that I definitely know that watch Snapped and Unsolved Mysteries and stuff like that before going to sleep. And I remember during quarantine, LeBron and I watched this one called...
[17:37] Oh my gosh, I can't remember the name of it. It was on Netflix. It was about this serial killer in the 80s in L.A.
[17:43] And had that man know it. I'm like, babe, what's wrong? He like, that movie got me fucked up. I'm like, oh, so we can't watch True Crime. We just got to stick to like the gory horror. Yeah, that's not going to be for me. But I would just say, you know, the nighttime routine could be like, I watch House Hunters to go to sleep because it's boring. Like if I am watching TV at all to go to sleep, I feel like part of having a good nighttime routine is.
[18:08] not having screen time before you go to sleep. Just kind of shutting everything off and letting your brain shut down. But yeah, I think you got to figure out what works because clearly you like true crime. I need to work on my wind down situation because what I do is ride it till the wheels fall off. So I'll be at the table like...
[18:31] It'd be 930 and I'd be so tired. Like the other day I was at dinner with my dad in Knox and I was like, oh my God. Oh my God. I got in the car and I'm just so I'm.
[18:42] I take it so far that I'm exhausted. So like there's, I don't waste a minute in the day. So for me, it's just like my nervous system just is like, boom. And then it crashes. So I feel like, I guess one of my goals, maybe I'll start in June. So for the next six months of the year is to figure out a good wind down routine and we will come back.
[19:07] To the podcast crew and see what's working. I feel like it's important to calm your nervous system at night. For sure. I think at any point of the day where you feel like you're getting overwhelmed, it's important to calm your nervous system. Did you know taking three breaths, three deep breaths, can calm your nervous system in one minute? I'm the queen of a deep breath. I didn't know that until I started therapy that that can calm...
[19:35] Like it just can calm everything down. So good pointer. Should we take a caller? Sure. Hi, what's your name? Where are you from? And what's your crazy? My name is Lauren and I'm from Kansas. Awesome. And what's your crazy, Lauren? You're here with me and Savannah. I think my crazy is just how much I admire Savannah as a woman. And my fiance is obsessed with LeBron.
[20:04] So we're just kind of that couple that is just crazy about the Jameses. That's sweet. Thank you, guys. I love that. Love that.
[20:14] but that's not crazy. That's actually pretty cool. I was like, wow, I can't believe that I could possibly talk to Savannah and her friend. And I was like, I'm going to try. So that's it. It's not too crazy, I guess. Not too crazy. Not too crazy at all. No, but thanks for calling us. And it's always nice to admire somebody. Thank you. Yes. I just all, I love her image. I just love how she carries herself. You know, if you don't,
[20:41] like a lot of celebrity women just show off all their body and, you know, she's just classy. And I just, I love that so much. We love it too. This is April. I love it too. So I'm over here admiring with you. Thank you for calling in. Right. So good.
[21:01] Well, that's it. I'm glad I could talk to you guys. Thank you. Have a good day or night. Thank you. You too. All right. Bye. Admiration is sweet. It is, but it makes me uncomfortable. It makes me uncomfortable too. But I feel like if we're going to do this, you got to like get comfortable with admiration.
[21:22] And I mean, I mean, the fact that I knew what you were saying with the, oh my nigga, like, what did you mean? I mean, I feel like the image is a premium.
[21:40] It's been, you did it good. You did it good for a little rookie jumping in there. Let's give it still a rookie. Listen, it was giving a little whippersnapper. You done a little what behind me? Listen, it's giving a little thunder cat. You did good. I feel like there's so many directions to go, and I feel like you did a great job. So, like, I get why people are, like, admire you. Because I feel like so many people don't hold themselves with a level of respect in class.
[22:09] And you just did it. And you made it look so easy. And although you actually did care about certain things, people didn't think you did. Okay, so I did good. You did good. It's giving acting.
[22:22] Let's come into a screen here. Come into a screen here. So I get admiration. It makes me uncomfortable as well. Yeah. Because I feel like I'm the people. I'm a people's person. But you do know that you'd be out here killing it and inspiring the people as well. Yeah, but that's more in the work realm. No. No. It's across the board, ma'am. Yes. In the work realm. I feel like I'm still coming to be okay with that. Be well. I see it coming slowly. Slowly. Yeah.
[22:52] I don't want to be your role model. I don't want to be your role model. Don't look at me. I work 400 hours a week. Don't do it. It's getting tired. Okay. So should we take another caller? Sure. Hello, caller. Can you hear us?
[23:14] Why do people get scared? Even when Karina did the survey, majority of people said they were shy. They're nice. But like, what is it that we look nice? And we don't even really know. You can say anything. We just, you can say you Daryl from Atlanta. You my son. So I feel like, yeah, I don't know. Yeah. I love it. I would love to do a call in.
[23:38] I definitely remember being younger and calling the radio when they finally answered. You hurry up and hang up. Oh, my God. No, I wouldn't hang up. No, it took me a couple times. I wanted the free fucking tickets. I was hanging on. It took me a couple times. For 4,800 hours. My eyes was burning. The phone, you had the phone sweating on your ear because you wanted it free. I was raised and I went to school in Jersey, but...
[23:59] Philly. And so Power 99 used to have this big show every year. And I always wanted free tickets to the show. So I'd be on the hotline. We used to call in middle school. The radio station was 88.1. And when you called it like 88.
[24:15] I was like, hang up the phone, but we used to do shout outs. Like early in the morning, going to school, you would listen to the radio. I wish Power 99 would have answered me one time. Power 99, send me some tickets. I know y'all still have your little concert. I come back to Philly. I love Philly. Philadelphia. All right, should we take another caller? What's your name? Where are you from? And what's your crazy? My name is Shannon and I'm from Corona, California. Yeah.
[24:41] And I'm calling because my crazy is people who don't discipline their kids. I know that's right. Come on, Shannon. What you got for us? And, you know, it's like, it's like this, girls. It's like this. So my son is a, you know, he coaches, but he volunteers. He helps out. You know, he wants to do stuff for the youth. And, you know, I appreciate that. But.
[25:08] You know, everybody thinks that their kid is going to be the next, you know, LeVon. Okay. And they're not. And also, we had a situation where one of the kids is kicking all the other kids. It's twins. And they're kicking each of the kids. So I'm sitting here and I'm like, okay, is this mom going to step in and tell her to stop kicking the kids? Or are we going to have to stop kicking the kids? Right? But it's not my kids.
[25:37] So she's sitting there and she's just, they're just kicking the kids and kicking the kids. But finally they kicked the kid between the legs and the parents went off. So then it went from they're kicking the kids with no discipline to now her kids are disabled and we're all against them and we shouldn't be attacking children. And it's like, so my crazy is,
[26:01] So should your kids be attacking our kids? And your kids weren't disabled when they were kicking people. Yeah. That's my crazy. So now they really do think I'm crazy. Yeah, I think it's so interesting because I feel like disciplining kids ranges so wide. And I feel like it also has a lot of cultural pieces to it as well. Like just from different cultures of how people were raised. What does that look like?
[26:32] So, I mean, I agree. I think it is something that is constantly a struggle, especially if your kids are doing organized sports. And just like what that looks like is really hard.
[26:45] For me, it takes a lot for me to say something, but also I'm not really fitting to be playing with no disrespect. So I definitely will say something. And I mean, I don't even know how you did it for all these years, Savannah, with AAU, because them parents be rowdy and ready to fight. Wow. I've definitely been held back a few times. I had a baby in my arms ready to fight a man. And it's like, it's interesting that you say cultural because,
[27:14] It was a cultural thing. And, you know, you don't kick people. And then the mom, you know, when you say something, then it's like, oh, you're attacking my kid. It's like, no, I'm not attacking your kid. But you're, and then, you know, she got in her feelings when we said your kid acts like that because of the parenting. Because nobody else's kid is kicking other people's kids, you know? Yeah. No, we understand. I think it's a challenge. I saw you guys and I'm like,
[27:43] Yeah. And I'm like, well, she said, what's my crazy? So I just want to hear if you think I'm crazy. No, I don't. Not at all. I don't. I don't play with no kids. Yeah.
[27:55] You never play with no kids. I don't play with no kids. And nobody's kids. Savannah don't play with no kids. Don't want to take nobody's kids. Listen, and I feel like a lot of that is because of the way that I discipline my kids and understanding that everybody has different disciplining or styles of discipline. Yes. I don't want to be had a responsibility because I will. I mean, this is I'm not going to say this because, you know, people might get. But my kids know what's up. That's all I know. I know what you're saying. And my kids know what's up, too. Yeah.
[28:23] Skipping Kung Fu Panda. You're definitely not crazy, but I feel like that's why we have this show and that's why the title is Everybody's Crazy. Because there's just different ranges. That mom may think you're crazy and you're like, well, I'm not crazy. And we saying like, we agree with you. So, I mean, it's really open. That's the point of calling in and hearing people's perspectives. Because I think...
[28:46] disciplining style across the board is so different. And I do believe even with the cultural differences, I do believe some of the younger generation does not believe in the same way that we were brought up to discipline.
[29:00] So I feel like people want to sit and talk about things and conversate over and over again to get to the point when it could have been handled in three seconds and it wouldn't have been no problems. Three seconds. But again, I feel like everybody has evolved even how things used to be done. Even me censoring myself to say I will snatch the hell out of my kids.
[29:23] But it's funny because the other day I said to my son who's 14, I was like, yeah, because it's a dyphus. And he's like, what is dyphus? What is dyphus? Dyphus is like back in the day when your mom was like, well, my mom was like, I'll call dyphus. Oh, that's the people. Yeah, that's the people. They're going to come and get you. But I don't even think our kids even know what that is. No, for me, it was CPS.
[29:47] I'm going to call the people on me. So, again, it's like our kids weren't even raised in that environment. And, I mean, to be honest, CPS and diapers is very busy, so you ain't calling nowhere. Like, no one's available to pick anybody up these days. So, I mean, it's just a different movement. But thank you for calling in so much. We appreciate it. Thank you, guys. And I can't wait to listen. All right. Also, thank you. Have a good night.
[30:14] Oh, maybe. I don't play around with the disrespect. I was the queen of a behind-the-arm pinch. Gonna meet you together real quick. You know how bad that hurt? Pinch yourself behind the arm real quick. Come here, let me pinch. No, I don't like a behind-the-arm pinch. I'm more like a little snap to the chest. Lose your breath. Not taking a breath. Organize yourself. Pull yourself together. Pfft.
[30:41] You can't even really cry. I can't. Yeah, I mean, everybody's different. But what I will say, did you discipline Bryce and Bronnie and Zuri differently? Yes, I did. Zuri ain't never got a whooping before by me. By me, a day in her life. No. Never. That baby ain't never been touched. Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
[31:09] I mean, and the boys, they was pretty good, to be honest. I didn't hand out many, you know. My mom used to call them show nuffs for me. And I'm like, Mom, why did you used to say show nuff? She was like, it was a show nuff ass whoop. So all I had to say was show nuff and you straight enough. But I never really had to, like, get them together like that. But they knew. I feel like now in my evolution, like, in understanding that Zuri is a lot more, like,
[31:35] with it. So to have a conversation with her is the way that I prefer to go rather than take any other form of discipline because she gets it. Yeah. Zori is basically our best treacherous little twin. Yeah. Oh, well, okay. All right. Let's do a voicemail. I think we have a bunch. Take it to the voicemails. Take it to the voicemails. Hi, my name is Marcelle. I'm from Detroit, Michigan. And my crazy is,
[32:02] I met a guy at work who I ended up liking a lot and I ended up leaving my ex-fiance for. Only for me and this guy to date for about a year and a half before I started to kind of see he was like narcissistic. But it was already too late because I hadn't gotten pregnant. Our baby was born 18 weeks early. So it was like very traumatic. And then we ended up like just starting to have like really bad like relationship issues.
[32:31] I want to say one night in particular, we got into a really bad argument and I had to call the police. When I called the police, they came, they escorted him out. And five days later, I found out he had just gotten married that day, five days later. So here I am, a single parent.
[32:52] at this moment, because he refuses to take care of his daughter. But the more shocking, more crazy part is the fact that he got married five days after we broke up. That's insane. That's insane. I don't even know what to say. First of all, fuck him.
[33:15] Yeah, like... I'm just pissed off. She gave me the nigga's name. Like, I don't even know what happened. I don't even fight. I just plot on him, do something. All of a sudden, he lose a job. No, I just think that's unfortunate. It's so unfortunate. And I just think people be lying.
[33:35] People do be lying. Like lying for no reason, lying for the gram, lying for whatever, lying for opportunity. Obviously, he was dealing with multiple women. He gets in a fight like he was in a whole other relationship. But I just my biggest thing, though, is the lying and and the repercussions to others is wild to me. You mean the lack thereof repercussions to others?
[34:02] The lack there or like how others, how it affects others. Like as such an extreme measure, like that girl, the kid, her family, obviously not really his family. I mean, the other guy, he was probably in love and ready to make a family. And you like, I'm actually going to go over here. There was a lot of dynamics and a lot of feelings. That call, you could feel it was heavy and heavy.
[34:28] hurt and although it's crazy I do believe everything happens for a reason so hopefully she can like heal and move on and get back out there and find somebody that really loves her because everybody deserves love love so many people that oh wait so many things I gotta tell you yes
[34:58] I thought you was going to tell him something. Yeah. Yeah. Hopefully she can find some love because that wasn't it. Sending you good vibes. Yeah. Sending you good vibes. Today was good. Today was good. Today was fun. We did good. It was funny. We got pranked by Pricey. It was just good vibes all around. It's interesting. I feel like this...
[35:28] Having people call in and speak to people and also just the callers and the energy of like people's crazy, but it's actually real life things and it's not like negative energy or gossipy. And also a few people like shooting their shot. I appreciate like. Right.
[35:47] I'm just thankful for the show. Just the platform. I love this platform. It opens up for a lot. Opens up for a lot of good vibes. So thanks for joining us. Everybody's Crazy, episode two. We're taking it on down in the books. We'll see you around, guys. See you later. Everybody's crazy. Everybody's crazy.

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