# Proof that YOU are not lacking ANYTHING, bestie <3

An episode of [Call Me Back with Daniella Your BFF](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1723564404), 1 Jul 2025, 18 min.

Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2333346/episodes/17432178-proof-that-you-are-not-lacking-anything-bestie-3.mp3

Bestie! Let me prove it to you that you’re not lacking in anything. You’re not the odd one out. You are one of a kind. And if it hasn’t happened yet, it just means your story isn’t over—and that it still will happen. This episode is your reminder that you are not behind, not missing anything, and not the odd one out—no matter how it might feel some days. You are one of a kind, and that’s your superpower. Maybe the relationship hasn’t come yet. Maybe the dream job still feels far away. But that doesn’t mean it’s not happening. It just means your story is still unfolding. In a world that loves to make women feel like they’re running out of time, this is your pause, your deep breath, and your truth: what’s meant for you will find you—and when it does, it’ll be worth the wait. Let’s talk about it. Pick up bestie...I'm calling!! ⭐️ Listen on Spotify 💖 Listen on Apple Podcasts 🎥 Watch on Youtube Follow on Instagram: 💗 @Daniella.your.bff 🎙️ @TheCMBpodcast

## Transcript

[0:00] SPEAKER_00: Hey girlies, it's Daniela, your BFF with relatable girl talk and crazy dating stories.
[0:05] SPEAKER_00: Are you ready to chat?
[0:07] SPEAKER_00: I'm calling.
[0:08] SPEAKER_00: Ooh, hi, Bestie.
[0:09] SPEAKER_00: This is the Call Me Back podcast.
[0:11] SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Daniela.
[0:13] SPEAKER_00: Sometimes I forget to introduce myself, but here we are.
[0:16] SPEAKER_00: Remember today.
[0:17] SPEAKER_00: How are you?
[0:18] SPEAKER_00: Bessie, I hope you're doing good.
[0:20] SPEAKER_00: I hope you're having a good day.
[0:21] SPEAKER_00: And you know what?
[0:22] SPEAKER_00: If you haven't had a good day so far, you're here.
[0:24] SPEAKER_00: We're gonna have the best time.
[0:26] SPEAKER_00: Um, you know, we need to just get right into it because you're a busy girl.
[0:30] SPEAKER_00: You don't have time to waste.
[0:31] SPEAKER_00: It's Hot Girl Summer.
[0:33] SPEAKER_00: It's unfiltered girl summer, it's bestie summer.
[0:36] SPEAKER_00: We are living our best life.
[0:38] SPEAKER_00: Okay, I want to talk to you about something today.
[0:41] SPEAKER_00: Um, you are not lacking anything.
[0:44] SPEAKER_00: I think that a lot of us go through our lives feeling like somebody else has something that we don't have.
[0:50] SPEAKER_00: We're the odd one out.
[0:51] SPEAKER_00: We're missing something.
[0:52] SPEAKER_00: And sister, if we talk like that to ourselves long enough and we think those thoughts long enough and we buy into that mindset long enough, it will literally hold you back from your destiny.
[1:04] SPEAKER_00: And in case you're questioning if you have a big big purpose, sister, the chances of you even coming to be on this earth is one in 400 million.
[1:12] SPEAKER_00: So, like, God put you here for a reason and it was not an accident.
[1:16] SPEAKER_00: I feel like someone is listening to this today that like really needed to hear this and really needed to be told that they are supposed to be here, that it's not a waste, that you're not taking up space, but that you add value to this earth just by existing.
[1:32] SPEAKER_00: Why?
[1:32] SPEAKER_00: Well, first of all, you're a child of God, so it makes you a princess.
[1:36] SPEAKER_00: So you are royalty, and just by existing, and just by breathing air and exhaling hair, hair, air, you bring joy to this world, even when you don't see it.
[1:50] SPEAKER_00: There are things that you do in your day-to-day that impact people and that help people that you can't see and you haven't seen, sister, and you need to trust that this is real and that this episode is for you, bestie.
[2:06] SPEAKER_00: You are not lacking anything.
[2:09] SPEAKER_00: You are not the odd one out, you are not the one that's never gonna make it and never gonna succeed and always be behind.
[2:16] SPEAKER_00: That's not your story, but sister, I can relate to you if you're feeling that way because that was my that was my story.
[2:26] SPEAKER_00: That's what I had felt like.
[2:27] SPEAKER_00: I was buying into the fact that it hasn't happened for me yet.
[2:31] SPEAKER_00: My dreams have not come true.
[2:32] SPEAKER_00: I failed at everything.
[2:34] SPEAKER_00: The dream that I thought God had given me in my heart, I I didn't succeed at.
[2:39] SPEAKER_00: I had failed, it wasn't working out for me.
[2:43] SPEAKER_00: I there must be something wrong with me.
[2:45] SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's just not meant to happen for me.
[2:47] SPEAKER_00: Bessie, wrong.
[2:50] SPEAKER_00: It wasn't my time yet.
[2:52] SPEAKER_00: Here's something you need to realize, sister.
[2:54] SPEAKER_00: When you have these big Delulu dreams, as we like to call them.
[2:59] SPEAKER_00: First of all, they're not Dululu.
[3:00] SPEAKER_00: They've been given to you for a reason because you're the only purpose that can accomplish them, you're the only person that can accomplish them.
[3:06] SPEAKER_00: But also, sister, the timing has to line up perfectly.
[3:12] SPEAKER_00: The timing has to be flawless for all the little things to come together, for it to all mean something.
[3:20] SPEAKER_00: Your story is just more than a girl who's gonna fall in love and succeed and have a nice house one day, and this, this, this, and this.
[3:29] SPEAKER_00: Your story is so much more profound than that, sister.
[3:33] SPEAKER_00: You are here to impact people, you are here to help people, you are here to change the world, you are here to leave an impact that lasts beyond your life on this earth, sister.
[3:47] SPEAKER_00: So there's so many little things that add up and go into your story, than just girl meets boy, gets married, this, that, this, that.
[3:59] SPEAKER_00: And if you're sitting there thinking, like, well, that it hasn't even happened yet, that's what I'm saying, Bestie.
[4:03] SPEAKER_00: Your timing, the timing of your story is so brilliant and so perfectly orchestrated that the timing has to line up.
[4:12] SPEAKER_00: So if you're sitting there thinking, like, it's over, I should have accomplished X, Y, and Z by now, by this age.
[4:19] SPEAKER_00: How come she has X, Y, and Z?
[4:21] SPEAKER_00: Side note, I saw a video the other day, so good.
[4:23] SPEAKER_00: It said, don't get caught compared, like, how did they phrase it?
[4:28] SPEAKER_00: They said some people, oh my gosh, how do they phrase it?
[4:32] SPEAKER_00: Are like comparing, like they want what God has for them, but they are comparing to some other person, and the devil has them there.
[4:42] SPEAKER_00: Like, not to get too dark on you, sister, but like a lot of times comparison slows us down because we're thinking, why don't we have what Ashley has?
[4:50] SPEAKER_00: Sister, Ashley is not even living the plan in this big, beautiful plan that you think that she is.
[4:56] SPEAKER_00: She is caught up in some stuff.
[4:58] SPEAKER_00: You only get to see a portion of her life, only a glimpse into her life.
[5:02] SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh, this leads me to this one story, sister.
[5:05] SPEAKER_00: I just have to tell you this really quick.
[5:07] SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh.
[5:07] SPEAKER_00: So one time, this is when I was living in LA, and I worked this seat filler job, and I was sitting there, and this girly who was so beautiful, she looked like a like a model, and I was like, oh my god, this girl is so beautiful.
[5:21] SPEAKER_00: And and at the time I was dating this guy who was so uh um, I mean, I really like okay, I was in love with him, but like he was not treating me right, right?
[5:30] SPEAKER_00: And this girly goes into telling me about this wild love story that she was experiencing, okay?
[5:36] SPEAKER_00: Like she had gone on this audition, the movie producer fell in love with her in the audition, swept her off her feet, gave her this five-star life.
[5:45] SPEAKER_00: We're talking private jets, we're talking mansions, we're talking like OMG, are you kidding me?
[5:52] SPEAKER_00: Okay, so I remember sitting there and listening and thinking, like, oh my gosh, like I am happy for her, but what's wrong with me that I can't even get a my boyfriend to text me back or to pick me up when he says he's going to, and when I ask him to check out other to stop checking out other girls, he doesn't stop and he makes me feel like crap and he compares me to other women.
[6:15] SPEAKER_00: Girly, I I am the kind of girl and I've really worked on this.
[6:19] SPEAKER_00: It is something that I have worked on, sister, and I've gotten so much stronger.
[6:23] SPEAKER_00: But I used to really struggle with comparison, and it I would be the girl that would genuinely be happy for that other girly, but then I would take it personally like something was wrong with me, the fact that I wasn't experiencing that.
[6:35] SPEAKER_00: And um now I feel like I'm much more in ahead place where I trust God and I'm like, listen, if I'm not, if I don't have something right now, it's because it's not for me.
[6:44] SPEAKER_00: God is with me.
[6:46] SPEAKER_00: Now that I'm 32, I've seen God show up a few times, or not a few times, a lot of times, and do the things that I felt like he promised me.
[6:54] SPEAKER_00: Anyway, sister, this girl had this like whirlwind romance, and I was like, okay, like that's literally insane.
[7:01] SPEAKER_00: You know, why isn't that happening for happening for me?
[7:04] SPEAKER_00: The next time that I saw her, sister, she ended up telling me that that relationship, everything she found out was fake.
[7:14] SPEAKER_00: Like the mansion that he was living in, he was renting it, something like that, but like he couldn't even keep up with the rent.
[7:20] SPEAKER_00: The private jets weren't his.
[7:21] SPEAKER_00: He was doing some really, really sketchy stuff that I cannot share on here.
[7:26] SPEAKER_00: Um, the diamond ring that he had proposed to her with was fake.
[7:30] SPEAKER_00: He ended up not being treating her well, like all this crazy stuff.
[7:34] SPEAKER_00: And I remember thinking like it was the biggest lesson.
[7:37] SPEAKER_00: You cannot compare yourself to other people because you don't know what's actually going on.
[7:43] SPEAKER_00: I mean, I know there's a million reasons that you shouldn't compare yourself, but for the girlies that really struggle with it like I did, Bestie, you cannot compare your story to somebody else's because they might not even actually be living the dream that you think that they are.
[7:57] SPEAKER_00: And sister, I have had the, I don't want to say privilege, I've had the experience, I don't know, whatever word, of a lot of like in life getting to see the other side of stories.
[8:07] SPEAKER_00: Like people who were celebrities that everybody thought that they had it all together, and then I got to see behind the scenes moment of them, IRL, and I was like, oh, it's a lot different than what's portrayed.
[8:17] SPEAKER_00: Same thing goes with influencers, same thing goes with um just like a lot of different situations situations in life where I've gotten to see, or even if it was like a friend, and then you see what's actually going on, sister.
[8:30] SPEAKER_00: No one has a perfect life, everybody has their struggles.
[8:34] SPEAKER_00: You need to just trust in that, and you are not lacking anything, and comparison is not even worth it because you might be comparing yourself to something that isn't even a good thing.
[8:47] SPEAKER_00: And sister, you want good things in your life, and the truly good things.
[8:54] SPEAKER_00: I'm not just talking like a rich man, I'm talking like the good, good things, like a kind of man that is going to fill your soul and take care of you.
[9:03] SPEAKER_00: I don't know why I feel like you need to say this, but sister, money is not the end goal.
[9:07] SPEAKER_00: Money comes and goes.
[9:11] SPEAKER_00: But a man that cares for you and takes care of you and loves you, trusts you, and respects you, that's eternal.
[9:19] SPEAKER_00: Bessie, all this to say, you're not lacking anything.
[9:21] SPEAKER_00: And I just want to encourage you right now that if you feel like you are missing something, you're like, I'm in the part of my story where I'm missing something.
[9:29] SPEAKER_00: I clearly have messed this up.
[9:32] SPEAKER_00: I've clearly chosen the wrong path.
[9:34] SPEAKER_00: I'm really regretting where I'm at, regretting the choice that I made that got me here.
[9:38] SPEAKER_00: Dare I say, Bestie, you're actually exactly where you're supposed to be in the correct path on the way to receiving and getting the desires of your heart.
[9:54] SPEAKER_00: Bestie, when I when I met Jake, I told him, I was like, uh, don't date me if you're not down to move to Nashville, because I need to move to Nashville and pursue country music.
[10:06] SPEAKER_00: That boy did not want to move to Nashville.
[10:08] SPEAKER_00: That's not his scene, but he loved me.
[10:11] SPEAKER_00: And he s built a whole RV for us, right?
[10:14] SPEAKER_00: You know the story.
[10:15] SPEAKER_00: And to get us to move us there because we didn't have any money, I got there and I had spent years trying to get to Nashville, but ob school after ob school, I couldn't get there, whatever, whatever.
[10:25] SPEAKER_00: Money, etc., etc.
[10:27] SPEAKER_00: I finally got there, Bestie, after years of feeling like it's what I needed to do in order for my dreams to come true.
[10:35] SPEAKER_00: I got there and it was not what I expected it to be, and my dreams did not come true when I was there, right?
[10:42] SPEAKER_00: And I was like, oh my gosh.
[10:44] SPEAKER_00: I was I I was convinced this is where I needed to be.
[10:48] SPEAKER_00: And I moved all the way here and nothing's working out.
[10:52] SPEAKER_00: But God had other plans, Bestie, because what he did is even though I moved myself all the way to Nashville, he made my dreams come true in an even better way that I could not see coming.
[11:07] SPEAKER_00: And the coolest part was is that I didn't even have to be in Nashville, I didn't even have to be anywhere.
[11:12] SPEAKER_00: God was like, psych.
[11:13] SPEAKER_00: I was about to say bish, but I don't think God says psych bish.
[11:18] SPEAKER_00: I think he probably says psych, my beautiful holy daughter.
[11:21] SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
[11:23] SPEAKER_00: He's like, psych, girl, your dreams are gonna come true no matter where you are, because I'm in control, not you.
[11:29] SPEAKER_00: Oh, is that something we need to talk about this?
[11:32] SPEAKER_00: God is in control, not us.
[11:33] SPEAKER_00: I need to talk about, I need to preach to myself right now.
[11:36] SPEAKER_00: There's a situation right now that is really stressing me out, girl.
[11:39] SPEAKER_00: I'm on the freaking verge of freaking out.
[11:42] SPEAKER_00: You know what?
[11:43] SPEAKER_00: God is in control.
[11:44] SPEAKER_00: God is in control.
[11:45] SPEAKER_00: God's gonna work it out for our good.
[11:46] SPEAKER_00: God's gonna work it out for our good.
[11:48] SPEAKER_00: Bestie, you are exactly where you're supposed to be.
[11:52] SPEAKER_00: And even if you're like, even if it's not like a supposed to be thing, like God can make your dreams come true no matter where you are.
[12:00] SPEAKER_00: He is not confined by a geographical location on Google Maps.
[12:05] SPEAKER_00: Bestie.
[12:07] SPEAKER_00: Are you listening?
[12:08] SPEAKER_00: You better be listening.
[12:09] SPEAKER_00: Don't start doubting.
[12:10] SPEAKER_00: I know you're starting to feel encouraged right now, and you have a little negative voice going into your mind being like, well, well, well, well what?
[12:19] SPEAKER_00: Well what?
[12:20] SPEAKER_00: This is the truth, sister, and you need to armor yourself up with this truth because our minds are a little battlefield, and our minds will take us to places that we shouldn't go.
[12:31] SPEAKER_00: We need to stay encouraged, we need to be reminded that we are not lacking anything, but instead we are just in chapter three of our story.
[12:38] SPEAKER_00: We feel like we should be in chapter nine.
[12:41] SPEAKER_00: Nope.
[12:42] SPEAKER_00: Nope.
[12:43] SPEAKER_00: It's not time yet.
[12:45] SPEAKER_00: I think growing up we're taught somehow that life is supposed to happen so much faster.
[12:51] SPEAKER_00: No, Curly, it is so common to still be single in your 30s.
[12:56] SPEAKER_00: It is so it's it's so common to have be divorced in your 40s, 50s, 60s.
[13:03] SPEAKER_00: It is so common to um and like be divorced and like looking for love again.
[13:09] SPEAKER_00: It's like it's very common.
[13:11] SPEAKER_00: It's very common to not have your dream job in your 30s.
[13:15] SPEAKER_00: It's very common to be in a new city and have not having made friends yet in your 40s.
[13:20] SPEAKER_00: Like I think that like maybe the movies and Disney Channel, I don't know, made us feel like we were supposed to have all this stuff together so early.
[13:28] SPEAKER_00: Maybe because that's what the writers did, because it makes a good plot.
[13:33] SPEAKER_00: Bestie, you're not lacking anything.
[13:35] SPEAKER_00: You are exactly where you're supposed to be.
[13:40] SPEAKER_00: Your destiny isn't small, your purpose isn't small.
[13:44] SPEAKER_00: You need to wait on the right timing for everything to come together the way that it's supposed to, and you're not supposed to try and do it all yourself and s and you're not supposed to just how do I say this?
[14:00] SPEAKER_00: You're not supposed to settle and you're not supposed to take it in your own hands, Bessie.
[14:04] SPEAKER_00: Like, yes, we work hard and we hustle and we make we we work toward our dreams.
[14:08] SPEAKER_00: At the end of the day, I just have this feeling that the things that are going to be the best things in your life, the best things, it's gonna be because God opens the door or puts the person in your life or blesses you at just the right time.
[14:21] SPEAKER_00: So do not grow weary of doing good because at just the right time you will reap a harvest girlfriend.
[14:33] SPEAKER_00: I'm being so serious.
[14:35] SPEAKER_00: Alright, girly pop.
[14:37] SPEAKER_00: Listen, I know you're busy.
[14:39] SPEAKER_00: This is a really short up.
[14:40] SPEAKER_00: Is that cool?
[14:41] SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't know, is that too short?
[14:43] SPEAKER_00: Let me think about something else that we could chat about really quick.
[14:46] SPEAKER_00: Um, let's chat about ooh, okay, wait.
[14:51] SPEAKER_00: We're not gonna chat about this now, but I'm gonna tease you.
[14:54] SPEAKER_00: So a lot of the girlies will ask, they'll be like, um, how, what is like the number one piece of relationship advice that you have for your like to get your fairy tale relationship, whatever.
[15:09] SPEAKER_00: Bestie, I have the answer to that and I'm gonna do it in the next episode.
[15:13] SPEAKER_00: So make sure you hit that subscribe button, follow button.
[15:18] SPEAKER_00: I actually don't even know what buttons are on there, if I'm being so honest with you, but whatever one that's like says that you like the pod, please do that one.
[15:26] SPEAKER_00: Because I'm just a girl out here.
[15:28] SPEAKER_00: I'm just trying to like chat with my besties, okay?
[15:32] SPEAKER_00: It's just very simple.
[15:33] SPEAKER_00: I just love my girls.
[15:34] SPEAKER_00: Um, also, I'll give you a little peek into like what this, like, if you're like, what is she doing right now, or like what does this look like?
[15:41] SPEAKER_00: So I'm sitting in my little um office, and when I say office, I mean it's like an unhinged room in our house that has makeup lying all over the floor.
[15:49] SPEAKER_00: Um, there's a Starbucks coffee molding to the left of me.
[15:53] SPEAKER_00: Uh it's been in here for a minute, a piece of used dental floss to the right of that Starbucks cup.
[15:58] SPEAKER_00: Um, and then there's um like this little broken drawer of makeup that I use as like a table.
[16:05] SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh, what a hot mess express.
[16:07] SPEAKER_00: And then to the right of that, a pair of shoes that I need to return.
[16:10] SPEAKER_00: Um, because I was so excited for these shoes, Bestie.
[16:13] SPEAKER_00: Oh my gosh, I even paid for premium shipping, which I've never done.
[16:16] SPEAKER_00: And I was like, I was trying to get them in time, and they arrived.
[16:19] SPEAKER_00: These white shoes arrived with a black stain.
[16:23] SPEAKER_00: When I tell you I had a Menti B.
[16:26] SPEAKER_00: Actually, shout out though to this brand.
[16:28] SPEAKER_00: It's not a brand deal at all.
[16:29] SPEAKER_00: Dolce Vita.
[16:31] SPEAKER_00: I actually messaged them because I was trying to get these shoes in time for this little anniversary trip that we were going on.
[16:36] SPEAKER_00: And I messaged them and I was like, hey, your shoes arrived damaged.
[16:39] SPEAKER_00: And they literally sent me a whole other pair.
[16:42] SPEAKER_00: Um, and they just said, please just send the other ones back.
[16:44] SPEAKER_00: Like, we'll trust you.
[16:46] SPEAKER_00: And I was like, oh my gosh, what great customer service.
[16:49] SPEAKER_00: And they totally sent another pair and they did express shipping.
[16:52] SPEAKER_00: So, you know what?
[16:53] SPEAKER_00: It all worked out, and I stressed out for nothing.
[16:55] SPEAKER_00: But shout out to them because not often brands will do that, they won't even care about you, you know?
[16:59] SPEAKER_00: So that was really nice.
[17:01] SPEAKER_00: Um, okay, Bestie.
[17:03] SPEAKER_00: Also, um, I have to tell you too, I created the cutest sweatshirts for you.
[17:11] SPEAKER_00: They are taking forever to get, and it's been like a low-key struggle for me.
[17:15] SPEAKER_00: But stay tuned.
[17:16] SPEAKER_00: These sweatshirts are so freaking cute, you're gonna freak out.
[17:20] SPEAKER_00: Also, join the text club.
[17:21] SPEAKER_00: It's in the link in my bio on Instagram, Daniela.your.bf.
[17:25] SPEAKER_00: Literally, it will just make your whole day.
[17:27] SPEAKER_00: Honestly, sister, if you're like, I don't know, sign up.
[17:30] SPEAKER_00: And if you hate being in my text club, you can cancel.
[17:34] SPEAKER_00: But girly, you're not gonna hate it.
[17:36] SPEAKER_00: Okay.
[17:36] SPEAKER_00: I love you so much.
[17:37] SPEAKER_00: You're not missing or lacking anything.
[17:39] SPEAKER_00: You are special.
[17:40] SPEAKER_00: You are one of a kind, you are one in a million.
[17:43] SPEAKER_00: Don't you ever forget that.
[17:45] SPEAKER_00: Okay.
[17:46] SPEAKER_00: Love you, bestie.
[17:47] SPEAKER_00: Call me back.
[17:48] SPEAKER_00: Love you bye.

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