# I Wish You Knew

A podcast by Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov. Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships. From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all. If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!

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## Latest episodes

- [The Real Reason You Feel Like You Don't Matter | John R. Miles & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/165f1250a57f) (2026-10-28, 57 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/i7p2y5ynfe7nzdmm/Video15_John_Miles7lcgk.mp3
- [Why Men Pull Back When They're Hurting (And How To Help Them) | Dr Aaron Kheriaty](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/98577e6221e3) (2026-10-23, 67 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/9n8k7wkyyuhj6gj3/15_Oct_IWYK_Dr_Aaron_Kheriaty_2_Audio85owt.mp3
- [Why Modern Dating Is Failing Those Seeking Marriage | Emily & Daniel Hussem](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/252e75c65845) (2026-10-12, 73 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/6yeu3un5uikgkr7b/8_Oct_IWYK_Emily_Daniel_Audio9lh23.mp3
- [What Happens When Two Avoidants Fall in Love | Relationship Psychology Explained](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/b8958bd37e6e) (2026-10-01, 80 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/2rrh86kzh7zprgjp/IWYK_Carly_Randall_Partner_Audiobtuw2.mp3
- [What God Wants From Men: How to Build True Masculinity | Met. Jonah & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/f11103006ffb) (2026-09-24, 53 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/mw5b4cw5auv5xnun/24_Sept_Metropolitian_IWYK_Audio9nzei.mp3
- [The Truth About ADHD VS Attachment Trauma in Relationships | Dr. Steven Storage & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/852b9d13a52c) (2026-09-18, 71 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/pvpk745kddf8awst/IWYK_Episode_Dr_Steven_Storage7yoxv.mp3
- [The Real Reason Your Husband Is Pulling Away | Laura Doyle & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/9d09d2bfc133) (2026-09-11, 64 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/wj24ucdth2ey93vt/IWYK_Episode_Laura_Doylea1db7.mp3
- [How to Get Out of Your Head and Feel Like Yourself Again | Mark Walsh & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/5f033e2583ab) (2026-08-27, 55 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/hvhpjbjpshic7syy/Video20_IWYK_Mark_Walshbwmrm.mp3
- [I Respond to My Most UNHINGED Podcast Comments | Adam Lane Smith Reacts](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/e58e5311e620) (2026-08-22, 43 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/inipdywiqzaxn343/iwyk_0292.mp3
- [What Couples Therapy Gets Wrong About Men | Jeff St. James & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/0a69f951ee64) (2026-08-13, 69 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/qazeh28ya86eidnv/Video10_Jeff_StJames6aikj.mp3
- [The Science of Why You Cannot Feel Loved | Dr. Sue Carter & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/84c6699a566a) (2026-08-06, 72 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/7ud6ippuebswifdt/Video5_Dr_Sue_Carterb3bkg.mp3
- [What Psychiatry Gets Wrong About Attachment and Mental Health | Dr. Aaron Kheriaty & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/9e732e6761bf) (2026-08-04, 72 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/9p7p48zhkhqjhx6f/Video_23_IWYK_Dr_Aaron7ppv8.mp3
- [What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/b0a18332c59c) (2026-07-23, 58 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/43q47b7wmd7vsqe2/Video_18_IWYK_Brandon_Dana_Wade9dmee.mp3
- [13 Habits That Build Emotional Resilience | Amy Morin and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/23eb3ee019b8) (2026-07-23, 65 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/zvhrgrjik6fvpzms/Video_13_Amy_Morin9tdug.mp3
- [What Divorce Does to a Man’s Psychology | Adam Lane Smith & Ralph Brewer](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/3c956caa1821) (2026-07-09, 67 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/3ht79wxhf33k5afq/Draft_2-Video8_Ralph_Brewer9yjb2.mp3
- [Why 83% of Relationship Money Fights Are About Attachment | Rachel Cruze and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/35a299eb6560) (2026-07-03, 53 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/66ckzeuntynqur2z/ASL_x_Rachel_Cruze8im8f.mp3
- [Why Gen Z Women Are Lonelier Than Ever (& How To Fix It) | Freya India](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/404704855e0b) (2026-06-26, 74 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/u5ximvhpde38ts4z/ASL_x_Draft_1-_Freya_India6ss1f.mp3
- [Why Women Fear Men and How To Fix It | January Donovan and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/a989df99b6c0) (2026-06-18, 70 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/xraeghf3w6xt6vu8/ASL_x_January8nws6.mp3
- [The Resentment Epidemic Your Wife Will Never Tell You About | Dr. Morgan Cutlip and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/577b26bf27d9) (2026-06-12, 73 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/nqzvahv47twww64k/ASL_x_Dr_Morgan6fhqs.mp3
- [Why Men Stop Trying to Make You Happy | Alison Armstrong & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/fa0955f77d0e) (2026-06-04, 71 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/dnptbwwev5gbaws9/Video4_Alison_Armstrong7vfpm.mp3
- [How to Win at Marriage (The Way You Win at Work) | Patrick Lencioni](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/a10ad509c300) (2026-05-21, 73 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/76j5ivwna35brz3r/IWYK_Patrick_Lencioni_audio9m6h9.mp3
- [What Nobody Teaches You About Making Friends as an Adult | Jordan Harbinger & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/4e362bfbc3c3) (2026-05-15, 60 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/w9u865dgdi5rw9wt/IWYK_Jordan_Harbinger_audio8kkis.mp3
- [The Real Reason Men Are Terrified of Fatherhood | Devin Schadt and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/136276e01268) (2026-05-08, 77 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/du4x4sjw8vzkgd8f/IWYK_Devin_Shadt_audiob1gbd.mp3
- [Why Nice Guys Finish Last | Marni Kinrys and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/c24b81413cf4) (2026-05-01, 66 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/uba4a5ebmeatgx34/IWYK_Marni_Kinrys_audioa7dm8.mp3
- [Why Christian Men Are So Anxious In Dating | Franco Fernandez & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/7a1ce0d306a3) (2026-04-24, 106 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/5yydyakttt2ey3sm/IWYK_Franco_audiobrdqk.mp3
- [Inside the Mind of an Avoidant Woman: Dating, Motherhood and Business](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/5b65a1de4af0) (2026-04-17, 86 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/s3zccke89drimvex/IWYK_Carly_Randall_audioave3y.mp3
- [Why You Attract the Wrong Men | Celebrity Matchmaker Alessandra Conti and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/0520fc7b2d74) (2026-04-11, 77 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/iy8pby4qk7hnyc8g/IWYK_Alessandra_Conti_audio_2_bczjh.mp3
- [Gabby Reece ALMOST Got a Divorce at 30... Then Did THIS | Attachment Psychology Explained](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/0bebb5cb703a) (2026-04-03, 62 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/d79ej6c7z3qi5z6r/IWYK_Gabby_and_Adam_audiobf3pg.mp3
- [The CEO and COO Model | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu and Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/1c50565f8841) (2026-03-26, 88 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/y32g2z5ugjqygm4h/IWYK_Tom_and_Lisa_audio7bza8.mp3
- [Is He a Narcissist or Just Avoidant? | Dr. Leslie Dobson & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/dd3a3e6fe1f1) (2026-03-20, 78 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/9ia74ggm5k4zsbka/IWYK_Adam_and_Dr_Leslie_Dobson_audio69gv1.mp3
- [The Science Behind Why Your Nervous System Is Destroying Your Kids (Without Knowing It)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/b6ea2ed9360b) (2026-03-18, 78 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/riam42cyx379xva9/MP3_-_Task_20_-_IWYK_-_A_LONGFORM_-_Hunter_Clark_Fields9ptuv.mp3
- [The Forgotten Attachment Psychology of Biblical Marriage | Jonathan Pageau & Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/c7dfc33ba1a1) (2026-03-06, 47 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/md4vcayrmwwc2hzk/Mp3_IWYK_Longform_Jonathan_Pageauba3bt.mp3
- [Attachment Styles at Work: Why Avoidant Leaders Destroy Companies](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/1db080c861eb) (2026-03-04, 65 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/kmwrsjt4mvvgg24c/IWYK_-_A_LONGFORM_-_Andrey_Korikova1mqs.mp3
- [Your Body Keeps Score When You Stop Feeling (The Attachment Style Nobody Talks About)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/c2ca568023de) (2026-02-21, 83 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/i9xthxce6yf42y5w/MP3_-_IWYK_-_A_LONGFORM_-_Raina_Dayneazdwn.mp3
- [Why Modern Parenting Is Creating a Mental Health Crisis (ft. Erica Komisar)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/a7cedaaaf875) (2026-02-13, 64 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/ps6eeihsv7t3ztpb/MP3_-_IWYK_-_A_LONGFORM_-_Erica_Komisarat1c4.mp3
- [How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men (ft. Danica Patrick)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/55cb05399efc) (2026-02-07, 92 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/wgnw5kdeh5m72wpb/Mp3_-_IWYK_-_Danica_Patrick66nmd.mp3
- [Why Dating Is A Failed Concept](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/e94ba146d7c7) (2026-01-30, 81 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/6u6fmkvirggt8nw8/Audio_-_Longform_-_Patrick_Coffin_-_Mp3aha3c.mp3
- [Schedule Your Feelings. Here's Why.](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/e2363637ed21) (2026-01-23, 73 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/jbusdcwjmfb3xqm4/Adam_x_Dr_Chris_Lee_-_Podcast_Audio5z5o3.mp3
- [The Science of Why Men Cheat (And How to Stop)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/a60c2e19fa67) (2026-01-16, 99 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/y9z3yawzun6t98c7/MP3_-_IWYK_-_A_LONGFORM_-_Dr_Orion_Podcast_R37dqqg.mp3
- [Your Partner Can't Fix Your Loneliness](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/fec122f35bd0) (2026-01-09, 67 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/yte3e83pim9u6gcv/IWYK_Krista_Williams_audio7owv6.mp3
- [She's Mothering Him (And He'll Leave Her For It)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/7d17cd2c50e5) (2026-01-01, 78 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/pf7q84ir9jecmw8m/IWYK_Kelsey_Wonderlin_audio5yubx.mp3
- [The Single Most Important Decision a Man Will Make](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/4622c329af35) (2025-12-29, 76 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/76irrca9g8f4dyss/IWYK_Adam_schafer_audiob5rmv.mp3
- [Why 50/50 Marriages Always Fail](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/0b93a6309f11) (2025-12-20, 46 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/86q87usts47w328q/IWYK_Quentin_Hafner_audio6ryvv.mp3
- [How Stress from Relationships Destroys Your Body | Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/a2db0874172f) (2025-12-13, 60 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/7bc2ij2cvvsr6ngj/IWYK_Nick_Norwitz_audio83ny6.mp3
- [What a 45-Year Marriage Taught Her About Masculine Leadership](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/e184b71c003a) (2025-12-05, 51 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/p5zkh3p3abmn7n5z/IWYK_Deniele_Hage_audio8tblq.mp3
- [Why Anxious Guys Struggle in Love (And How to Fix It)](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/becaaa0bd5b2) (2025-11-28, 74 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/wj6qrs47i9qpdagc/IWYK_Trevor_Hanson_audio8jxgx.mp3
- [The Real Reason Wives Stop Wanting Sex | Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/1064080390c0) (2025-11-21, 44 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/q89655ehxhqu5sek/IWYK_Monica_audioatmq8.mp3
- [What Porn Really Does to Your Brain (Neurologist Explains) | Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/39157b2acbcd) (2025-11-14, 68 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/vwqqdwb9r2z5ei6z/IWYK_Dr_Trish_audioaijho.mp3
- [High-Performing Moms and the Pain No One Sees | Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/e2f6a9abfd46) (2025-11-07, 76 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/u7j3erewvx8xzxxt/IWYK_Dayna_Ciarfalia_audioalvvk.mp3
- [She Couldn’t Feel Love Unless She Was Performing | Adam Lane Smith](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1713427809/49cb4105c1f1) (2025-10-31, 83 min): audio https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/66pystcepjwghwdr/IWYK_Annie_Memmott_audio7iizk.mp3

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