# This Keeps Happening with Vienna Pharaon

A podcast by Vienna Pharaon, Stitcher Studios. We all have the capacity to create long lasting change. I’m Vienna Pharaon, a licensed marriage and family therapist. I’ve spent over 25,000 hours working with individuals, couples and families, which has given me a front-row seat to our capacity for change, no matter how challenging a story might be. This is a show where I speak with anonymous people every week about the challenges they’re facing. And even though this is not how I work with actual clients – which has months, sometimes years of trust built together over time – it’s pretty incredible where a one-off conversation with someone you don’t know can lead you. In fact, I think it’s quite remarkable. I’m the author of the national best selling book ‘The Origins of You,’ which explores how to break family patterns so that you can liberate the way you live and love, and create the life and relationships you’ve always wanted. What I have found time and time again is that our unwanted patterns in our adult lives is unresolved pain from the past that’s grabbing for our attention. If we can be brave enough to face our patterns, a lot of beautiful healing work can happen. That’s why the show is named This Keeps Happening.…

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## Latest episodes

- [Named: Mark Groves and Kylie McBeath on breaking up and coming back together](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/f57c7d6f69cf) (2024-04-10, 59 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/8787c885-3bfa-4714-a6a4-5cc8d3c159d2/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=8787c885-3bfa-4714-a6a4-5cc8d3c159d2&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Navigating boundaries with an aging parent](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/8ff844a35cb6) (2024-04-03, 53 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/cab03039-b324-4303-a7de-c2961bb0761b/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=cab03039-b324-4303-a7de-c2961bb0761b&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I'm struggling to set boundaries with my mom](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/63f97a849510) (2024-03-27, 61 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/40487603-7e16-4eca-bd77-674e1daefdb0/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=40487603-7e16-4eca-bd77-674e1daefdb0&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Named: Tracy G on re-learning to trust yourself](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/62c537c89c4f) (2024-03-20, 53 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/1c0c122c-c05a-411b-bfec-5c5bfff94068/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=1c0c122c-c05a-411b-bfec-5c5bfff94068&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I made a big sacrifice. Now I’m worried I’ve lost myself](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/81329f5008df) (2024-03-13, 55 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/17fa4e9e-164e-4e73-a75b-67fcb7b5e819/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=17fa4e9e-164e-4e73-a75b-67fcb7b5e819&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Named: Kaitlyn Bristowe on her journey to self-acceptance](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/96fc64f90b18) (2024-03-06, 41 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/b2d0c4fb-b8d8-4a08-bf6e-d2cf42cabd4a/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=b2d0c4fb-b8d8-4a08-bf6e-d2cf42cabd4a&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I cheated and can’t forgive myself](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/080e75001d76) (2024-02-28, 50 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/0d056ea0-62c3-48c3-9ef7-0d5630b3ae71/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=0d056ea0-62c3-48c3-9ef7-0d5630b3ae71&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I feel misunderstood in my relationships](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/880b8e270def) (2024-02-21, 55 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/bdecc563-349a-4c93-81f7-0c9a77af16d1/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=bdecc563-349a-4c93-81f7-0c9a77af16d1&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Named: Connor Beaton on the practice of becoming an honest man](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/f9942166a98d) (2024-02-14, 54 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/3b85e10a-81fb-4205-a0f9-f4b98c64586e/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=3b85e10a-81fb-4205-a0f9-f4b98c64586e&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I'm scared of getting divorced again](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/c852ecf8de8e) (2024-02-07, 47 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/bb4f4c51-c8b0-4b82-8976-f23f3e4198eb/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=bb4f4c51-c8b0-4b82-8976-f23f3e4198eb&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I feel like I have to be perfect in order to be loved](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/b18aba3a73d0) (2024-01-31, 49 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/094ecaad-aa83-4bc2-98fa-d918313c098d/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=094ecaad-aa83-4bc2-98fa-d918313c098d&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I wish my relationship with my mom was different](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/0763178c09e4) (2024-01-24, 63 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/eed43e21-18f4-4bab-b487-8ea297921249/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=eed43e21-18f4-4bab-b487-8ea297921249&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I’m scared of my partner leaving me](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/67d0ef9869df) (2024-01-17, 47 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/71eb02bb-e9dc-40f0-a574-394021dd9b1b/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=71eb02bb-e9dc-40f0-a574-394021dd9b1b&feed=__qnwJZD
- [How to not lose yourself when you’re in a relationship](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/3741aad88e76) (2024-01-10, 57 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/eef47610-4d28-43b1-a2ba-b171548f8948/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=eef47610-4d28-43b1-a2ba-b171548f8948&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Taking a break for the holidays](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/318be5befcce) (2023-12-27, 1 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/c951e8e7-3ba5-42b0-87a0-d82d9c6f6baf/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=c951e8e7-3ba5-42b0-87a0-d82d9c6f6baf&feed=__qnwJZD
- [You can be messy and still be loved](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/dbf5c1cfba67) (2023-12-20, 58 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/6920ebda-3cdb-4e03-9d40-dc4fb90f6576/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=6920ebda-3cdb-4e03-9d40-dc4fb90f6576&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I’m about to become a mom and I’m terrified](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/c6a355cc7de7) (2023-12-13, 67 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/20115420-2f73-4d82-b7ef-98e359c5191b/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=20115420-2f73-4d82-b7ef-98e359c5191b&feed=__qnwJZD
- [My partner shuts down when I get upset](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/fb3c1db2a94c) (2023-12-06, 82 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/9e40ac04-9ae8-4d84-9556-15f61e4abfe8/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=9e40ac04-9ae8-4d84-9556-15f61e4abfe8&feed=__qnwJZD
- [My bosses always undervalue me and I can’t stand it](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/8e87216b3e5c) (2023-11-29, 55 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/53135503-7921-411e-8bef-106708d313e4/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=53135503-7921-411e-8bef-106708d313e4&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Taking a break this week](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/3882a082bc75) (2023-11-22, 1 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/c0e15413-13e7-4338-b3ce-28f847609ab4/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=c0e15413-13e7-4338-b3ce-28f847609ab4&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I don't feel complete without a partner](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/f7e61d9ad9ac) (2023-11-15, 61 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/94f20d63-c2bd-4ac2-ba32-17ce3237aee4/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=94f20d63-c2bd-4ac2-ba32-17ce3237aee4&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I was forced to keep my relationship hidden](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/87b214e2f1d0) (2023-11-08, 62 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/7ff700b7-5b1f-435c-9179-e44576773447/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=7ff700b7-5b1f-435c-9179-e44576773447&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I finally feel worthy, but there's something else blocking me from the life I want](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/50d146ee7095) (2023-11-01, 53 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/c9a4cad8-78a7-4c31-9206-3decc992dbc4/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=c9a4cad8-78a7-4c31-9206-3decc992dbc4&feed=__qnwJZD
- [A family secret revealed](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/afbc1484a53c) (2023-10-25, 63 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/0afdfa33-7acd-4402-a104-3bf33aad86d1/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=0afdfa33-7acd-4402-a104-3bf33aad86d1&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I don't want to be a jerk anymore](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/6a135f0bd1ef) (2023-10-18, 57 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/48a81119-c6fc-4960-8c23-6d0ec45f5abe/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=48a81119-c6fc-4960-8c23-6d0ec45f5abe&feed=__qnwJZD
- [I’m afraid to hate my partner’s family](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/cb0ac2f66530) (2023-10-11, 62 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/aa978107-74a2-4248-b3b6-1ffceba57c84/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=aa978107-74a2-4248-b3b6-1ffceba57c84&feed=__qnwJZD
- [We separated, but now we’re back together and trying to make it work](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/3f2c617d93e4) (2023-10-04, 60 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/60e185af-196b-465f-940c-196fa36a5171/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=60e185af-196b-465f-940c-196fa36a5171&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Why would I ever tell someone what I need? That’s letting them know your weakness](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/8ca2a9697e2c) (2023-09-27, 69 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/e8d03a59-8b69-4fdd-986f-dbaaf90ad917/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=e8d03a59-8b69-4fdd-986f-dbaaf90ad917&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Extended Sneak Peek From My Show](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/6dbb69a1c6c5) (2023-09-20, 9 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/643168ba-e85a-4a38-b38c-01ba6e59c469/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=643168ba-e85a-4a38-b38c-01ba6e59c469&feed=__qnwJZD
- [Trailer](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1702579456/b3770259de65) (2023-08-14, 2 min): audio https://pdrl.fm/51e8b5/stitcher.simplecastaudio.com/fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a/episodes/fe08c985-ffc0-47e6-a267-a0f5068e478f/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=fcf52ecb-a399-4c59-9be1-922276735b3a&awEpisodeId=fe08c985-ffc0-47e6-a267-a0f5068e478f&feed=__qnwJZD

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