# How to Be Confident No Matter What

An episode of [The Unstoppable U Podcast](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1701283776), 17 Sep 2026, 11 min.

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What if your confidence didn’t depend on your grades, your performance, or what other people think? In this episode, Coach Will breaks down how to stop giving your confidence away and start building it around the things you can actually control.

## Transcript

Will: Yeah. Hey, hey, hey, hello, hello, and welcome to the Unstoppable You podcast. It's your host, Coach Will, or at Coaching with Will on socials. And this is my weekly podcast where I share bite-sized wisdom and action-oriented success principles, all dedicated to help you crush your goals, develop confidence, and become truly unstoppable in life. So without further ado, let's dive in. In today's episode, we are going to be diving into the difference between conditional versus unconditional confidence. I'll be giving you tips to stop relying on other people for validation. And when you do so, you ultimately are allowed to take control of your confidence rather than handing it over to other people and over to things that you can't control. So when I say those big words, I got conditional versus unconditional confidence. Y'all, let's talk about it. And before I get into it, I just want you to know today's gonna be a really, really awesome day. Okay, that's all I had to say. So conditional versus unconditional confidence. Conditional confidence is saying I'm going to be confident if blank happens, if I get an A on a test, if my friends invite me to the party, if I make a golf team or a basketball team or the dance team. Key word is if. Now unconditional confidence is saying, you know what? No, no, no, no, no. No matter what happens, there's no ifs, ands, or buts. I'm gonna be confident in who I am and the things that I can control. I'm getting out of breath over here. I feel like I've gotta, I feel like I'm ready to run through a brick wall talking about confidence. So, conditional confidence, I'm gonna be confident if unconditional confidence is no matter what, no ands, ifs, or buts, I'm gonna be confident. Okay? Now let's break this down because. Y'all, I've gotta say, this could be one of the most important things that you listen to on the Unstoppable You podcast, hence why it's one of the very, very first episodes I was dying to make. Now I want you to think about

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