# 101: Turn His Avoidance Into Obsession: Make Him Chase You & Bond for Good with Adam Lane Smith

An episode of [BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko](https://invisiblenetwork.ai/podcast/1679077626), 23 Feb 2025, 1 h 07 min.

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Why do avoidant men run from intimacy, and how can you get them to bond without chasing? In this powerful conversation, Adam Lane Smith breaks down the core fears driving avoidant attachment styles and shares actionable tips to flip the script — so he starts chasing you. We talk about the emotional triggers that make men commit, the biggest mistakes women make when dating avoidants, and how to create deep, lasting bonds (without sacrificing your self-worth). 💖 If you've ever wondered, "Why won't he commit?" — this one's for you. In this episode: • The psychology behind avoidant attachment • How to stop chasing and make him pursue you • Emotional intimacy hacks that deepen connection • The key to turning avoidance into obsession 🎧 Tune in now to Being Her — and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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